Sorry to be harsh, but your comments are simplistic nonsense, ideology, etc.
It's not an either/or proposition: the estate tax could simply be eliminated along with a corresponding amount of government spending. I know, I know: blasphemy!
First, you're not answering the question, you're just shifting things around - IF spending was cut a trillion dollars, you face the same question - who is more 'deserving' of the tax relief for that million dollars (assuming you don't apply it for deficit reduction and cut taxes) - the working people, or do you put the trillion dollars of taxes on them and cut the ultra rich's taxes by the trillion dollars? It changes nothing in the question, so it's not worth discussing, and you haven't cut spending.
So as I said, the question remains, name who you tax more to cut the estate tax.
BTW, I'm for a lot of spending cuts. You don't agree with them presumably. We disagree on short term stimulus, though I'm opposed to 'too big to fail' being allowed.
But it's only blasphemous because you're not yet in touch with the reality of your method. On the one hand, you claim to want a meritocracy. On the other hand, you take away property earned by merit to give to those who have not earned it. This is a contradiction. You don't realize that the reason South America has ended up that way is because of government intervention in every facet of life. You don't see that government cannot create opportunities, only limit them. For every $10 that the government "redistributes" to the poor, a private charity could have given $15. For every government "fix," a group of new problems inevitably arises, which brings me to my next point:
This is an example of where you are simplistic. Let's hit on a number of your points.
'Meritocracy' comes in degrees. There's too much and too little, there are different issues.
If we're talking about allowing merit to determine who rises to greater power in a corporation and ownership of wealth to use for the economy, versus having a strictly hereditary approach where the powerful family always owns it all and gets almost all the profits from doing so, that's one issue. If we're having government require businesses to spend to accommodate the handicapped versus 'meritocracy', that's another issue.
South America did not have those problems because of the government. They had those problems because the few families had enough power to control the government, and prevent the people from controlling the government and addressing those issues. 'The Government' is not inherently much of anything, it depends who controls its agenda, such as the aristocracy or the general public. When in the hands of the aristocracy, it can be a horrifying instrument of tyranny; and in the hands of the public it can prevent that tyranny.
The government merely reflects who has the power. If the aristocracy controls it, get rid of the government and they just resort to 'private armies and forces' they control to repress. This is exactly why our founding fathers (and England's liberalization away from pure monarchy before that) moved more and more towards the citizens each having a vote and say apart from their other 'power' as serfs - and why the aristocracy has wanted to undermine that democracy.
It doesn't matter, it doesn't do the people any good to revert to that form of 'government-free private' tyranny.
You spout blind ideology about the government 'waste' and how private charity can do better. For a small situation, sometimes it can. Overall, it cannot.
The bottom line is that a society and its government voting in big programs that everyone chips in for can get far, far more done than any feasible private charities.
You don't get that.
The gap is lessened with the occasional exception like Bill Gates, but as I think even he agrees, you cannot address issues with philanthropy versus government programs.
Both have a place.
Again, you wanted big government to solve all of the world's problems.
Wrong. That's a straw man. But I want it to do some things, and that seems to be more than you.
I didn't. You got your way.
No, we live in a right-wing society with some modest liberalization - and a lot of corruption and waste you try to say is 'liberal', but is not.
Things are a lot more 'your way'.
I am simply living in the system you created. I am the reality of your utopia. You are an idealist who cannot accept that governments are intrinsically wasteful and corrupt, despite history's constant reminder that this is true under any system of government. You cannot accept that I can draw six figures from my couch under your ideal system of government. It's absolutely heretical to even suggest it, I'm sure, but that's the reality of the system that you have campaigned for all these years. You can't have government without waste, so saying that big-government liberals like to cut waste is simply another contradiction because growing the government necessarily grows waste.
I can't begin to discuss the anecdote of you without info. I don't know how much you make, what you do, and you can't generalize to 'government' from the anecdote anyway.
You can't have anything without waste. One of your problems is that you fixate on a tiny issue of one type of waste because of your ideology, but have no concern over a thousand times larger waste - even systemic waste - if your ideology apologizes for it. You'll be more concerned about one billion dollars you think it inefficient from the government, while trillions in redistribution to the top you are blind to.