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Roomie's idiosyncrosies drive me insane

Lean L

Lean L

Diamond Member
These are some of the idiosyncrocies that I hate, for me most of them can be observed in my roomate, who, in this post shall be called Tanny.


*Not Being Plain - you should have tastes in things with valid reasons behind why you like or dislike certain things. I'm not judgemental and will accept things that you like or dislike but if you like something simply because others like it, you fail. A short anecdote - When I first met Tanny, I asked him what kind of music he likes, his response "all kinds", wtf?

*Having opinions - express your thoughts, if i ask you something, the answer should not be "fine". Anecdote time - Whenever I ask Tanny anything about his preference ie whether he likes something, his response is always "fine".... that answer doesn't even fit the question, the answer should closely resemble a yes or a no...

*Walk right and stand up straight - Imo, having the ability to stand up straight and travel on two legs is one of the only things that separates us from all other animals. Be proud, chin up and shoulders back whenever possible. Tanny not only looks like a twig, but when walking, he slouches, looks down and wobbles. It has gotten to the point where I can't even look at him when he walks...

Interrupting conversations - This is not one of my steadfast values like the past three but Tanny does this so much it is annoying. He can interrut me when there's only the two of us a conversation. ie he starts talking as I am answer a question he asked... wtf is the point of asking me if you didn't want an answer?

I know I sound like a jerk but these small things build up after nine months... Thank god I'll never see him again once I move out.


I don't know how I got matched up with this drone of a person... He is a fob from china. I found out he was going to be my roomate over the past summer. I knew he probably would not bring anything with him that we needed for our room, which is fine since he is from China after all.. but he could show some gratitude for my stuff instead of entitlement...

We had an unspoken bottled water agreement, we would both get packs of bottled water in alternation. He has not gotten water in more than a month, I could care less about the money, I let him use my card for water if he asks, he just doesn't buy it. Every weekend when i go home for the weekend, he drinks all the water and waits for me to replinish it. So for the first day or so after I come back, I have nothing to drink (water fountain produces white water).

I'm not passive aggressive, I usually confront ppl about stuff like this but this guy is impossible to talk to... idk why, I can't hold a valid convo with him... he's just so... fobby..
and I am also chinese before anyone accuse me of being racist.

Take all the things that I have listed, then apply to every aspect of him life and you have a good description of him


Cliffs:

Roomate sux
 
Originally posted by: iamanidiot
These are some of the idiosyncrocies that I hate, for me most of them can be observed in my roomate, who, in this post shall be called Tanny.


*Not Being Plain - you should have tastes in things with valid reasons behind why you like or dislike certain things. I'm not judgemental and will accept things that you like or dislike but if you like something simply because others like it, you fail. A short anecdote - When I first met Tanny, I asked him what kind of music he likes, his response "all kinds", wtf?

*Having opinions - express your thoughts, if i ask you something, the answer should not be "fine". Anecdote time - Whenever I ask Tanny anything about his preference ie whether he likes something, his response is always "fine".... that answer doesn't even fit the question, the answer should closely resemble a yes or a no...

*Walk right and stand up straight - Imo, having the ability to stand up straight and travel on two legs is one of the only things that separates us from all other animals. Be proud, chin up and shoulders back whenever possible. Tanny not only looks like a twig, but when walking, he slouches, looks down and wobbles. It has gotten to the point where I can't even look at him when he walks...
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You sound like a douchebag. Maybe he doesn't like talking to you because you're a douchebag? Could that be it?
 
It sounds like he finds you annoying. Whenever I want to be left alone and someone is nagging me over stupid little details I give short answers such as "fine", and "all kinds".

You're annoyed by how he walks? WTF?
 
Nope, his answer is always fine... never had an opinion at all, perhaps i am a dochebag but it really adds up after a long time, and before you call me a douchebag, maybe you should consider that you are speaking without experience. Meet the guy then get back to me. I'm just ranting
 
Originally posted by: johnjohn320
Originally posted by: iamanidiot
These are some of the idiosyncrocies that I hate, for me most of them can be observed in my roomate, who, in this post shall be called Tanny.


