Dude, what a biatch. I had a GF who did things like that CONSISTENTLY and CONSTANTLY. She was such a witch. Who cares about the relationship? If it's going to be like this now, imagine what a marriage would be. Unless you're getting some incredible pussy, my advice would be to forget she ever lived. Let the snob find her own slave. There's a couple billion other women on the planet, and I'm sure most of them are better then her. Better yet, import! Import a nice Russian chick! Imported women don't have the same attitude, they're feminine not feminist.
I agree with Elledan about hate being a much stronger emotion than love.
You should seriously consider sitting down with her over a cup of coffee (or maybe something more sedateive. ) and talk to her.
Once your anger has subsided, ask her why she does these things. I used to know a girl who did the exact same things (seems like girls like to do such things). Turns out she was just using me in the first place.
(well, that just makes a very long story short)
so take care mztykal, and hopefully things will work out. It's not easy finding someone who even tolerates you in the beginning, so cherish it and try and work things out.
Too many people give up on relationships too easily nowdays. I think you shd try and work it out.
You should seriously consider sitting down with her over a cup of coffee (or maybe something more sedateive. ) and talk to her.
Once your anger has subsided, ask her why she does these things. I used to know a girl who did the exact same things (seems like girls like to do such things). Turns out she was just using me in the first place.
(well, that just makes a very long story short)
so take care mztykal, and hopefully things will work out. It's not easy finding someone who even tolerates you in the beginning, so cherish it and try and work things out.
Too many people give up on relationships too easily nowdays. I think you shd try and work it out.
Emos
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I would stay away from her for several days to let things cool down (believe me I know that's easier said then done). Then try discussing the issue after all the heated anger and emotions have subsided. If you STILL get the sense that she really doesn't care about your feelings then I would SERIOUSLY reconsider being with her....life is too short to be in a one-sided relationship.
Azraele
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You have a right to be upset. What she did was rude. However, don't go off yelling at her. Explain to her why that upsets you and perhaps even ask her how she'd feel if the roles had been reversed. The key to any relationship is communication, and yelling is no way to communicate effectively. Sit her down and discuss your feelings openly and rationally.
That girl sounds like a majorly f***** ******* **** ****** ********* ***** of a *****, and a ******-******* **********!
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I know exactly what the problem is.
SHE DOES NOT RESPECT YOU AND SHE TAKES YOU FOR GRANTED
you need to lay the smack down bro. Don't keep letting her push you around.
She treated you like a chauffer today and not as a boyfriend - you are not to
be treated as a hired hand.
SHE DOES NOT RESPECT YOU AND SHE TAKES YOU FOR GRANTED
you need to lay the smack down bro. Don't keep letting her push you around.
She treated you like a chauffer today and not as a boyfriend - you are not to
be treated as a hired hand.
ugh, you need to give her a good spankin' man! 
errr...not the kinna spankin' that will get police all over you
errr...not the kinna spankin' that will get police all over you Listen---ABSOLUTELY EVERYONE in this world has their off-days; when they're not themselves and just feel like being a big crab.
Perhaps that's all it was. Take a little time to cool off, then calmly and respectfully address the matter to her again, stating that what she did hurt you and explain why. Perhaps by then she'll be feeling a bit herself again and explain why she acted the way she did.
Her behavior was rude. But don't blow off a relationship over it.
If this is a regular situation with you guys however, then you seriously need to talk.
I hope things work out, and I am sorry she mistreated you.
Perhaps that's all it was. Take a little time to cool off, then calmly and respectfully address the matter to her again, stating that what she did hurt you and explain why. Perhaps by then she'll be feeling a bit herself again and explain why she acted the way she did.
Her behavior was rude. But don't blow off a relationship over it.
If this is a regular situation with you guys however, then you seriously need to talk.
I hope things work out, and I am sorry she mistreated you.
I once had a girlfriend like this. I felt like I was always second in line for her. I put up with her sh!t for 2 years because "we were happy when everything was good". I regret most of that relationship. I missed out on so many great women who would have been so much better to me. Just remember people don't change that easily.
Dump her.
You don't have to be to nice to her. Also, don't express her anger if she ignored you. If she made you jealous, then try to make her jealous too.
remember, being too good can be bad too. You showed up too early to pick her up off work. Instead go late, so she keep on wondering what took you so long. If she told you that she will be done by 9:00, then she will be looking for you. But if you show up early, then she will realize that you are easy to get hold off, which will make you too much predictable.
Play the game of mystery and challenge. don't show up at the exact time or don't show up early. She will believe that you don't have anywhere else to go or have nothing else to do.
Also, don't be too nice to her. Most girls try to take too much advantage off the nice guys.
You don't have to be to nice to her. Also, don't express her anger if she ignored you. If she made you jealous, then try to make her jealous too.
remember, being too good can be bad too. You showed up too early to pick her up off work. Instead go late, so she keep on wondering what took you so long. If she told you that she will be done by 9:00, then she will be looking for you. But if you show up early, then she will realize that you are easy to get hold off, which will make you too much predictable.
