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Originally posted by: 0roo0roo
you think the child she would have had instead of the daughter down the road would want to exist too?![]()
Even though she won court case she did not have the abortion
Originally posted by: 0roo0roo
you think the child she would have had instead of the daughter down the road would want to exist too?![]()
Originally posted by: dahunan
Originally posted by: 0roo0roo
you think the child she would have had instead of the daughter down the road would want to exist too?![]()
Even though she won court case she did not have the abortionIIRC
Originally posted by: Alistar7
Until men have an equal say in the life of their child no woman should be able to have an abortion.
Originally posted by: Moonbeam
Until men carry the fetus for an equal time with women, men's say in the viability of a fertilized egg rests solely with the woman. A fetus is just an inevitable consequence of genetics, pure random chance, just like a tumor caused by a virus. Nobody says you can't remove a tumor. The difference is purely in the mind. Where do hydrocarbons get off claiming special privileges. We're just a bunch of molecules having a dream we are alive. We are all such clowns.
Originally posted by: Fencer128
Originally posted by: Alistar7
Until men have an equal say in the life of their child no woman should be able to have an abortion.
I can't agree with that! Unfortunately I'm at work at the moment, so I haven't got the time to fully lay out my reasoning - but as far as I see see it, biology isn't fair and that's why the system's the way it is.
Andy
Originally posted by: Millennium
Originally posted by: Fencer128
Originally posted by: Alistar7
Until men have an equal say in the life of their child no woman should be able to have an abortion.
I can't agree with that! Unfortunately I'm at work at the moment, so I haven't got the time to fully lay out my reasoning - but as far as I see see it, biology isn't fair and that's why the system's the way it is.
Andy
If biology isn't fair, then we shouldn't be fair to criminals either. Give them all the death penalty.
Originally posted by: Alistar7
then don't legislate what is in opposition to nature and punitive to those who have no control......
Originally posted by: Fencer128
Originally posted by: Millennium
Originally posted by: Fencer128
Originally posted by: Alistar7
Until men have an equal say in the life of their child no woman should be able to have an abortion.
I can't agree with that! Unfortunately I'm at work at the moment, so I haven't got the time to fully lay out my reasoning - but as far as I see see it, biology isn't fair and that's why the system's the way it is.
Andy
If biology isn't fair, then we shouldn't be fair to criminals either. Give them all the death penalty.
I am referring to the fact that the abortion descision lies soley with the woman. Not, as I have read your post to mean, that abortion is "right" or "wrong". Given that, I don't see the relevance of your above post to my last message.
Cheers,
Andy
Originally posted by: Fencer128
Originally posted by: Alistar7
then don't legislate what is in opposition to nature and punitive to those who have no control......
I have no wish to turn this into a 20+ post marathon (especially on a subject where traditionally everyone has entrenched and usaully inreconcilable viewpoints) so I'll make this my only other post, in order to explain my previous comment.
I personally don't see the moment of conception as the creation of anything other than a set of dividing cells. Similarly I don't see the development of a foetus up to the point where it has a brain and nervous system as sacrosanct. Cold hearted I may be - but this is my own honest view. This is why I personally don't have a problem with early abortion (notice "early"). Up until this point I don't see the "baby" as having any real meaningful "voice" or "rights". Maybe this will change once I am a father - but this is my view, as I have concluded, right now.
Given the lack of status of the developing foetus - I see it perfectly reasonable that the woman should have complete control of her body, and what's going on in her body. I may not like whatever decision she makes - it might even be a 180 degree u-turn on what was earlier agreed) but I would have to accept it. For, if I were a woman, I would want and demand that right.
Given all of this it comes down to what I believe one of Alistar7's points is. That is "If the woman gets all the say, why does the man always have to pay?". In response I would say the following. There are a number of points to be considered in making the decision:
1. The best interests of the baby.
2. The best interests of the mother and father.
3. The freedom of choice.
I say that number 1 means that the baby should be guaranteed financial support from birth until it is able to manage it's own life. I don't think anyone would disagree with that. I would then say that in the majority of cases, it is best for both parents to contribute to the upkeep of the child. It should be a shared economic burden (allowing that financial circumstances pemit an equal share of course). This is what drives point 2. I put in point 3 to reinforce the idea that if your not 100% percent happy with anything or the future prospects of a relationship - you can always say no to risky sex.
Lastly, the other point to this part of the arguement is when the woman changes her mind from a mutually agreed pregnancy and wishes to abort, but the father still objects to this. For the reasons given in the first part of my post - so long as the abortion is timely - I still side with the female perspective. In any other scenario the possibility for forced pregnancy is far too real for my liking.
Sorry that this rambled a bit!
Cheers,
Andy
Originally posted by: Moonbeam
Until men carry the fetus for an equal time with women, men's say in the viability of a fertilized egg rests solely with the woman. A fetus is just an inevitable consequence of genetics, pure random chance, just like a tumor caused by a virus. Nobody says you can't remove a tumor. The difference is purely in the mind. Where do hydrocarbons get off claiming special privileges. We're just a bunch of molecules having a dream we are alive. We are all such clowns.
Not bad, but if it's the man's responsibility to not "have risky sex" and his choice ends there - why doesn't the woman's "choice" end there too?I do however share in your view that "forced" pregnancies would be a bad idea in the situation you posed.
Just some random comments - not my full opinion.
CkG
Given the lack of status of the developing foetus - I see it perfectly reasonable that the woman should have complete control of her body, and what's going on in her body. I may not like whatever decision she makes - it might even be a 180 degree u-turn on what was earlier agreed) but I would have to accept it. For, if I were a woman, I would want and demand that right.
If Women are the only one it concerns, then it is no concern to the WORLD if the US starts putting all our criminals to death. You probably don't understand it, because you don't want to understand it. I don't buy the theory that it is the woman's choice only. Right... then the man gets to pay alimony and other crap. Totally fair. Either make it fair or put a moratorium on it like Alistar said.
Originally posted by: hulk14
That is so ridiculous!
