Say you start talking with an old friend...

[RichardE]

From like 7 years back..

So as you catch up on old times you find out that three people you lost contact over the years stopped talking to you originally because they think you took advantage of some chick at a party 8 years ago when you were both drunk..

I still have the contact info for these 3 people..

should I try to set the record straight..

Apparently its been discussed as recently as a few months ago so they are obviously still upset.

 

[Farang]

why not just ask the old friend to clear it up.. or not care.

 

[RichardE]

Originally posted by: Farang
why not just ask the old friend to clear it up.. or not care.

Meh, she was the one who originally tried to clear it up at the party..

I usually don`t care, but one of the 3 people is now a TA at the graduate school I am hoping to go too.

 

[flxnimprtmscl]

Just admit you raped her. Admitting it is the first step to forgiveness.

 

[RichardE]

Originally posted by: flxnimprtmscl
Just admit you raped her. Admitting it is the first step to forgiveness.

We were all drunk..

but she pretty much thinks that apparently :roll:

 

[Newbian]

Pics of said women so we can judge if it was worth it. 😉

 

[Farang]

what are these the kind of people that think if a girl is drunk you can't have sex with her.. if that were the case i'd be a virgin. if you're both drunk its fair play

 

[her209]

Mrs. Cartman?

 

[RichardE]

Originally posted by: Farang
what are these the kind of people that think if a girl is drunk you can't have sex with her.. if that were the case i'd be a virgin . if you're both drunk its fair play

She was

 

[Nik]

Originally posted by: RichardE

Originally posted by: Farang
what are these the kind of people that think if a girl is drunk you can't have sex with her.. if that were the case i'd be a virgin . if you're both drunk its fair play

She was

If she's willing to put herself in the situation then she should be held responsible. Claiming rape after the fact because she regrets her decision to sleep with you is beyond retarded.

 

[RichardE]

Originally posted by: Nik

Originally posted by: RichardE

Originally posted by: Farang
what are these the kind of people that think if a girl is drunk you can't have sex with her.. if that were the case i'd be a virgin . if you're both drunk its fair play

She was

If she's willing to put herself in the situation then she should be held responsible. Claiming rape after the fact because she regrets her decision to sleep with you is beyond retarded.

Well, see, that's what I think.

The problem is she is fast become established at a university I want to go too so I wouldn't mind smoothing this over.

 

[Skunkwourk]

you can try, but after 7 years (and an attempted clear up) Im sure their minds have been made up already

 

[RichardE]

Originally posted by: m0mentary
you can try, but after 7 years (and an attempted clear up) Im sure their minds have been made up already

I'm thinking you are right..

Maybe I should go to a different Uni

 

[RKS]

what is the SOL on rape in your state; don't say a word until then.

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: RKS
what is the SOL on rape in your state; don't say a word until then.

this.

 

[RichardE]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: RKS
what is the SOL on rape in your state; don't say a word until then.

this.

Why?

 

[olds]

Originally posted by: Nik

Originally posted by: RichardE

Originally posted by: Farang
what are these the kind of people that think if a girl is drunk you can't have sex with her.. if that were the case i'd be a virgin . if you're both drunk its fair play

She was

If she's willing to put herself in the situation then she should be held responsible. Claiming rape after the fact because she regrets her decision to sleep with you is beyond retarded.

I am sensing a trend.

 

[shortylickens]

I dont have much, but I value my integrity. If people think I'm an asshole I really dont care.
If somebody thought I molested or raped a girl I would want to set the record straight and clear my name, even if its only high school idiots who I dont see any more.
I would not want to walk around the earth with a bunch of people thinking I did something that horrible.

Petty larceny and vandalism?
No worries.
That I murdered a bunch of arabs so the top 1% could keep their stranglehold on the bottom 99%?
I've learned to deal with it.

But not rape. It would bother me.

 

[TheVrolok]

Originally posted by: RichardE

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: RKS
what is the SOL on rape in your state; don't say a word until then.

this.

Why?

Because if the SOL hasn't passed yet, and you stir things up, she could still prosecute. And with rape, the accusation itself is incredibly damaging.

 

[olds]

Originally posted by: TheVrolok

Originally posted by: RichardE

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: RKS
what is the SOL on rape in your state; don't say a word until then.

this.

Why?

Because if the SOL hasn't passed yet, and you stir things up, she could still prosecute. And with rape, the accusation itself is incredibly damaging.

But then he will know what it's like.....

 

[RichardE]

Originally posted by: oldsmoboat

Originally posted by: TheVrolok

Originally posted by: RichardE

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: RKS
what is the SOL on rape in your state; don't say a word until then.

this.

Why?

Because if the SOL hasn't passed yet, and you stir things up, she could still prosecute. And with rape, the accusation itself is incredibly damaging.

But then he will know what it's like.....

I didn't rape her jesus. I wasn't even thinking that until you guys brought it up.

She couldn't accuse me of that could she?

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: RichardE

Originally posted by: oldsmoboat

Originally posted by: TheVrolok

Originally posted by: RichardE

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: RKS
what is the SOL on rape in your state; don't say a word until then.

this.

Why?

Because if the SOL hasn't passed yet, and you stir things up, she could still prosecute. And with rape, the accusation itself is incredibly damaging.

But then he will know what it's like.....

I didn't rape her jesus. I wasn't even thinking that until you guys brought it up.

She couldn't accuse me of that could she?

Are you that frickin naive?

You've said 3 friends have stopped talking to you b/c they feel you took advantage of this girl while she was inebriated. That could easily be construed as rape.

 

[MixMasterTang]

What does the girl you slept with think? Does she think you took advantage of her? Is she one of the 3 people above you were speaking of, or even one of the people at the University?

 

[RichardE]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: RichardE

Originally posted by: oldsmoboat

Originally posted by: TheVrolok

Originally posted by: RichardE

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: RKS
what is the SOL on rape in your state; don't say a word until then.

this.

Why?

Because if the SOL hasn't passed yet, and you stir things up, she could still prosecute. And with rape, the accusation itself is incredibly damaging.

But then he will know what it's like.....

I didn't rape her jesus. I wasn't even thinking that until you guys brought it up.

She couldn't accuse me of that could she?

Are you that frickin naive?

You've said 3 friends have stopped talking to you b/c they feel you took advantage of this girl while she was inebriated. That could easily be construed as rape.

Ah, well, a little researching shows there is no SOL on rape in Ontario, so maybe I should just let sleeping dogs lie.

 

[Wheezer]

Originally posted by: RichardE

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: RichardE

Originally posted by: oldsmoboat

Originally posted by: TheVrolok

Originally posted by: RichardE

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: RKS
what is the SOL on rape in your state; don't say a word until then.

this.

Why?

Because if the SOL hasn't passed yet, and you stir things up, she could still prosecute. And with rape, the accusation itself is incredibly damaging.

But then he will know what it's like.....

I didn't rape her jesus. I wasn't even thinking that until you guys brought it up.

She couldn't accuse me of that could she?

Are you that frickin naive?

You've said 3 friends have stopped talking to you b/c they feel you took advantage of this girl while she was inebriated. That could easily be construed as rape.

Ah, well, a little researching shows there is no SOL on rape in Ontario, so maybe I should just let sleeping dogs lie.

good idea.....and take this as a lesson learned....the next one might not be so naive as to just let you walk away.

what are these the kind of people that think if a girl is drunk you can't have sex with her.. if that were the case i'd be a virgin. if you're both drunk its fair play

remember that when you find out your daughter is knocked up after her graduation party.

and the "the kinds of people" can be any number of people such as police, judges, prosecutors.....you know...the "kind of people" who can put you in jail.