*Not Being Plain - you should have tastes in things with valid reasons behind why you like or dislike certain things. I'm not judgemental and will accept things that you like or dislike but if you like something simply because others like it, you fail. A short anecdote - When I first met Tanny, I asked him what kind of music he likes, his response "all kinds", wtf?

*Having opinions - express your thoughts, if i ask you something, the answer should not be "fine". Anecdote time - Whenever I ask Tanny anything about his preference ie whether he likes something, his response is always "fine".... that answer doesn't even fit the question, the answer should closely resemble a yes or a no...

*Walk right and stand up straight - Imo, having the ability to stand up straight and travel on two legs is one of the only things that separates us from all other animals. Be proud, chin up and shoulders back whenever possible. Tanny not only looks like a twig, but when walking, he slouches, looks down and wobbles. It has gotten to the point where I can't even look at him when he walks...
...
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You sound like a douchebag. Maybe he doesn't like talking to you because you're a douchebag? Could that be it?
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How did you come up with that conclusion with that quote? Okay, the walking thing might have seemed overboard... I agree, but what i mean is, he makes it awkward to walk with... horrible no? but notacible... And to any offended that I noticed this about my roomate, I apologize.

And he likes talking to me, he is a nice person, just not what I'm used to.
 
Originally posted by: I Saw OJ
I like "all kinds" of music, whats wrong with that?
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If you can back that up, it's fine. like with different genres and bands its fine but I hate it when ppl use all kinds as a catch all, no one likes every band out there.
 
Originally posted by: toonces
I was going to petition the mods for a custom title for the OP but hate redundancy.
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Well isn't that nice of you. Thanks for the thought 🙂
 
Well, I can see this is going to be an active thread. Have fun bashing me ATOT. But for anyone sensible enough to actually take on multiple perspectives, this actually can be an issue. When living with someone for a very long time, you notice things that others don't.
 
I can relate. Small crap that wouldn't otherwise bother you, bugs the hell out of you after awhile when your not into the person you're "forced" to be close to. After awhile, you resent them for breathing, and using up your oxygen :^D
 
Originally posted by: iamanidiot
Originally posted by: I Saw OJ
I like "all kinds" of music, whats wrong with that?
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If you can back that up, it's fine. like with different genres and bands its fine but I hate it when ppl use all kinds as a catch all, no one likes every band out there.
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I like rock, Jazz, Classical, reggae, some rap, folk, techno, dance. You name it I will most likely like it. and there are plenty of misic i didn't list.

And I think you handle is a good match to you.
 
Originally posted by: dawp
Originally posted by: iamanidiot
Originally posted by: I Saw OJ
I like "all kinds" of music, whats wrong with that?
Click to expand...

If you can back that up, it's fine. like with different genres and bands its fine but I hate it when ppl use all kinds as a catch all, no one likes every band out there.
Click to expand...

I like rock, Jazz, Classical, reggae, some rap, folk, techno, dance. You name it I will most likely like it. and there are plenty of misic i didn't list.

And I think you handle is a good match to you.
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Okay, lets say you were in charge of looking over resumes for a company.

applicant 1: operating systems: Windows all verions
applicant 2: operating systems: Windows 2000, XP, Vista, Server 2000, Server 2003, Server 2008, 7

Which one would you choose if you had to choose one?

Same principle applies, it's not the fact that he said all kinds its the fact that it's never a real answer, if he explained some more, it'd be better.

remember, these are all idiosyncrocies, nothing major
 
Since everyone else has addressed the main points, let me address the least significant one. The water from the fountain may appear white due to natural aeration that occurs from the pumps. Let it settle for a few minutes (if the bubbles are very small this may take longer) and let it settle. It might still be possible to drink the water as long as it tastes fine.
 
Originally posted by: iamanidiot
Originally posted by: johnjohn320
Originally posted by: iamanidiot
These are some of the idiosyncrocies that I hate, for me most of them can be observed in my roomate, who, in this post shall be called Tanny.


*Not Being Plain - you should have tastes in things with valid reasons behind why you like or dislike certain things. I'm not judgemental and will accept things that you like or dislike but if you like something simply because others like it, you fail. A short anecdote - When I first met Tanny, I asked him what kind of music he likes, his response "all kinds", wtf?

