I've been using a safety razor with the most popular handle out there (Merkur something, I believe, probably this -
http://www.amazon.com/Merkur-Long-Handled-Safety-Razor/dp/B000NL0T1G ) for probably two to three years. I used some feather blades to start (10 pack) and they were good but too expensive. Used a 100 pack of some other kind of blades and now I'm on a 100 pack of Derby blades. They're okay but I definitely remember the feather being very sharp/good. I just use some out of the can shaving cream/gel. I should consider using a brush and special soaps but whatever. I don't think those will actually get me a "closer" shave.
It's okay. It does take more time. I do tend to get more cuts with it. Especially against the grain. If shaving with the grain, it gets a closer shave than typical gillette fusion cartridges. However, it can be terrible for against and across the grain. And for me personally I need against the grain to actually have a smooth face. Otherwise, my face is just really rough. (More abrasive than sandpaper, honestly) Even then, there are areas that I completely avoid with the safety razor with against the grain because it's just asking for my face to be torn up. (Such as my chin, I cannot shave against the grain with a safety razor. It just catches on my skin too easily)
Reminds me that I should buy a straight razor and give that a shot eventually. That's even more expensive to start with though. (And probably more expensive to maintain too with all the honing shit you have to keep around)
I just don't shave as much as I used to. It's an impossible task to keep my face smooth. If I found a way to have it smooth, I'd shave more often. Right now though, the only way for it to be soft is to let the hair grow out and become flexible rather than the sandpaper it is when it's short.
Also, cannot shave against or across the grain much. I'm almost 100% guaranteed to have a lot of ingrown hairs resulting from it. Super painful, itchy, and extremely noticeable.