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Poontos

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a friends-with-benefits relationship with one my hot roommates (i am a guy, she is a girl 🙂 ), who:

a) Is not interested in a serious relationship
b) I have lots of other roommates and she approached me to be roommates (2bd apt) a couple of months ago, and I told her straight up that I have developed feelings towards her and I wanted her to know that before we ended up getting a place
c) she was cool with that, and said that she was not looking for a relationship

Help me! 🙂
 
Usually starts with wine, then moves to dinner, then back to your mutual home, more wine, then take it from there.
 
I say you waltz over to her and well.... you know the rest. i swear to god, after reading this, that would work like a charm.
 
It's not going to work, just face it. Men have been asking this question since the dawn of time and it has never worked (Although some claim to have made it to the elusive "no strings atached sex" friendship, it's most likely that they are't telling the truth).
 
In all seriousness.

Ask her "You wanna go fool around or something". Most of the time, you get the "sure, why not response".
 
She's just playin you. 😉

But I guess I'd suggest going the "really nice night out, make her feel good, then make both of you feel good" method 🙂
 
I married the girl I lived with in college. Started out as roomates through a mutual friend and got married 9 years later.
 
Originally posted by: rbloedow
It's not going to work, just face it. Men have been asking this question since the dawn of time and it has never worked.
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I was in one last fall, for almost a year on and off. It "worked", until she became too attached.

Last fall, we were all out one night and I told the story (two lines up), and mentioned that I did not think that they would work (just to get some brownie points - no pun intended - with the ladies).
At the time she said that she thought that they would work, cause she was sort of in one at the time.
 
Originally posted by: yoda291
In all seriousness.

Ask her "You wanna go fool around or something". Most of the time, you get the "sure, why not response".
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Exactly. She knows you have feelings for her so the last thing she should be is suprised/disgusted😉
 
Originally posted by: Poontos
Originally posted by: rbloedow It's not going to work, just face it. Men have been asking this question since the dawn of time and it has never worked.
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I was in one last fall, for almost a year on and off. It "worked", until she became too attached. Last fall, we were all out one night and I told the story (two lines up), and mentioned that I did not think that they would work (just to get some brownie points - no pun intended - with the ladies). At the time she said that she thought that they would work, cause she was sort of in one at the time.
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But it didn't work - she became too attached. They never work.
 
Originally posted by: rbloedow
Originally posted by: Poontos
Originally posted by: rbloedow It's not going to work, just face it. Men have been asking this question since the dawn of time and it has never worked.
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I was in one last fall, for almost a year on and off. It "worked", until she became too attached. Last fall, we were all out one night and I told the story (two lines up), and mentioned that I did not think that they would work (just to get some brownie points - no pun intended - with the ladies). At the time she said that she thought that they would work, cause she was sort of in one at the time.
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But it didn't work - she became too attached. They never work.
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No that was the girl I was with. When we all talked about it last, she (my roommate, not my x-gril) thought that they do work.

FYI, she was socially sheltered (cause of dance - no clean dancing, not that kind) up until about three years ago when she started College. So she flirts a lot and eats up comments from guys.
 
Well, I am going to bed (alone for tonight 😀), hope to see some goodies in the morning in this thread. Thx
 
My Ex-roommate managed to pull this off with a couple of women one summer. Liquor was always involved though so that everyone was a lil at ease and it made asking much easier I guess. He had a standard line, something about "I find you really attractive but I am not looking for any relationship, since I have been badly burned in the past by my ex...would you like to come over and... " it always seemed to work, he wasnt that good looking, but he was full of energy and women found him attractive just coz he took control of things.

 
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