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Saying Others are Hot Around Your GF/BF

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I forget what show was on T.V. but I know Julia Stiles was on it. I remarked "She's hot" without thinking anything of it and my gf gets mad. WTF? I can't say a celebrity is hot? Like I'm gonna cheat on my gf with Julia Stiles, or that I don't think my gf is good looking. I asked her if she thought any guy celebrities were good looking and she said "Josh Hartnett, if I saw him I'd go up to him and grab his ass and run away." Hahaha that was kinda funny.

Then another time at a party she says to me, "Do you think that girl is cute?" I looked at the girl she was talking about and she was pretty good looking. I said "No" cause I knew she would've been mad. Well not mad mad, but displeased. Heh.

Similar situations happen to those of you with significant others?
 
The questions "Do you think X is pretty?" is a trap. Your best move is to plead the fifth, because you can't plead the first.

Ryan
 
Usually I get into relationships where I'm secure enough to say that a woman looks good. My SO will also remark on hot guys. I don't get mad for observing the obvious
 
Uh, no. My GF and I are past that high-school, immature, teenage grab-ass stage of the relationship.

It's perfectly healthy and acceptable to find others attractive. Just don't do the total 180-degree head spin in the mall, complete with drool.

- M4H
 
Originally posted by: americangigolo
Originally posted by: JeffreyLebowski
Ah, it's nice have a GF who's Bi. 😀
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Where did you get that? She's not, although I would agree with you if it were true. 🙂
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Where did you get that? The world does not revolve around you, and anyone with the common sense of an artichoke could see that it was Jeffrey talking about his own GF.

And I say again - :camera:s?

- M4H
 
Men just dont get it...

Deep down, we all know that you guys are always looking at other women, but still, we want to feel beautiful to you. What makes me mad is when guys oogle chicks that the g/f knows she will never be able to look like. Inside, we are thinking "why is he looking at her ? am i not good enough?"

So, sure, we know that you think Angelina Jolie is hot, so you dont need to say it to us.

Again, this is just comin from a chick
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EDIT: A female can be as confident as possible and still feel like this.
 
Originally posted by: ActPrincess
Men just dont get it...

Deep down, we all know that you guys are always looking at other women, but still, we want to feel beautiful to you. What makes me mad is when guys oogle chicks that the g/f knows she will never be able to look like. Inside, we are thinking "why is he looking at her ? am i not good enough?"

So, sure, we know that you think Angelina Jolie is hot, so you dont need to say it to us.

Again, this is just comin from a chick
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And I'm sure you don't wish we could have the Josh Hartnett/(insert Hollywood pretty-boy name) look first thing in the morning when we roll out of bed.
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Oh, BTW, Angelina Jolie is a whore. I wouldn't hit it with a bat.

- M4H
 
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

It's perfectly healthy and acceptable to find others attractive. Just don't do the total 180-degree head spin in the mall, complete with drool.

- M4H
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I had a weird image of that a couple weeks ago. I was sitting on my boyfriend's bed..and his other apartmentmates walked in...and I was sitting there thinking..if one of them brought back a REALLY hot girl and my boyfriend turns around and starts gushing and drooling over her...what would I do. It was a silly thought...but this thread reminded of it.

I'll admit it bothers me A LITTLE when he checks out other girls (especially if even I think they're attractive)..but I know that at the end of the day...I'm the one he's going to bed with. So that helps me to tune down my jealousy/anger.

But there's a whole other issue that I don't want to bring up here (b/c I tend to get ripped apart by ATOT-ers when I post about my bf)...so I'll end my post here.

 
Originally posted by: ActPrincess
Men just dont get it...

Deep down, we all know that you guys are always looking at other women, but still, we want to feel beautiful to you. What makes me mad is when guys oogle chicks that the g/f knows she will never be able to look like. Inside, we are thinking "why is he looking at her ? am i not good enough?"

So, sure, we know that you think Angelina Jolie is hot, so you dont need to say it to us.

Again, this is just comin from a chick
rolleye.gif
😉
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The thing that girls don't understand is that your boyfriend/SO is with you, not with the other girl he finds attractive. Ultimately he is going home with you at the end of the night, and he loves you. He isn't chasing the other girls anymore, and chasing is very different from looking.

