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Saturday night out, didnt go so well.

Maximilian

Maximilian

Lifer
So this was my last night out where i live, ill probaby never be back here again so me and my friend went round all the pubs having a pint in each pub to say bye to the place. I eventually ran afoul of someone i dont like, someone who despies me as well for some reason, anyways it was 2v2 me and my friend vs him and his little pal, it never came to a fight and we went into the bar, they backed off and so did we. Later on though outside the fast food place everyone goes and the two guys we saw earlier saw us, this time there was 5 of them, they followed us after we were finished at the fast food joint and caught up with us after we were walking home slammed me against the door of some shop, i was in the process of calling 999 to get the police and they started on my friend, pushing him around etc, i never got through to the 999 people but luckily a police jeep pulled up and most of them ran away, they caught 1 and interrogated him, didnt take him in just asked some questions etc.

I feel like such a fucking pussy. Even though it was 5v2 i still feel like a fucking pussy for not doing anything but calling 999, i feel like i shouldve pushed back or hit them or something. Im not mr nice guy by my own admittance but i never like getting physical i.e. smash someone off a wall/door etc if they didnt start it with me first. I dont understand why people like this exist. Ive never felt so isolated since i was about 9 or 10 when a gang of people teamed up on me and my younger cousin for no reason. Ive never been as scared as that before, they couldve stabbed me, killed me, im too young to die i dont deserve this kind of crap...

The point of this post is just to tell someone what happened... yeah its kind of a blog post but whatever, i dont know what else to do or who else to tell... We got away alright, they were yelling stuff etc after the police went back on patrol (i told them the police to make sure it was patrolling the same street we were walking along) and they didnt follow us too far and gave up eventually. I still feel like a fucking pussy, im well built as too, 1v1 i could probably have taken any of those guys but not 5v2, not 5v2. The tall one, the one that was fat, the generic one, the one that looked like my old highschool nemesis... 1v1 anytime but that wont ever happen, fairness isnt a fact of life sometimes. Im 22 for the record and generally am not considered a pussy, but i feel like one now, im not used to fighting, im not used to being outnumbered...

Ruined my fucking night out.

Cliffs:

1. 999 is the 911 for the UK
2. Nearly got battered 5v2 (i was one of the 2)
3. Feel like a pussy
 
He and his friend got jumped by 5 guys.
He tried to call the cops (999?) but thankfully a police jeep was driving by and saved him.
Now, he feels like a pussy because he didn't step up.

Dude, what do you expect... it's 2vs5.
Take some martial arts or something...go to the gym...carry a gun. *shrug*
 
Originally posted by: dbk
He and his friend got jumped by 5 guys.
He tried to call the cops (999?) but thankfully a police jeep was driving by and saved him.
Now, he feels like a pussy because he didn't step up.

Dude, what do you expect... it's 2vs5.
Take some martial arts or something...go to the gym...carry a gun. *shrug*
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A post that says 5v2 really means 3v2 in real life.

OP, its ok. 99% of the people on this forum have never been in a fight.
 
Originally posted by: dbk
He and his friend got jumped by 5 guys.
He tried to call the cops (999?) but thankfully a police jeep was driving by and saved him.
Now, he feels like a pussy because he didn't step up.

Dude, what do you expect... it's 2vs5.
Take some martial arts or something...go to the gym...carry a gun. *shrug*
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I dont know... this kind of crap never happens to me ive lived a very sheltered life. Plus we're not allowed guns in the UK heh, if we were its a good bet 1 of the 5 probably wouldve been carrying one anyways.
 
Originally posted by: NSFW
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Thank you for your contribution to the thread. Next time just don't post.



Sounds like you did everything you could have done. 5v2 isn't a very good situation unless you are a great fighter and none of the other side is. Just on sheer numbers they have two guys to hold each of you while one guy beats away.

Sorry you had such a crappy night. Glad you're not in a ditch bleeding.
 
