Well, it was a bit of a hastle but I got it working on the freenas. At first it would not detect. It is realtek based, so I had to do some research. Mostly ppl in the know were just saying "Don't use Realtek," but I did find a compiled realtek driver for FreeBSD which I was able to install on the freenas and get the NIC to work. Speeds so far are good; from my Ryzen Desktop to the freenas, both with 2.5Gbps ports, I was getting the full expected speed.