Play the game of mystery and challenge. don't show up at the exact time or don't show up early. She will believe that you don't have anywhere else to go or have nothing else to do.
Also, don't be too nice to her. Most girls try to take too much advantage off the nice guys.
Elita1 - You can say whatever you want. But she wasn't having a "off" day. She was chatting, almost flrting with the stock boy with me right in front of her watching, and she did it for 10 minutes! She was there smiling and talking as if I didn't exist. And me being the nice guy I am, waited there for her to finish work. How fvcked up is that? I know a lot of girls that want to go out with me, its just that she WAS good to me up until a week or two ago... :|
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For everyone that thinks I yellled at her, I didn't. I never yell at her, I tell her straight to her face is a calm voice. And I still get the "i don't know answer". I get that fvcking answer everytime. You guys don't know half the sh*t she's done. If you did you'd totally hate her, but to make this a justified ***RANT*** I'm keeping it to just this one isolated incident. I'm not going to talk to her for awhile. And even if she does try to talk to me, online, I'm going to ignore her. She wants to talk to the fvcking stock-boy, she can have him. :|
BITCH!!! :|
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For everyone that thinks I yellled at her, I didn't. I never yell at her, I tell her straight to her face is a calm voice. And I still get the "i don't know answer". I get that fvcking answer everytime. You guys don't know half the sh*t she's done. If you did you'd totally hate her, but to make this a justified ***RANT*** I'm keeping it to just this one isolated incident. I'm not going to talk to her for awhile. And even if she does try to talk to me, online, I'm going to ignore her. She wants to talk to the fvcking stock-boy, she can have him. :|
BITCH!!! :|
Meaning everytime a girl with a nice booty walks by you rate it or stare or comment on how it looks.
So do you?
I know I do. I sometimes forget and do it when my g/f is with me. Then I get in a little trouble. But she doesn't mind.
-MzTyKaL
Maybe she does mind.
So do you?
I know I do. I sometimes forget and do it when my g/f is with me. Then I get in a little trouble. But she doesn't mind.
-MzTyKaL
Maybe she does mind.
I think you are justified in being mad for being treated rudely. Your timeline doesn't mesh at all though, and while it might not have a huge effect on your story, it is sort of bothersome.
So here goes. I drop her off at work today, she tells me she finishes at 9 so be there at like 9:05. (1) So I'm like yah, ok. So comes around 8:45, so I leave my house to drive the 20 minutes to her working place. (2) I get there, I walk by where she is, she's busy. So I walk around a little more, I see she's not busy, so I smile and wave at her, she looks at me like "what the fvck" and turns the other way. I see her co-worker, this stock-boy walking towards her, she smiles and waves at him, TOTALLY IGNORING ME, her BOYFRIEND. She then proceeds to chat with him for like 10 minutes totally ignoring me. She's not busy at all and just chatting. She could've at least smiled at me instead of him or something. But no, she doesn't. (3} Then she calls me from her register at like 9:05, and tells me she finishes at 10:00. I'm like WTF?!? And she goes wait for her. (4) I'm like it's a fvcking hour till then
So here goes. I drop her off at work today, she tells me she finishes at 9 so be there at like 9:05. (1) So I'm like yah, ok. So comes around 8:45, so I leave my house to drive the 20 minutes to her working place. (2) I get there, I walk by where she is, she's busy. So I walk around a little more, I see she's not busy, so I smile and wave at her, she looks at me like "what the fvck" and turns the other way. I see her co-worker, this stock-boy walking towards her, she smiles and waves at him, TOTALLY IGNORING ME, her BOYFRIEND. She then proceeds to chat with him for like 10 minutes totally ignoring me. She's not busy at all and just chatting. She could've at least smiled at me instead of him or something. But no, she doesn't. (3} Then she calls me from her register at like 9:05, and tells me she finishes at 10:00. I'm like WTF?!? And she goes wait for her. (4) I'm like it's a fvcking hour till then
- You leave at 8:45 for a 20 minute drive, should arrive at 9:05
- When you get there she looks busy, then a little later (after you walk around)she doesn't look busy, then she chats with stock boy "for like 10 minutes" while ignoring you.
- Then she call you from her register "at like 9:05" and says she will finish at 10:00.
- Then you're "like it's a fvcking hour till then"
Yo_Ma-Ma - Sorry if the times I posted weren't down to the EXACT minute. Damn yo. I mean if work related things included, what are you going to wear tomorrow? (the stock-boy asking her). What are you doing tomorrow? You working? Oh, so whutcha doing right now? I mean if you consider those work related questions, then fine, I was wrong. I could hear their whole conversation. Thats about what they were talking about. Nothing important at all. If it was important like she was talking to her boss or something I wouldn't get mad, but talking story with a stock-boy? FVCK THAT SH*T! :|
I mean if work related things included, what are you going to wear tomorrow? (the stock-boy asking her). What are you doing tomorrow? You working? Oh, so whutcha doing right now? I mean if you consider those work related questions, then fine, I was wrong. I could hear their whole conversation. Thats about what they were talking about. Nothing important at all. If it was important like she was talking to her boss or something I wouldn't get mad, but talking story with a stock-boy? FVCK THAT SH*T! :|Heh, sorry I went Columbo on you I think she should not have treated you that way regardless of the timeline. You should try to talk to her in a level way if you can, because you'll get better answers that way. I hope you can work it out.
