Originally posted by: Descartes
I think there's something seriously wrong with seeking improvement through others, so I haven't any sources to reference for improvements I've achieved in my life over the years. I think such improvements should come from within, from reason, and through reflective thought on your experiences. If I find myself in conflict I reduce it to whatever levels necessary so that I can understand my behavior, and if necessary, improve it. Listening to the rhetoric of some self-help guru for a few hours does absolutely nothing for me.
How is listening to someone else tell you what to do using your brain? If you must, buy classic literature on tape, science seminars on tape, or maybe some language immersion on tape if you're trying to learn a new language.