Chizow, I'm not here for a pissing match. You seem like a pretty cool guy, I'm just trying to point out that product engineers for Intel, AMD, nV, etc. make the choices of TIMs that they make for very good reasons.
Some of them have to do with commodity logistics (TIMs need to be easy to apply, ship and store under various conditions).
Some of them have to do with cost/benefit ratios (why spend extra $ per unit ensuring perfectly flat IHSs when a company like Shin Etsu will sell you TIM that performs @ acceptable levels while tolerating uneven junction thicknesses).
All the while, these companies take thermal management VERY seriously, make no mistake about that. Their products are designed to operate faultlessly under conditions that the average ATer would consider criminally neglectful (think of how often the average PC user checks their CPU/GPU temps, let alone blows the dust out of their fans/case, and you are approaching the "norm" operating condition that is likely to be assumed by a Big Tech, Inc. thermal management engineer). The goal is to achieve thermal management solutions that hold up under less than ideal conditions, resulting in as few RMAs as possible due to overheat failure.
We here at AT freak out when our GPUs break 70º C. Truth is, we're nowhere near the tjmax for these GPUs... they're doing fine. nV pays people good money to make sure their products don't melt -- these people are professionals, they are well versed in their disciplines, their future employment depends on results, and I trust their judgements more than those of the crew @ Dan's Data. Or the casual observations of laypeople looking at a pic of Gray Goop on top of an IHS.
For the record, that Gray Goop is pretty good -- I've re-applied it while converting cards from WC back to AC, and it performs just fine, even after sitting in an anti-static bag for 2 years. I'm not surprised, TBH. Whoever made it, I'm sure it was qualified by nV to hold up for quite a number of years.
Bottom line: Can we stop second guessing the judgement of people whose job security depends on making sure nV, AMD, Intel, etc. don't look like a pack of amateur fools? Can we place a bit of faith in the OEM TIM suppliers they choose? These are deeply serious businesspeople we're talking about.