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Relationship woes, again.. (sorry to those i tricked before

ArkAoss

Banned

well this weekend had a date that went foul, she bought another guy. and once i finally met with them at the mall, she said forget it, and they split together.

Well tonight I talked with Her, and in a few words she told me that I better get my act together cause some one else is "moving" in. . . I like her, think about her alot, and try to call her every few (3-4)days, and tell her I like her, how else could I get it across that I'm pretty serious about her.
Every time i try to make plans for her to hang with me, things get messed up, and when I try to hang with her... we never get to do anything too special. She also talks alot with my mom, and she asked my mom tonight if we could "date".
Without calling her 24/7 and being a "bugaboo", how could I get her to realize, not only do I want to get to know her better, but I'm worth getting to know too. She says I "back away" It really messed me up the other night when she showed up with that other guy, and now she tells me she really didn't want to bring him. Plus I had an old friend of mine there and that made me feel a little awkward, I gotta meet with her In a less hostile environment I guess..

kinda just typing to express my self.

well what I'm trying to say is, what shouldn't I do/say??
 
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Don;t be such a d1ck head. Talk to hear and listen. Send her flowers. Write her a poem. Send her a card. Leave roses on her car. Plan a romantic dinner.

It's easy!!!!!!!!!!
 
Just tell her how you feel, don't beat around the bush. Don't wait every 3-4 days to call her, if you really like her call her every day.
 
hmm roses. . .on her vehicle, in new england? i dunno about where you are TRP, man, but its snowin here. . . im thinking thats a good idea, maybe to her door, or surprise her at work.. . ,not too to many, but some nonethe less
 
I'm in Boston and its snowing here too. 😉

The point is be creative and show interest. Don't get tangled in details. If you really like her the ideas will flow from the heart.
 
Don't worry about doing anything special when your with her. The time you spend with her is special, and call her more often than every 3 or 4 days. That alone tells her that she's not worth your time.

 
well i know she likes candles. .. and animals.. . maybe animal shaped candles.. . but she also likes aromatherapy stuff... . . now im thinking, course she also keeps telling me, I can't buy her love. . .
 
There's a difference between leaving a small token of you affection on her car or at her door, and overwhelming her with dozens of roses, or burying her with expensive trinkets. The small token will speak far more to her than anything else.
 
true... trinkets .. maybe a lighter engraved with a pic of her son, any one know of a place that'll engrave lighters?? (she's hinted she'd like one for the candles in her room, she don't smoke..)
 
Roommate liked a girl, so he had one of our friends act as a delivery boy and deliver flowers to her at her dorm so he could find out what her reaction would be. She was flattered, but not much happened after that.
 
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