Well, not really. Here's the easy answer as to why (and also the reason my wife doesn't let me have conversations at dinner parties):
If the multi verse model is correct, we may live in a "living" universe, which is allowed because our universe is slightly defective.
While it sounds like a joke, it could be true. See, our universe leaks gravity. We're not sure where it's all leaking into , but it is. Because there's a gravity leak, it's affect on matter is weaker than any of the other forces. How much weaker? Look at the incredible energy needed to rip an atom apart--the strong and weak interaction forces really stick all those subatomic particles together for keeps.
Gravity on the other hand? Try jumping up into the air. Easy, wasn't it? You just resisted the gravitational pull of the entire Earth with your legs. While gravity has the farthest reaching effects of any of the forces, it is the least powerful.
And that's a good thing...if it were as strong as the other forces, matter would never have formed, and we all would not be here. The universe would be a tiny blob of plasma floating around in the void. Most universes may actually be like this---or maybe one of the other forces is "leaking", which would prevent particles from making strong bonds. Our universe has the EXACT balance of forces needed to allow matter to form, and this is so unlikely that many consider it to be very rare.
Why gravity is so weak is something that the greatest minds in physics are trying to discover. It is the key to knowing why we are here and where we are going. We've made many advancements in this field in the last decade, and have included the discovery of dark matter and dark energy- with dark matter seeming to increase gravity's effect, and dark energy seeming to weaken it's effect. Gravity's weakness could be attributed to the stretching of space...perhaps due to dark energy, which in effect dilutes the force. Gravity may also be getting blown into another dimension, filling it like invisible tanks and causing spatial expansion. There's a lot of crazy theories out there, and they're all valid at this point...we just need the funding to make the tools to find the answers.
Great time to me a physicist right now