[Serious] Even at late 30s++, does it still feel like you're still actively maturing and learning about yourself?

[gorcorps]

absolutely

If you're still not growing/maturing then something is wrong. You should be learning your entire life, whether you really want to or not

 

[Albatross]

At work, despite being the person that everyone needs to come to to fix problems, I have been asked not to collaborate (why do we pay others), not to be authoritative (it scares others), and not to passive aggressively fix problems in the background (no one likes that). So, I sit back passively, trying to get some warnings in as best I can, and wait for the disaster to happen so they can come to me to fix it.

INTJ type personality by any chance?