Question regarding being fair to my GF

Nocturnal

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I've been going out with the same girl for the past four years of my life. I've driven her around since the day we started going out. Is it fair to kinda get a little upset that she should by now have tried to get her driver's license? She only has her permit and she says she doesn't have time to get her license. I'm kinda pissed because I was half hour late to work today because she needed a favor. If she drove it wouldn't have happend. Am I right or wrong to be mad?

She always gives me the guilt trip where she says, "I'm sorry thank you so much for driving me around every day, oh thank you so much."

It's irritating to say the least.
 

fs5

Lifer
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yagt, tell her to take the bus or get a license.

Say woman, I'm bringing home the bacon, I can't be late.
 

jdogg

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tell her every time she gets in your car from now on ... road head is mandatory
 

If she's giving head or hand jobs while you drive then STFU! Otherwise tell her to start, or get her license.




:)
 

Kyteland

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Originally posted by: amdskip
How old is she? Is it a money issue or something?

How would money be an issue to just getting the license?

I could see it if the insurance went up with her dirving, but hey, women drivers don't need insurance, right? :p
 

CaseTragedy

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just explain things to her. if she refuses to budge then i'd think about leaving. it'd mean she didn't grow much in the past 4 years and will probably continue the same path unless something drastic happens.
 

Encryptic

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Tell her to get her license or take public transportation. How difficult is that? If she keeps this up, you're going to be kissing her ass for the rest of your life every time she wants to go somewhere
 

JEDI

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Originally posted by: Nocturnal
I've been going out with the same girl for the past four years of my life. I've driven her around since the day we started going out. Is it fair to kinda get a little upset that she should by now have tried to get her driver's license? She only has her permit and she says she doesn't have time to get her license. I'm kinda pissed because I was half hour late to work today because she needed a favor. If she drove it wouldn't have happend. Am I right or wrong to be mad?

She always gives me the guilt trip where she says, "I'm sorry thank you so much for driving me around every day, oh thank you so much."

It's irritating to say the least.

2 choices:
1) tell her how u feel and that you are tired and give ultimatum
2) shut up and continue to get nookie

depends on which frustration you would rather have :p
 

ace31216

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Ask her, " What is the point of getting a permit and not a license?" I think she just needs a little nudge and convince her it is in her best interest to get the licence now.
 

Murphy Durphy

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Originally posted by: MisterJackson
If she's giving head or hand jobs while you drive then STFU! Otherwise tell her to start, or get her license.




:)

You should see if you could get a little anal with that too...;)




...I think women's strapons are cheap these days. :Q
 

weezergirl

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Originally posted by: Kevin
Hmm, no one's mentioned it. Do you atleast get road head on occasion?

Um can you not read?

Anyways, do you know why she won't get her license? Why don't you tell her next weekend you are gonna take her to a remote area and teach her how to drive so that she can get her license. Or at least ask her why it's such a big deal for her.

Does she even have a car to drive if she were to get her license though? Also, how old is this girl....
 

Encryptic

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Originally posted by: weezergirl
Originally posted by: Kevin
Hmm, no one's mentioned it. Do you atleast get road head on occasion?

Um can you not read?

Anyways, do you know why she won't get her license? Why don't you tell her next weekend you are gonna take her to a remote area and teach her how to drive so that she can get her license. Or at least ask her why it's such a big deal for her.

Does she even have a car to drive if she were to get her license though? Also, how old is this girl....

I've got a better idea. Tell her that next weekend you're going to take her to a remote area and chop her into little pieces if she doesn't start learning how to drive. :D
 

Kevin

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Originally posted by: weezergirl
Originally posted by: Kevin
Hmm, no one's mentioned it. Do you atleast get road head on occasion?

Um can you not read?

Anyways, do you know why she won't get her license? Why don't you tell her next weekend you are gonna take her to a remote area and teach her how to drive so that she can get her license. Or at least ask her why it's such a big deal for her.

Does she even have a car to drive if she were to get her license though? Also, how old is this girl....

Um, no one ever came out and asked him, they just assumed...
 

bleeb

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Sounds like someone is being a 'Tool' (Check urbandictionary.com for the definition)
 

Nocturnal

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My GF is 21 years old and a car for her is something we aren't worried about. The moment she passes her driver's license exam we'll be taking out a car loan for a second hand car for her. That is not the problem. It's getting her to go and practice driving.