Seeing her smile makes me angry

JM Aggie08

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Well several months ago my girlfriend cheated on me with a fried of mine, so i dumped her ass. it killed me for a few months after.

Now that we are through, her world is falling apart, and everyone that ever liked her or cared about her, dosent anymore.

Is it bad that i enjoy seeing this? Her losing all of her friends and several hating her? And whenever i see her happy, i get pissed. is that bad, or does she deserve it?
 

JM Aggie08

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everyone that she cared about, or loved cant stand her and hates her. Plus she can no longer afford college tuition so she has to go to a small in town school for the rest of her education.
 

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It's normal and natural to feel that way because you want to have the psychological advantage over her. But I would just forget about her because by the sounds of it she isn't worth worrying or thinking about.
 

JM Aggie08

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it is kind of difficult in a sense, because we share several mutual friends, well, for now anyways. I keep coming across her and it is just really agitating.
 

Fullmetal Chocobo

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Meh. Fvck her. I'm still bitter about my ex, because she's a bitch, and she did fvcked up sh!t. And I find it amazingly ironic that she is engaged to my ex-best friend who screwed me over. I think they deserve each other. But I don't worry about that stuff anymore, because it doesn't matter.

(I found out all that about them through myspace)

If it pisses you off that she smiles, so be it. Just don't dwell on the sh!t. :D
 

JM Aggie08

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Originally posted by: Fullmetal Chocobo


(I found out all that about them through myspace)

same thing! she left her login info on my computer and i signed in on it one day and found tons of messages between the two of them for about a month. huge blow to me, really hurt.
 

Fullmetal Chocobo

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Originally posted by: JM Aggie08
Originally posted by: Fullmetal Chocobo


(I found out all that about them through myspace)

same thing! she left her login info on my computer and i signed in on it one day and found tons of messages between the two of them for about a month. huge blow to me, really hurt.

Ah. Well, I found out about her cheating on me because she fvcked the dude right before coming to see me. I found out she was engaged through myspace. I've thought of all kinda of sh!t to put on there (I've been added as a friend, so I can post), but I just don't care anymore.

Sorry to hear about it man. Hate her all you want, but just don't dwell on it. I've been cheated on by all but 2 girls, and it life goes on.
 

CraigRT

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you are a spitting mirror image of me..

haha!

its not bad. I felt great when I knew people started to dislike her .. she deserves it anyways. :)
 

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You know what's really sad? I had a very similar thing happen to me. Man, chicks are t3h sux0rz. It's okay though, I ended up deleting my myspace because I didn't want to deal with all of the baggage that goes along with it, and seriously, my life is a lot better.

But yeah, that whole mutual friends thing can be a killer, but like, lucky for me I don't see them anymore. And I can honestly say that I am very thankful that it happened now, just because I don't think I would have experienced the things that I did if she hadn't cheated on me. So praise the Lord for growth through humility. Bad things started happening to my ex too, and she always comes back to me for comfort. It's no fun at all because I don't like being put in the position to have to deny someone, but like, seriously, it really isn't worth stumbling and bringing up old feelings because someone is plucking my heart strings for theme music.
 

JM Aggie08

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Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
Originally posted by: SynthDude2001
I'm surprised no one's said "Pics?" yet :p

Pics?


...were removed in my blaze of fury that night.

sry, i just wanted to get her out of my life.

im feelin better about this whole seeing her suffer thing already.
 

JM Aggie08

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Originally posted by: reverend boltron
You know what's really sad? I had a very similar thing happen to me. Man, chicks are t3h sux0rz. It's okay though, I ended up deleting my myspace because I didn't want to deal with all of the baggage that goes along with it, and seriously, my life is a lot better.

But yeah, that whole mutual friends thing can be a killer, but like, lucky for me I don't see them anymore. And I can honestly say that I am very thankful that it happened now, just because I don't think I would have experienced the things that I did if she hadn't cheated on me. So praise the Lord for growth through humility. Bad things started happening to my ex too, and she always comes back to me for comfort. It's no fun at all because I don't like being put in the position to have to deny someone, but like, seriously, it really isn't worth stumbling and bringing up old feelings because someone is plucking my heart strings for theme music.

amen
 

alm4rr

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If you want to stick it to her, just don't care anymore. ...
(saying it and living it 2 different things)
start gettin w/ her old ex best friends :thumbsup: