i can't believe no one has mentioned this point again. The customs folks, not just US, ask questions in a threatening way to increase stress on you. so perhaps if you're lying you say something wrong, get nervous, etc. this has been a law enforcement tactic for a long long time.Originally posted by: HomeAppraiser
The only reason I could think of for their rude behaviour is that they were trying to get you mad and judge your reaction.
and when you, get frustrated, you look suspicious. you;re angry, and feel mistreated, and which means you would probably like to hurt them. that fits the profile of a terrorist, someone who would like to take down authority.
you have to go in with the feeling they're just doing their job and do what they say, rather than go in with a chip on your shoulder.
also, your brother easily got in and you didn't mention any harrassment to him...