I've a general question to those of you in a couple.
What would you say if your SO told you they were going out with someone of the other for a coffee or for a walk to talk. This would be that the other person asked them out after running into them at a club for whatever reason such as them working together or going to school together but there really is no reason for them to catch up on anything.
Would you consider this cheating or what do you make of it? By the details, it of course has to do with me although my situation makes no sense. The girl says we aren't in a relationship but stays with me 6 days a week by her choice because she likes being with me. I told her if she goes out with this guy that she would no longer be allowed to stay and she got all angry saying I am jealous, don't trust her, bla bla bla.
I told her she is too blind to see that a single guy she ran into at a club asking her out for coffee is not just an act of friendship.
What do you all say to this? I know I have to move on, but I just want to know for future reference if my reaction was overblown or what you would expect.
What would you say if your SO told you they were going out with someone of the other for a coffee or for a walk to talk. This would be that the other person asked them out after running into them at a club for whatever reason such as them working together or going to school together but there really is no reason for them to catch up on anything.
Would you consider this cheating or what do you make of it? By the details, it of course has to do with me although my situation makes no sense. The girl says we aren't in a relationship but stays with me 6 days a week by her choice because she likes being with me. I told her if she goes out with this guy that she would no longer be allowed to stay and she got all angry saying I am jealous, don't trust her, bla bla bla.
I told her she is too blind to see that a single guy she ran into at a club asking her out for coffee is not just an act of friendship.
What do you all say to this? I know I have to move on, but I just want to know for future reference if my reaction was overblown or what you would expect.