Jay, We've got DSL in North Dakota now. hehe
You might get better upload speed by shotgunning a pair of dial up modems. Two way satellite just started this year and still needs time to mature. The only problem is that Direct-PC (Hughes/General Electric) does not have as much competition as DSL and cable providers so the prices are going to stay high for some time to come.
The other thing Hughes won't talk about up front is their F.A.P. policy (Fair Access Policy). If you start a download, you'll have all kinds of speed, when they feel that you're getting too much, boom, an algorhythem kicks in and cuts your speed. I actually got Bill & Alice from Computer Shopper to mention this point a few years back in one of their articles on broadband choices.
I wish you, the misses and all the kids well on your big move!