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freemanteo

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Originally posted by: Maverick2002
How do you know if a gal likes you? (Gals that play hard to get, and show no emotions)
Do you really want a girl who plays hard to get? If they show no emotions they probably don't like you. Either that or you can't take obvious hints. Usually, you just know.

Would you risk your friendship with a friend and ask her out? (without knowing if she is interested in you romantically)
. Do you know if she likes you? You should know. And if you're that good of friends, talking about the possibility of a relationship shouldn't harm the friendship, even if there's no chemistry.


So if no emotions, means no chance? Dun people sleep around and have no feelings for their partner? One night stands! Sex is a big hint but in todays society, no hint is too big. They kiss you, hold your hands, sleep woth you and all for the sake of "FUN"!

The friendship would'nt be harmed, but i think there would be an awkardness when you see each other or she'll avoid me cos i she might think i have motives when i ask her out for ice-cream or movies! That's what i think anyways.

Alot of guys i know like gals hard to get, cos they are usually mature and donot fall in love with any other guy on the street. It shows she is not easy.
 

Jfur

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Originally posted by: Red Dawn
gopunk
I agree, girls don't seem to be a very good judge of character
I don't know, they seem to avoid you. That seems to be some excellent character judging to me. Girls like attractive guys, not skinny runts who don't bath regularly. Hit the gym, get a clue and for god sakes take a bath.

If the photos I saw of gopunk were real (and IF AND ONLY IF he is now 18 :Q :p ) I'd say he is *quite* handsome. My sister is turning 18 in a few weeks, and you've just given me a brilliant idea ;) Mwa ha ha
 

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Originally posted by: Red Dawn
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ahaha this must be another one of your oh-so-funny jokes...
No, that was a rebuttal to an asinine comment on your part.

oh darn :p i was just guessing cuz of the detail in which you went into my description (since you don't know me or anything...)

well, i didn't mean to offend anyone, i just say that because the girls i know don't seem to have very good judgement of character. and i don't necessarily mean they just go after a-holes... but that there are some guys that are just obviously sleazy, and a lot of the girls i talk to just don't get that used-car salesman vibe from them. of course, maybe i'm just wrongly think too many people are sleazy.. but i dunno. some people just give me the creeps. my sister's an exception though, i'm so proud of her... she finds flaws in everyone :D
 

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Originally posted by: Jfur
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
gopunk
I agree, girls don't seem to be a very good judge of character
I don't know, they seem to avoid you. That seems to be some excellent character judging to me. Girls like attractive guys, not skinny runts who don't bath regularly. Hit the gym, get a clue and for god sakes take a bath.

If the photos I saw of gopunk were real (and IF AND ONLY IF he is now 18 :Q :p ) I'd say he is *quite* handsome. My sister is turning 18 in a few weeks, and you've just given me a brilliant idea ;) Mwa ha ha

haha thanks jfur.... yep i'm 18 now :)

i'm not a skinny runt btw (i wish)... if anything i'd say i'm on the thick side (5 foot 9, 155 lbs). sometimes i think it'd be nice to be a skinny dude, but then all the skinny dudes i talk to want to bulk up. so i dunno. i guess the grass is always greener on the other side or something. i gotta start exercising... bleh.
 

freemanteo

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well, i didn't mean to offend anyone, i just say that because the girls i know don't seem to have very good judgement of character. and i don't necessarily mean they just go after a-holes... but that there are some guys that are just obviously sleazy, and a lot of the girls i talk to just don't get that used-car salesman vibe from them. of course, maybe i'm just wrongly think too many people are sleazy.. but i dunno. some people just give me the creeps. my sister's an exception though, i'm so proud of her... she finds flaws in everyone :D[/quote]



I'm proud of your Sis too! Shows she cares about herself and thinks before doing something.
 

Geekbabe

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Originally posted by: Jfur
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
gopunk
I agree, girls don't seem to be a very good judge of character
I don't know, they seem to avoid you. That seems to be some excellent character judging to me. Girls like attractive guys, not skinny runts who don't bath regularly. Hit the gym, get a clue and for god sakes take a bath.

If the photos I saw of gopunk were real (and IF AND ONLY IF he is now 18 :Q :p ) I'd say he is *quite* handsome. My sister is turning 18 in a few weeks, and you've just given me a brilliant idea ;) Mwa ha ha



I thought you liked your sister ? :p
 

Red Dawn

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If the photos I saw of gopunk were real (and IF AND ONLY IF he is now 18 ) I'd say he is *quite* handsome.
Yeah but he needs to grow a Mustache to cover up the hairlip of his! Make his nose look off centered.
 

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Lifer
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Originally posted by: baffled2
Originally posted by: Jfur
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
gopunk
I agree, girls don't seem to be a very good judge of character
I don't know, they seem to avoid you. That seems to be some excellent character judging to me. Girls like attractive guys, not skinny runts who don't bath regularly. Hit the gym, get a clue and for god sakes take a bath.

If the photos I saw of gopunk were real (and IF AND ONLY IF he is now 18 :Q :p ) I'd say he is *quite* handsome. My sister is turning 18 in a few weeks, and you've just given me a brilliant idea ;) Mwa ha ha



I thought you liked your sister ? :p

hey! :( ;)
 

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The saying opposites attract was just talking about magnets. Whoever attached it to relationships was just looking for witty lines.
 

Maverick2002

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i'm not a skinny runt btw (i wish)... if anything i'd say i'm on the thick side (5 foot 9, 155 lbs). sometimes i think it'd be nice to be a skinny dude, but then all the skinny dudes i talk to want to bulk up. so i dunno. i guess the grass is always greener on the other side or something. i gotta start exercising... bleh.
<-- 18yrs old, 5'9", 165lbs I don't think I'm on the thick side. Neither should you. Then again I don't know if you really work out.

EDIT: 2 years back I was same height, 115lbs (yes, 50lbs less). Not fun.
 

freemanteo

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thnks for all the input, if no one has anymore comments/input.... this thread will die....! :)

i think i'm not going to risk our friendship and ask her to be my girlfriend, it's the best that we remain friends and move on with life being single!