Originally posted by: Maximilian
Originally posted by: dbk
He and his friend got jumped by 5 guys.
He tried to call the cops (999?) but thankfully a police jeep was driving by and saved him.
Now, he feels like a pussy because he didn't step up.

Dude, what do you expect... it's 2vs5.
Take some martial arts or something...go to the gym...carry a gun. *shrug*
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I dont know... this kind of crap never happens to me ive lived a very sheltered life. Plus we're not allowed guns in the UK heh, if we were its a good bet 1 of the 5 probably wouldve been carrying one anyways.
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Uh...why does this guy despise you and vice-versa in the first place?
It had to have been something serious if this guy brought his friends to kick your ass at the mere sight of you.

Did you sleep with his woman?
 
Originally posted by: NSFW
Originally posted by: dbk
He and his friend got jumped by 5 guys.
He tried to call the cops (999?) but thankfully a police jeep was driving by and saved him.
Now, he feels like a pussy because he didn't step up.

Dude, what do you expect... it's 2vs5.
Take some martial arts or something...go to the gym...carry a gun. *shrug*
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A post that says 5v2 really means 3v2 in real life.

OP, its ok. 99% of the people on this forum have never been in a fight.
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Mr. Negativity. Everything you post must be 100% correct at all times. Even if he did exaggerate, I bet you never have on this forum....
 
Originally posted by: Maximilian
Originally posted by: dbk
He and his friend got jumped by 5 guys.
He tried to call the cops (999?) but thankfully a police jeep was driving by and saved him.
Now, he feels like a pussy because he didn't step up.

Dude, what do you expect... it's 2vs5.
Take some martial arts or something...go to the gym...carry a gun. *shrug*
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I dont know... this kind of crap never happens to me ive lived a very sheltered life. Plus we're not allowed guns in the UK heh, if we were its a good bet 1 of the 5 probably wouldve been carrying one anyways.
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I would shoot that one first then. 😉
 
Originally posted by: EMPshockwave82


Mr. Negativity. Everything you post must be 100% correct at all times. Even if he did exaggerate, I bet you never have on this forum....
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Me and my 14 inch penis never lie.

I was just picking on him...relax.
 
You think you would feel like a man if you started brawling? Its always fun to think about "being a man" and "fighting it out" until you are actually in a fight. Then you realize "oh shit, this has consequences, one of which is I might very well lose this one."

You did the right thing if what you are saying is true. Avoid it if at all possible, call the cops, but when it starts to come down to it, you always, ALWAYS have to defend yourself.
 
Originally posted by: dbk
Originally posted by: Maximilian
Originally posted by: dbk
He and his friend got jumped by 5 guys.
He tried to call the cops (999?) but thankfully a police jeep was driving by and saved him.
Now, he feels like a pussy because he didn't step up.

Dude, what do you expect... it's 2vs5.
Take some martial arts or something...go to the gym...carry a gun. *shrug*
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I dont know... this kind of crap never happens to me ive lived a very sheltered life. Plus we're not allowed guns in the UK heh, if we were its a good bet 1 of the 5 probably wouldve been carrying one anyways.
Click to expand...

Uh...why does this guy despise you and vice-versa in the first place?
It had to have been something serious if this guy brought his friends to kick your ass at the mere sight of you.

Did you sleep with his woman?
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Honestly, im in the mood for being 100% honest about this right now, i dont know. I really dont know why he hates me. It all began when he started on me in a pub about 2 years ago, he was all like "ill kick your ass anyday lovely human" etc (i dont know why he just sat down at our table and started acting up, he wasent joking either i can tell when somone is joking, he wasent), thats fine so i said to his face "lets go outside and sort this, cmon, what you scared of?" he backed down because he was on his own. Why did he want to start a fight? I honestly dont know, he dosent like the way i look? Hes jealous of something i have? He simply dosent like me maybe, according to my friend (who knows him a bit better than me) he does this kind of crap to other people as well, its "just what he does" so really i have no idea why he started it.

