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She's Back! (Psycho Ex GF Story)

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I'm sorry man, but the outcome (therapy) is funny...she needs more than therapy...anger management, depression medication, inpatient psychiatric care, etc.

Does she do drugs or drink? If she does that probably makes her 10 times worse!
 
I hope she was like this before you hooked up with her.

But there's nothing wrong with hitting it a couple times 😀 j/k
 
tcsenter, you are way off base here. Waaay off. Shinerburke is the victim here, not the psycho ex. And I DID just call her a psycho, b/c that's what she is. What rational person keeps coming around, at all hours of the night, after they have been repeatedly told, in blunt terms, to fvck off and die? She pounds on his door in the middle of the night, calls his cell phone that she KNOWS is a "work phone" and basically stalks the poor guy.
This "poor victim" was the one who chose to get involved with this girl, so what does that say about him? You're confusing the issue, I'm not defending her actions. I'm saying that laughing at someone else who is obviously suffering and needs to seek some therapy isn't "funny", its just plain cruel. It DOES shed some light on what kind of human being HE is.
Maybe you need to go thru this yourself to understand.
Yeah, anyone who disagrees with anything you say obviously doesn't know what they're talking about, because you're "all-knowing-wise-one"...right?

Sorry pal, I've been there. I didn't laugh at her, nor was I cruel. I felt sorry for her, because she was obviously so emotionally troubled that it caused her to do stupid things like following me around, calling and knocking on my door at all hours. Love and relationships come with RESPONSIBILITY.

For whatever reason, she was so depressed when I broke off the relationship, she couldn't handle it. She felt ugly, unattractive, as if she would never find anyone else who could love her. I didn't do that to her, she had these issues long before me. I helped her get counseling, not use her for my own personal amusement...but then that's probably the difference between you and I.
Her Father is a recovering Alcoholic so the potential is there though.
Ah, you mean there IS another side of this story besides yours (there always is - ALWAYS)? So we are starting to get a glimpse of why she may be emotionally troubled. Yeah, that's funny!

I suppose next you'll tell us she was raped by her uncle as a child. Ho-Ho that's hilarious!
 
I'm beginning to think you enjoy this chaos. 🙂 Just the way your posts reflect that you're laughing at her when you get the best of her. 😀
 
Originally posted by: FettsBabe
I'm sorry man, but the outcome (therapy) is funny...she needs more than therapy...anger management, depression medication, inpatient psychiatric care, etc.

Does she do drugs or drink? If she does that probably makes her 10 times worse!

I have to assume she wasn't since his original thread about her was concerning how radically left-wing she was about the environment and kids and guns and stuff.

Oh wait... I guess liberals are pot-heads so maybe I'm wrong. :Q
 
Just the way your posts reflect that you're laughing at her when you get the best of her.
EXACTLY! I'm glad someone else picked-up on that. It was that one comment that told me something more is going on here than we are being told.
 
This "poor victim" was the one who chose to get involved with this girl, so what does that say about him?
Did I know she was like this when I started dating her? No, I wouldn't have gone out with her if I had. You need to go back and read the original thread and get the whole story before you come in here popping off about what a cruel A-hole I am.
 
It was that one comment that told me something more is going on here than we are being told.
You're right. I get my rocks off by coming into Internet forums and telling stories that don't include all the details. I just have so much to hide from people I don't even know.
 
Did I know she was like this when I started dating her? No, I wouldn't have gone out with her if I had.
Whatever emotional troubles she has that cause her to behave in such a manner are probably not your problem, in that you weren't the cause of them. But, you may have an opportunity to be part of the solution, though the significance of that is probably wasted on you and I'm just wasting my breath.
 
But, you may have an opportunity to be part of the solution, though the significance of that is probably wasted on you and I'm just wasting my breath.
Oh, I wasn't aware that it's my responsibility to help cure all the psycho women in the world. My bad.
 
shinerburke...

See what happens when you don't heed my advice? It all came back and bit you in the butt.

Kill her and bury her in the desert.
 
Oh, I wasn't aware that it's my responsibility to help cure all the psycho women in the world. My bad
No, you have no responsibility to your fellow man whatsoever. When you see a girl being raped or assaulted, just walk on. When you know of a child being abused, just ignore it. You are entitled to do these things, they aren't your "responsibility". After all, there will NEVER come a time when you might need someone to show you compassion...in which case I hope that someone is just like you.
 
No, you have no responsibility to your fellow man whatsoever. When you see a girl being raped or assaulted, just walk on. When you know of a child being abused, just ignore it. You are entitled to do these things, they aren't your "responsibility". After all, there will NEVER come a time when you might need someone to show you compassion...in which case I hope that someone is just like you.
Let's see.....I called her brother and talked to him about it. What more do you want me to do? Would driving her to therapry, holding her hand during the session, driving her home, making sure she goes "potty" and then wiping her ass be enough?
 
You don't think that we think it was all this simple .... do you ?

U were involved with her ... and there must have been numerous occasions when she would have displayed excessive posessive-ness.
You slept with her ... that made her emotionally dependent on you ...esp. considering her state.

And then ... one day u r gone ! What was the reason u gave for breaking up ?Please make it bold

hah !

Talk about being victimised !

* jus' my random thoughts*
 
U were involved with her ... and there must have been numerous occasions when she would have displayed excessive posessive-ness.
There were no signs that she had these problems until the whole Kool-Aid and cookies incident mentioned in the other thread. Am I supposed to start screening every woman I meet for signs of manic depression, schizophrenia, obsessive compulsive disorder, depression, co-dependence, etc, etc, etc...before I sleep with them? "I'm sorry honey, the relationship is going well and I think I would like to sleep with you. Before I can though I would like you to fill out this questionnaire about your mental state and have a nice visit with my staff psychologist."
 
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