*Having opinions - express your thoughts, if i ask you something, the answer should not be "fine". Anecdote time - Whenever I ask Tanny anything about his preference ie whether he likes something, his response is always "fine".... that answer doesn't even fit the question, the answer should closely resemble a yes or a no...

*Walk right and stand up straight - Imo, having the ability to stand up straight and travel on two legs is one of the only things that separates us from all other animals. Be proud, chin up and shoulders back whenever possible. Tanny not only looks like a twig, but when walking, he slouches, looks down and wobbles. It has gotten to the point where I can't even look at him when he walks...
...
Click to expand...

You sound like a douchebag. Maybe he doesn't like talking to you because you're a douchebag? Could that be it?
Click to expand...

How did you come up with that conclusion with that quote? Okay, the walking thing might have seemed overboard... I agree, but what i mean is, he makes it awkward to walk with... horrible no? but notacible... And to any offended that I noticed this about my roomate, I apologize.

And he likes talking to me, he is a nice person, just not what I'm used to.
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You just sound incredibly annoying. Maybe he doesn't feel like sharing his opinions with you. You're right, I don't know him, but I'm just picturing you as someone who doesn't take a hint.

I live with roommates now, and have for years in various places with various people. Some became good friends, but many were just warm bodies in the house/apartment to share the rent with. Sometimes people just don't want to be your "buddy," and if that's the case, just fuck off and leave him alone, instead of judging him to the umpteenth degree as you're doing here.

My .02
 
Originally posted by: iamanidiot
Originally posted by: dawp
Originally posted by: iamanidiot
Originally posted by: I Saw OJ
I like "all kinds" of music, whats wrong with that?
Click to expand...

If you can back that up, it's fine. like with different genres and bands its fine but I hate it when ppl use all kinds as a catch all, no one likes every band out there.
Click to expand...

I like rock, Jazz, Classical, reggae, some rap, folk, techno, dance. You name it I will most likely like it. and there are plenty of misic i didn't list.

And I think you handle is a good match to you.
Click to expand...

Okay, lets say you were in charge of looking over resumes for a company.

applicant 1: operating systems: Windows all verions
applicant 2: operating systems: Windows 2000, XP, Vista, Server 2000, Server 2003, Server 2008, 7

Which one would you choose if you had to choose one?

Same principle applies, it's not the fact that he said all kinds its the fact that it's never a real answer, if he explained some more, it'd be better.

remember, these are all idiosyncrocies, nothing major
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neither. I go for someone with more than MS certs, such as linux, solaris. quite a few servers don't run microsoft.


(If you don't like roommates, why the hell are you doing it. every one has idiosyncrocies and it's very likely you will never find anyone who you will like 100%)
 
Originally posted by: johnjohn320
Originally posted by: iamanidiot
Originally posted by: johnjohn320
Originally posted by: iamanidiot
These are some of the idiosyncrocies that I hate, for me most of them can be observed in my roomate, who, in this post shall be called Tanny.


*Not Being Plain - you should have tastes in things with valid reasons behind why you like or dislike certain things. I'm not judgemental and will accept things that you like or dislike but if you like something simply because others like it, you fail. A short anecdote - When I first met Tanny, I asked him what kind of music he likes, his response "all kinds", wtf?

*Having opinions - express your thoughts, if i ask you something, the answer should not be "fine". Anecdote time - Whenever I ask Tanny anything about his preference ie whether he likes something, his response is always "fine".... that answer doesn't even fit the question, the answer should closely resemble a yes or a no...

*Walk right and stand up straight - Imo, having the ability to stand up straight and travel on two legs is one of the only things that separates us from all other animals. Be proud, chin up and shoulders back whenever possible. Tanny not only looks like a twig, but when walking, he slouches, looks down and wobbles. It has gotten to the point where I can't even look at him when he walks...
...
Click to expand...

You sound like a douchebag. Maybe he doesn't like talking to you because you're a douchebag? Could that be it?
Click to expand...

How did you come up with that conclusion with that quote? Okay, the walking thing might have seemed overboard... I agree, but what i mean is, he makes it awkward to walk with... horrible no? but notacible... And to any offended that I noticed this about my roomate, I apologize.

And he likes talking to me, he is a nice person, just not what I'm used to.
Click to expand...