Anyways its gone too far, 5v2 and the possibility of being stabbed/severely injured? Whatever, he wins, i dont care, i dont want to be put i that situation again. Glad im moving away soon anyways. Its one thing to disagree with someone but another to physically start on them, im not used to that, im a pacifist.
 
see, this is why we have conceal carry laws in the us...when it's 5v2 all bets are off...a hand gun is a great way to even the playing field in a situation like this.
 
Originally posted by: FallenHero
You think you would feel like a man if you started brawling? Its always fun to think about "being a man" and "fighting it out" until you are actually in a fight. Then you realize "oh shit, this has consequences, one of which is I might very well lose this one."

You did the right thing if what you are saying is true. Avoid it if at all possible, call the cops, but when it starts to come down to it, you always, ALWAYS have to defend yourself.
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I dont know what i wouldve done, if they actually hit my friend, ive known him for nearly half my life. I honestly think i wouldve stayed on the phone to the police rather than jumped in and tried to help and that makes me feel like such a fucking dick. Yeah we wouldve got totally battered 5v2 despite my friends macho talk afterwards, i know i was a match for 1 of them but not 2, no way could i beat 2 people, never mind 5 of them.

Im scared of fighting, im scared of losing... ive never dealt with this before. I wouldnt have won 5v2, i couldnt have won but there was nothing to stop me trying. Ive dealt with aggressive people before, usually calling their bluff and they shake my hand in the end and make up but ive never been outnumbered, in a genurinely threatning situation before, except that one time with my cousin which i said to myself ill never get myself into that kind of situation again.

I really wish i was one of these people who can say theyve never been in a fight before, but ive been in two, one was kind of a draw the other i won, honestly probably wouldve lost the first one (years back in high school) me and the guy had a laugh about it not long ago actually and the second was a drunken brawl in the smoking area which i won, the guy attacked me because again he didnt like me (different guy), a bully from school, he picked on a few people i was friends with. I never got picked on but in all honesty i was easy prey in high school if he had wanted to pick on me.
 
Originally posted by: Maximilian
Honestly, im in the mood for being 100% honest about this right now, i dont know. I really dont know why he hates me. It all began when he started on me in a pub about 2 years ago, he was all like "ill kick your ass anyday lovely human" etc (i dont know why he just sat down at our table and started acting up, he wasent joking either i can tell when somone is joking, he wasent), thats fine so i said to his face "lets go outside and sort this, cmon, what you scared of?" he backed down because he was on his own. Why did he want to start a fight? I honestly dont know, he dosent like the way i look? Hes jealous of something i have? He simply dosent like me maybe, according to my friend (who knows him a bit better than me) he does this kind of crap to other people as well, its "just what he does" so really i have no idea why he started it.

Anyways its gone too far, 5v2 and the possibility of being stabbed/severely injured? Whatever, he wins, i dont care, i dont want to be put i that situation again. Glad im moving away soon anyways. Its one thing to disagree with someone but another to physically start on them, im not used to that, im a pacifist.
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If you haven't left anything out, I can tell you why. You called him out on being an asshole, and he backed down to you. Now he has to prove to himself that he's not the pussy.

Don't take it personally, it's his problem. But don't do the same thing with your own fear.
 
You did what you thought was right at the time. The odds were against you. Better to be smart and keep your teeth. And remember this, when it was 2v2 he wouldnt go for it, so dont make this all about him either.

You just have to get on now, right? :beer:
 
Originally posted by: FelixDeKat
You did what you thought was right at the time. The odds were against you. Better to be smart and keep your teeth. And remember this, when it was 2v2 he wouldnt go for it, so dont make this all about him either.

You just have to get on now, right? :beer:
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I guess so. My brain is whats kept me from getting the piss beaten out of me in most other situations, so i might as well trust it again now.

Id still love to get a one on one with that guy though... but again my brain tells me id be just as bad as he is then so maybe i should just forget it... move on... Focus on other things.
 
Yeah, too bad you don't have a gun. Then you could have shot somoene dead instead of the situation being resolved without violence the way it did.
 
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