Tweak155
Lifer
Vdubchaos is actually giving pretty decent advice, just not in the most eloquent way.
Wanting things you can't afford is a big problem. However, everything has a cost, including a mortgage. I see no issue wanting a mortgage, as you're paying for the convenience of having it now. That cost to you is the interest.
If you're willing to pay the ~$75k interest on a $200k house over 30 years (been a while since I looked at the numbers, I could be off a bit), then that's fine. The problem is when money gets tough for people, they put the problem onto their lenders rather than making sacrifices for themselves. This is where you can't afford it comes in.
Wanting things you can't afford is a big problem. However, everything has a cost, including a mortgage. I see no issue wanting a mortgage, as you're paying for the convenience of having it now. That cost to you is the interest.
If you're willing to pay the ~$75k interest on a $200k house over 30 years (been a while since I looked at the numbers, I could be off a bit), then that's fine. The problem is when money gets tough for people, they put the problem onto their lenders rather than making sacrifices for themselves. This is where you can't afford it comes in.
