Originally posted by: SchrodingersDog
It seems to me jvarszegi that you should think of the state of "selfless" as taking place in a vacuum without regard to the rest of the selfs out there. Most people feel that without other people there's little use for morality. To take ?morality? to refer to an actually existing code of conduct is quite likely to lead to some form of relativism. The process that leads to ego destruction may be impossible if at that time you're thinking of how the process is impacting your morals with regards to others. Morality exists in society whether we follow it or not, and that's the main reason for the cliche of the solitary monk in the cave seeking enlightenment. By escaping society he seeks to leave behind the expected morals of his peers but if the process is truly enlightening he will in the end achieve a state described in #1b, and probably but not necessarily #2. The idea is that a perfect moral life for you may be lived without striving to be moral or even knowing what the moral ideal would be, and most importantly that you will not see your "self" as living this life, it will just be lived. Among those who use ?morality? normatively, different specifications of the conditions under which all rational persons would put forward a code of conduct result in different kinds of moral theories, so when describing loss of ego, morality fits here best. When considering the motivations of others, compassion fits better.
I do think there are a few "event horizons" on the path to enlightenment, so you're right in thinking that there literally is a last possible moment to consider yourself subjective before taking this particular step.
What are these principles of moral conduct? I imagine that your scheme would perfectly well encompass a moral computer, or a home appliance such as a toaster that lived a perfectly selfless life according to the dictates that all rational home appliances would be expected (by some) to live under.
I see the main problem, now that you mention it, as this: you cannot stipulate any set of rules for living a perfect moral life that will be agreed to by all rational people. Not all ancient Chinese philosophers agreed on even
fundamental concepts, as I'm sure you know. You're stuck by your dependence on "rational people", or else you have to say that the perfect principles exist whether or not anyone chooses to follow them. Without being able to state these moral precepts, they achieve a mystical, Platonic quality, except with the additional fault that they cannot even be
imagined (except by very, um, egotistical people). Like it or not, morality is a normative phenomenon, although it is often rooted more in basic human needs than is ethics; it is human. It smells of bread and babies, not karma.
The scientific method has conquered all religion because it is the only way ever found by the human mind for something to be proven; of course, sometimes theories are "proven" and later cast down, but these exceptions only underscore the usefulness of science in general. Science has very deep philosophical underpinnings, and the scientific method represents an acknowledgement by the best deep thinkers of the past several thousand years: a realization that we must operate by consensus because there's nothing better.
I have met several people in the past who claimed to have achieved selflessness during meditation. The stories they tell have the feel of a drug newbie's tales of acid highs; the people that tell them always seem on the make. They don't seem to me to bear the mark of a deeply changing experience. If selflessness is achieved, how often do you reckon it happens?