- Sep 11, 2005
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First a little background information: I started at the University of the Arts this year and got into the upperclassmen dorm by some miracle. These dorms are all large, two bedroom apartments with a full kitchen and bathroom. There are 4 people to a room.
All of my roommates have been great so far, except for one. I'm not saying that all of us are perfect, but this is guy is absurd. He met this girl at a party 2 Fridays ago. Both him and the girl were pretty trashed, so me and my other roommates let her stay on the futon in our living room. However, she hasn't left. She stayed for 8 days STRAIGHT, left for 3, then has recently come back. This has been a big problem for myself and 2 of my other roommates. She seems to have influenced her boyfriend (the douchebag roommate) in a bad way. They skip class, smoke, eat, and watch Family Guy. That's about it. They're loud, obnoxious, and messy. Me and my other 2 roommates work hard to keep the apartment clean, whichis why this is so infuriating. My roommate, when he's not sleeping on the futon, has been sleeping on a dirty pile of clothes on his bed. We've been here for a little over a month and I've seen him do laundry once.
Me and my other 2 roommates have talked to him twice about it so far. The first time we were somewhat nice and told him that she was welcome to come over occasionally, but she had most definitely overstayed her welcome and needed to leave. No effect. The second time we were harsher and told him that it was ridiculous and that if she was still here after we came back after the weekend, there were going to be some problems. After the second incidence he confronted us and said that he was sorry, and that she would be staying one more night, then she would not be coming back. We came home from the weekend and she was gone for about 3 days, now she's back. She has her own apartment no more than 2 blocks away from ours.
Is it just me, or this absolutely asinine? He acts like a little kid and lies to us. We're sick of this crap, but we're running out of ideas. My other roommates and I are going to the RAs tonight to talk to them about it, and hopefully something will get done. What other options do we have here though?
Cliffs:
- Roommate's girlfriend has been living at our apartment, uninvited, for over a week
- Roommate and said girlfriend act like little children, don't listen, and lie to us
- Roommate and said girlfriend do not clean up after themselves, and are loud and obnoxious
- Help us ATOT
All of my roommates have been great so far, except for one. I'm not saying that all of us are perfect, but this is guy is absurd. He met this girl at a party 2 Fridays ago. Both him and the girl were pretty trashed, so me and my other roommates let her stay on the futon in our living room. However, she hasn't left. She stayed for 8 days STRAIGHT, left for 3, then has recently come back. This has been a big problem for myself and 2 of my other roommates. She seems to have influenced her boyfriend (the douchebag roommate) in a bad way. They skip class, smoke, eat, and watch Family Guy. That's about it. They're loud, obnoxious, and messy. Me and my other 2 roommates work hard to keep the apartment clean, whichis why this is so infuriating. My roommate, when he's not sleeping on the futon, has been sleeping on a dirty pile of clothes on his bed. We've been here for a little over a month and I've seen him do laundry once.
Me and my other 2 roommates have talked to him twice about it so far. The first time we were somewhat nice and told him that she was welcome to come over occasionally, but she had most definitely overstayed her welcome and needed to leave. No effect. The second time we were harsher and told him that it was ridiculous and that if she was still here after we came back after the weekend, there were going to be some problems. After the second incidence he confronted us and said that he was sorry, and that she would be staying one more night, then she would not be coming back. We came home from the weekend and she was gone for about 3 days, now she's back. She has her own apartment no more than 2 blocks away from ours.
Is it just me, or this absolutely asinine? He acts like a little kid and lies to us. We're sick of this crap, but we're running out of ideas. My other roommates and I are going to the RAs tonight to talk to them about it, and hopefully something will get done. What other options do we have here though?
Cliffs:
- Roommate's girlfriend has been living at our apartment, uninvited, for over a week
- Roommate and said girlfriend act like little children, don't listen, and lie to us
- Roommate and said girlfriend do not clean up after themselves, and are loud and obnoxious
- Help us ATOT
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