Ryan
 
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: americangigolo
Originally posted by: JeffreyLebowski
Ah, it's nice have a GF who's Bi. 😀
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Where did you get that? She's not, although I would agree with you if it were true. 🙂
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Where did you get that? The world does not revolve around you, and anyone with the common sense of an artichoke could see that it was Jeffrey talking about his own GF.

And I say again - :camera:s?

- M4H
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Whoa...Sorry. I see.
 
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: ActPrincess
Men just dont get it...

Deep down, we all know that you guys are always looking at other women, but still, we want to feel beautiful to you. What makes me mad is when guys oogle chicks that the g/f knows she will never be able to look like. Inside, we are thinking "why is he looking at her ? am i not good enough?"

So, sure, we know that you think Angelina Jolie is hot, so you dont need to say it to us.

Again, this is just comin from a chick
rolleye.gif
😉
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And I'm sure you don't wish we could have the Josh Hartnett/(insert Hollywood pretty-boy name) look first thing in the morning when we roll out of bed.
rolleye.gif


Oh, BTW, Angelina Jolie is a whore. I wouldn't hit it with a bat.

- M4H
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I would hit it with a bat, but only to see how much more puffed up her lips could get.
I call EWW on Angelina.

And girls do the same, they say x is fit or whatever.
But:
1) looks aren't everything
2) you don't usually get what you want
3)obviously if you were that obsessed with them, you'd dump your SO and go stalk them
 
Wow, some of you women are really insecure. Fact is, whether you're a guy or girl, you're going to find others attractive. If you're bothered by that, maybe try changing your sense of self-esteem before trying to change your SO behavior.
 
Originally posted by: nativesunshine
I had a weird image of that a couple weeks ago. I was sitting on my boyfriend's bed..and his other apartmentmates walked in...and I was sitting there thinking..if one of them brought back a REALLY hot girl and my boyfriend turns around and starts gushing and drooling over her...what would I do. It was a silly thought...but this thread reminded of it.
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You just firmly grab him by the scrotum and whisper sweetly, "Honey, if you even think of touching her, I'll pull these up over your shirt collar and cram them in your eye sockets."

I'll admit it bothers me A LITTLE when he checks out other girls (especially if even I think they're attractive)..but I know that at the end of the day...I'm the one he's going to bed with. So that helps me to tune down my jealousy/anger.
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Exactly. Just because he's on a diet doesn't mean he can't check out the menu, because it doesn't matter where he works up the appetite as long as he comes home for dinner.

(Yes, I am hungry. I'm going to eat.)

But there's a whole other issue that I don't want to bring up here (b/c I tend to get ripped apart by ATOT-ers when I post about my bf)...so I'll end my post here.
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Starts with a "g", ends with a capital "E" and "y"? 😛

- M4H
 
i would hope that out of respect for me my boyfriend wouldn't oogle other girls in front of me. its one thing to comment on the way a girl looks (because i do it too) its another thing to stare and drool.
 
if I think a girl is cute and my gf asks then I will say so.

But she doesn't ask me often. I can't remember the last time my gf asked me. She knows I think a lot about her so it doesn't matter....
 
I actually talk to my fiance about hot looking men/women. I even argue with him about why so and so is hot if he does not agree.

I know he loves me even if I would never look like some movie star.
 
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: JeffreyLebowski
Ah, it's nice have a GF who's Bi. 😀
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Pics. Now.

Two or more women per frame required.

- M4H
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LMAO, you are serioulsy the pic master on these forums...you should get your title changed to something relatiing with pictures 😛😀
 
Originally posted by: MainFramed
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: JeffreyLebowski
Ah, it's nice have a GF who's Bi. 😀
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Pics. Now.

Two or more women per frame required.

- M4H
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LMAO, you are serioulsy the pic master on these forums...you should get your title changed to something relatiing with pictures 😛😀
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<embarassed> I'm thinking of buying hosting space just for my pics so they can stay ad-free 😱

- M4H
 
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: MainFramed
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: JeffreyLebowski
Ah, it's nice have a GF who's Bi. 😀
Click to expand...

Pics. Now.

Two or more women per frame required.

- M4H
Click to expand...

LMAO, you are serioulsy the pic master on these forums...you should get your title changed to something relatiing with pictures 😛😀
Click to expand...

<embarassed> I'm thinking of buying hosting space just for my pics so they can stay ad-free 😱

- M4H
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I can't even see your pics! 🙁
 
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