You just sound incredibly annoying. Maybe he doesn't feel like sharing his opinions with you. You're right, I don't know him, but I'm just picturing you as someone who doesn't take a hint.

I live with roommates now, and have for years in various places with various people. Some became good friends, but many were just warm bodies in the house/apartment to share the rent with. Sometimes people just don't want to be your "buddy," and if that's the case, just fuck off and leave him alone, instead of judging him to the umpteenth degree as you're doing here.

My .02
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Okay, in an attempt to clear some of these prejudged notions, I'll clarify. I have been leaving him alone, he initiates most of the convos now. We live in extremely close quarters so anything that either of us does is conspicious to the other.

As for the judging, you might have a point there. The asterisks were values that I instilled within myself because I felt they were important. There would obviously be conflict as he is almost the exact oppsite of all these values. Just like how the gays were perceived to challange hetero's way of life, I am perceiving him in such a light. I actually realized this just now, with your use of the word judge.

Don't get me wrong, I don't like this one bit... but it helps that i made this realization.

Now I'd like to think that the world is filled with intrinsically good people. Should this not then, be a good time to apologize to me JohnJohn, for assuming things over a message board?


 
Originally posted by: iamanidiot
Originally posted by: johnjohn320
Originally posted by: iamanidiot
Originally posted by: johnjohn320
Originally posted by: iamanidiot
These are some of the idiosyncrocies that I hate, for me most of them can be observed in my roomate, who, in this post shall be called Tanny.


*Not Being Plain - you should have tastes in things with valid reasons behind why you like or dislike certain things. I'm not judgemental and will accept things that you like or dislike but if you like something simply because others like it, you fail. A short anecdote - When I first met Tanny, I asked him what kind of music he likes, his response "all kinds", wtf?

*Having opinions - express your thoughts, if i ask you something, the answer should not be "fine". Anecdote time - Whenever I ask Tanny anything about his preference ie whether he likes something, his response is always "fine".... that answer doesn't even fit the question, the answer should closely resemble a yes or a no...

*Walk right and stand up straight - Imo, having the ability to stand up straight and travel on two legs is one of the only things that separates us from all other animals. Be proud, chin up and shoulders back whenever possible. Tanny not only looks like a twig, but when walking, he slouches, looks down and wobbles. It has gotten to the point where I can't even look at him when he walks...
...
Click to expand...

You sound like a douchebag. Maybe he doesn't like talking to you because you're a douchebag? Could that be it?
Click to expand...

How did you come up with that conclusion with that quote? Okay, the walking thing might have seemed overboard... I agree, but what i mean is, he makes it awkward to walk with... horrible no? but notacible... And to any offended that I noticed this about my roomate, I apologize.

And he likes talking to me, he is a nice person, just not what I'm used to.
Click to expand...

You just sound incredibly annoying. Maybe he doesn't feel like sharing his opinions with you. You're right, I don't know him, but I'm just picturing you as someone who doesn't take a hint.

I live with roommates now, and have for years in various places with various people. Some became good friends, but many were just warm bodies in the house/apartment to share the rent with. Sometimes people just don't want to be your "buddy," and if that's the case, just fuck off and leave him alone, instead of judging him to the umpteenth degree as you're doing here.

My .02
Click to expand...

Okay, in an attempt to clear some of these prejudged notions, I'll clarify. I have been leaving him alone, he initiates most of the convos now. We live in extremely close quarters so anything that either of us does is conspicious to the other.

As for the judging, you might have a point there. The asterisks were values that I instilled within myself because I felt they were important. There would obviously be conflict as he is almost the exact oppsite of all these values. Just like how the gays were perceived to challange hetero's way of life, I am perceiving him in such a light. I actually realized this just now, with your use of the word judge.

Don't get me wrong, I don't like this one bit... but it helps that i made this realization.

Now I'd like to think that the world is filled with intrinsically good people. Should this not then, be a good time to apologize to me JohnJohn, for assuming things over a message board?
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So you admitted I'm right, then want me to apologize? 😕

And I won't apologize for judging you over a message board. Here's a thought: if you don't want people to judge your thoughts on a message board, don't post your thoughts on a message board. Why the hell else would you post if you don't want people to respond and react to what you've posted in some way?
 
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