RANT: Gah, my roommate is really pissing me off!!

neutralizer

Lifer
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I'm currently living in an apartment with 3 other guys. I've known 2 of them for 2 years. The guy in question is a good friend of one of the other guys. Let's call him Dave just for the sake of this rant. While I had my doubts about him, we needed a 4th so we reluctantly accepted him. It's been tolerable so far despite his arrogance and spoiledness as he can't cook for ******. Not even a simple egg. He also does the least chores out of all of us because he has WoW raids 6 days a week in which he is too preoccupied. Because of his raids, we also bend our schedule around him so that we HAVE to do things in the afternoon so he can get back to the apartment in time for his raids. We've actually had to drive home really fast just so he can make his raids.

So last Sunday, we went to Costco and 99 Ranch Market (asian market) to restock our food supply. 2 weeks before, Dave had a raid so he could not go shopping with us so we told him that since he's not coming with us, he's paying for the trip. We spent $200 at Costco, exactly what we quoted him for. We also went to 99 Ranch, spending $30 there. I felt bad for him so I covered his purchase there. Fast forward back to last Sunday, it's my turn to pay for the Costco trip. Dave came along because we went hours before his raid. We ended up spending $117 which Dave thought was comparatively less than what we spent 2 weeks ago. The reason that happened was probably because we bought too much before in terms of eggs, vegetables, meat, and cereal which we opted not to buy this week.

We went to 99 where we spent another $30 of which some of them included food that Dave picked out for himself. None of us wanted it, just him. i.e. 6 pieces of ice cream balls for $4. Dave expected me to cover it because I paid too little for Costco. I said I was not going to cover personal food for him. He refused to pay his own food because he claimed he wasn't carrying cash. In the end, one of the other guys paid for it, but Dave felt that I was being stingy for not paying for the food. I still feel like I am justified. If it was food for all of us, I would be more than happy to cover it, but I'm not paying for food for Dave himself to enjoy. The sad part is that he even though he didn't pay for it, he complained when the other guys ate his ice cream.

What do you guys think? Do you think I was justified?

But seriously, he's really getting on my nerves. That's just one incident that's pissed me off, but the fact that he's not pulling his weight in terms of cooking and chores also ticks me off. In addition, because he can't cook of ******, he ends up eating all our instant food.

Cliffs:
1. Spoiled arrogant bastard
2. Expects me to pay for food that he picked out and wants to enjoy.
3. Doesn't pull his weight
 

Eos

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You guys have got to do something else aboot the food situation. One person paying the entire amount on different weeks where the total fluctuates is no good.
 

neutralizer

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Originally posted by: eos
You guys have got to do something else aboot the food situation. One person paying the entire amount on different weeks where the total flucuates is no good.

I agree, but it's just too difficult to write checks to each other to split it. Not to mention Dave doesn't have a checkbook. Mommy and daddy pays everything for him.
 

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Originally posted by: suicidalpigeon
why dont you guys just split the total evenly. like eos said, price fluctuations wont make it fair for anyone.

The way we figured was that over time, the price differences will average out.
 

Eos

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Originally posted by: neutralizer
Originally posted by: suicidalpigeon
why dont you guys just split the total evenly. like eos said, price fluctuations wont make it fair for anyone.

The way we figured was that over time, the price differences will average out.


BAH! Stop at a fargin' ATM on the way home. Make 'Dave' get exact cash to pay the others back. No messing around. Roommates can work, but y'all gotta be a little more mature.
 
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Point out the fact that he doesn't do ****** around the house, so paying more for food is his way of helping to pull his weight.
 

Toonces

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buy food seperately - except condiments/cheap things (rice, pasta, etc...)

after four years of school, I've found this is by far the easiest way to keep everything conflict-free
 

bennylong

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why don't you move out? Why in the world are you living with 4 people? Don't you have a job?
 

Eos

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Originally posted by: neutralizer
Originally posted by: eos
You guys have got to do something else aboot the food situation. One person paying the entire amount on different weeks where the total flucuates is no good.

I agree, but it's just too difficult to write checks to each other to split it. Not to mention Dave doesn't have a checkbook. Mommy and daddy pays everything for him.


You can alwasy write checks at Costco. OPne of you has to have a personal device with a calculator. 172.32/4 takes 5 seconds. You can each write your own check to the store and be done with it. Except for that dickwad Dave. He's grabbing his portion from the ATM on the way home. Dick. :p
 

blakeatwork

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???

About the only thing i ever split on for groceries with roommates was milk, bread and butter... everything else we purchased on our own, as well all had different tastes...

but, whatever works for you guys..
 
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SlitheryDee

Ahh roommates. Truth is you REALLY don't know them until you live with them.
 

neutralizer

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Originally posted by: Brainonska511
Point out the fact that he doesn't do ****** around the house, so paying more for food is his way of helping to pull his weight.

We have. He's countered that we should log what we've bought and how much we've cooked and that it'd just make everything difficult.

Originally posted by: UNESC0
buy food seperately - except condiments/cheap things (rice, pasta, etc...)

after four years of school, I've found this is by far the easiest way to keep everything conflict-free

The problem is that Costco is where get the bulk of our food and only one person has a car.
 

BigJ

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Originally posted by: bennylong
why don't you move out? Why in the world are you living with 4 people? Don't you have a job?

In a 4 person apartment, rent around here is anywhere from $500-$700/month if you don't live with a roommate.
 

jtusa

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The both times I had roommates we did food seperately. We shared stuff like ketchup or whatever, anything else we asked permission, and I can't remember a time either of us said no when we asked, just a respect thing. Sharing food is a bad idea because someone will always feel cheated.
 

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Originally posted by: BigJ
Originally posted by: bennylong
why don't you move out? Why in the world are you living with 4 people? Don't you have a job?

In a 4 person apartment, rent around here is anywhere from $500-$700/month if you don't live with a roommate.

I'm living in a university-owned apartment that requires 4 people per apartment.

Originally posted by: Strk
Does he actually do anything? School, work etc.

Yeah, we're all taking summer classes at school. He sleeps at 1 and wakes up at either 10 or 12. I've never seen him do work for school though. I pretty sure he's also never held a job in his life.
 

bennylong

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ROFL. schedule everything around WoW raid. Pathetic. Even more pathetic than my life and I didn't think that was possible
 

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Lifer
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Originally posted by: eos
Originally posted by: SlitheryDee
Ahh roommates. Truth is you REALLY don't know them until you live with them.

I've lived with the other two just fine. We get alone. I just don't get alone with Dave especially by the way he acts so high and mighty as if he knew everything. Sure he's an only child, but so am I. I'm not spoiled. I've worked and I know how to cook. The funny thing is that his major is Political Economics of an Industrialized Society or something like that and I'm dual major bioengineering and electrical engineering & computer science, yet he thinks his major is so much better than mine.