I think she should not have treated you that way regardless of the timeline. You should try to talk to her in a level way if you can, because you'll get better answers that way. I hope you can work it out.***UPDATE***
She just called. An no, as you're all thinking she didn't apoligize. She goes "i need my things", "can you drop them off". I'm like no, I'll leave my car doors open and you can come get them. She's like "don't act rude like that". And I'm like, look who was being rude? And she goes fine, "drop off my stuff". No "I'm sorry" notihng. All she cared about was 'her stuff'. Can you say "BITCH"?
She just called. An no, as you're all thinking she didn't apoligize. She goes "i need my things", "can you drop them off". I'm like no, I'll leave my car doors open and you can come get them. She's like "don't act rude like that". And I'm like, look who was being rude? And she goes fine, "drop off my stuff". No "I'm sorry" notihng. All she cared about was 'her stuff'. Can you say "BITCH"?
You have more patience than I do. I'd have gone off when she told me she's working till 10:00! I would never be that inconsiderate to anybody, and there's no way I'd put up with it more than once. Hasta la vista, baby! :|
I use to never believe those people when they say: "the worse you treat your gf's, the more they want you"
but after a few incidents, I'm starting to believe! It seems that if you're the nice guy, the only thing you'll be is "SLAVE BOY"! But when you start treating them like trash (not literally, just not as nice), then they start feeling insecure and try harder in the relationship.
it's like my last relationship... At first, I called everyday and was being the nicest guy in the universe. And she was pretty much using me day and night... sometimes being rude on phone calls or even when we're going out.
But few weeks later, I got fed up and was planning on breaking up, so I wasn't being the usual nice person I usually was and haven't called for 3 days. she turns around and calls me asking why I haven't called... I ask her the same thing and she said something like "I really wanted to, but wasn't sure if you really wanted me to call you"... For the next 2 weeks, she was a total princess to me and never did anything to upset me. Bought me presents and stuff... But then, I still broke up with her cuz I can't be mean to a girl indefinately, and thought once I become nice guy again, she'd start acting back in her old ways. she started crying.
but after a few incidents, I'm starting to believe! It seems that if you're the nice guy, the only thing you'll be is "SLAVE BOY"! But when you start treating them like trash (not literally, just not as nice), then they start feeling insecure and try harder in the relationship.
it's like my last relationship... At first, I called everyday and was being the nicest guy in the universe. And she was pretty much using me day and night... sometimes being rude on phone calls or even when we're going out.
But few weeks later, I got fed up and was planning on breaking up, so I wasn't being the usual nice person I usually was and haven't called for 3 days. she turns around and calls me asking why I haven't called... I ask her the same thing and she said something like "I really wanted to, but wasn't sure if you really wanted me to call you"... For the next 2 weeks, she was a total princess to me and never did anything to upset me. Bought me presents and stuff... But then, I still broke up with her cuz I can't be mean to a girl indefinately, and thought once I become nice guy again, she'd start acting back in her old ways. she started crying.
Adul
Elite Member
Man this bring back bad memories of first GF. I would seriously consider moving on if she does change her ways. It is not worth it when other will treat with with more respect and consideration. It is time to look at the whole picture and say are you honestly happy with the whole thing or not?
mztykal said:
<< ***UPDATE***
She just called. An no, as you're all thinking she didn't apoligize. She goes "i need my things", "can you drop them off". I'm like no, I'll leave my car doors open and you can come get them. She's like "don't act rude like that". And I'm like, look who was being rude? And she goes fine, "drop off my stuff". No "I'm sorry" notihng. All she cared about was 'her stuff'. Can you say "BITCH"? >>
*Lumberg Voice* Umm...yea...you should go back to her work with all her stuff...and start chucking her stuff at the stock boy. "So you think you're better than me, eh stockboy?! Well here you can have this...this....and this(chucking largest object last)! You're lucky I don't get Scarface on your chumpass! Just a fair a warning...what she has is contagious....have a nice day!"
<< ***UPDATE***
She just called. An no, as you're all thinking she didn't apoligize. She goes "i need my things", "can you drop them off". I'm like no, I'll leave my car doors open and you can come get them. She's like "don't act rude like that". And I'm like, look who was being rude? And she goes fine, "drop off my stuff". No "I'm sorry" notihng. All she cared about was 'her stuff'. Can you say "BITCH"? >>
*Lumberg Voice* Umm...yea...you should go back to her work with all her stuff...and start chucking her stuff at the stock boy. "So you think you're better than me, eh stockboy?! Well here you can have this...this....and this(chucking largest object last)! You're lucky I don't get Scarface on your chumpass! Just a fair a warning...what she has is contagious....have a nice day
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