Originally posted by: Amplifier
Should people use emotion in their arguments or is that a cheap way around making a legitimate point?
This isn't a question of effectiveness (I know yelling can get a point across). I feel that even a heated topic can be discussed rationally without resorting to an emotional display.
-Amp
Understanding what and why you are asking is, I think, as important as any answer:
What is involved for you with 'should or shouldn't', what kind of yardstick are you seeking and to satisfy what inner need? I hear some inner intimidation you seek ammunition with which to defend and defy, like I will feel better being logical or having lost arguments to emotion if I know emotion is wrong. In that case what you need is to become conscious of what you are feeling. Then the issue will resolve in another dimension.
Why the use of words like cheep and legitimate? Are you not asking a question about the use of emotion, emotionally? The question is, what are you feeling. I sense that there is hurt somewhere in here for you.
Most people, I think, can be rational when discussing things that do not affect or challenge or intimidate their ego or anything they have identified their ego with. I think people identify with externals, political parties, sports teams, nations, etc etc etc etc etc etc, because they feel worthless inside. They are constantly looking for something that's the very best so they can bask vicariously in its glory and hide their own feelings of inferiority from themselves. So when you come along all logical and knock down their tin gods, you threaten to kick out their crutch. That people will resist to the death because they we killed emotionally as children. We will die rather than relive that death.
Anyway, by now you may have completely lost interest in your question.