gunblade, thanks for proving my point. You upped the voltage to get there, that IS outside specification parameters, nothing that a serious manufacturer would ever promise. You're into YMMV territory.
Ike, your two sticks on the socket-939 board are on separate channels with separate signals. Technically you're running that one in DDR400 specification, one DIMM per bus. No news there. Try four DIMMs, maybe also read up on how people struggle to get four DIMMs to run at DDR400 on socket-939, and you'll see that it's no different there. The push to dual-channel chipsets is not just about performance, but also about overcoming the limitations of the ever faster clock speeds.
JEDEC have been sweating long and hard to make a well calculated and proven DDR400 definition. Remember that none of the DRAM makers did originally even WANT to go there, seeing how DDR333 already had to be limited to two DIMMs.
Besides, I'm not "trying too hard", I happen to be involved in mainboard engineering deeply enough to know the difference between "appears to work" and "actually works properly".