question on how to handle a registered sex offender

[Via]

What is "gross sexual imposition"?

Is it talking dirty?

 

[Kadarin]

I can see that those of you saying, basically, what's the big deal - have no kids of your own..

and for the record, he's a 66 year old man, who was busted for gross sexual imposition with an 11 year old girl

Then I think you should run around in circles waving your hands in the air, screaming.

 

[Dr. Zaus]

What is "gross sexual imposition"?

Is it talking dirty?

Gross Sexual Imposition occurs when a perpetrator forces a party to have sexual contact with another party against their will. The forced sexual contact is not with the offender. Forcing a person against their will to engage in sexual activity with another person constitutes gross sexual imposition. Forcing a person into prostitution is an example of gross sexual imposition... Gross sexual imposition occurs when the victim is younger than thirteen years of age

So, best case scenario he allowed an 11 year old her and her boyfriend to have sex in his house (maybe it was his son and his girlfriend?); this would have been gross imposition because she's under 13.

Worst case scenario he pimped out a little girl as a sex slave.

 

[HumblePie]

So, best case scenario he allowed an 11 year old her and her boyfriend to have sex in his house (maybe it was his son and his girlfriend?); this would have been gross imposition because she's under 13.

Worst case scenario he pimped out a little girl as a sex slave.

This. Basically if he allowed his 13 year old child to take into his or her room an 11 child without monitoring if their was sex involved and it came to light, then he can be arrested adn charged with a sexual misconduct offense. Thus making that person a registered sex offender for life. It could have just been gross negligence or ignorance on the person's part. Heck, the child could have snuck in to the person's house without them knowing and done the deed and thus implicating the person in a sexual misconduct offense.

I'm not saying that is the case. As that is pretty rare to happen. Most than likely the person was pimping out someone too young to resist.

 

[shortylickens]

'gross sexual imposition towards an 11 year old girl'?

I'd like to know the details. It could be some bullshit nonsense that an overbearing community felt like enforcing.

 

[highland145]

To those of you that posted with rational thoughts, thank you for the feedback.

To the morons who thought they could make lame jokes about trailer parks and such, stay classy San Diego.

This is a very nice development, not a trailer park.

I was looking for people who have already been through this - this is new for me, new for this community in fact, as the houses here were all built in the last 7 or 8 years.

I do agree that people tagged as 'sex offenders', when they were having sex with their BF/GF, are unfairly treated - but this guy at some point had improper sexual situations involving an 11 year old girl - that puts him in a different category IMO.

'gross sexual imposition towards an 11 year old girl'?

I'd like to know the details. It could be some bullshit nonsense that an overbearing community felt like enforcing.

Been asked and ignored by the OP............

 

[rudeguy]

I would offer to help him move in. While helping I would let him know that he is welcome but the children of the neighborhood are looked after. That his past is not a secret but I will do anything I can to help him get on the right side of the law. I would offer my phone number. I would also offer that if he speaks to one child without an adult present, there will be issues.

Unless he looks like a creepy old man. Or a Son of Sam kind of weirdo. Then I would bring him a gift basket while open carrying with a note that says "we know".

 

[NeoV]

it wasn't ignored - I told you exactly what the sheriff's office told me

 

[rudeguy]

it wasn't ignored - I told you exactly what the sheriff's office told me

did you read my post?

Have you thought about talking to the guy? Maybe he was an addict or a drunk who did a bad thing? Maybe he was manic and needed help. Maybe he is an awful person and needs to be watched.

But without talking to the guy, you have no idea.

 

[Imp]

I would offer to help him move in. While helping I would let him know that he is welcome but the children of the neighborhood are looked after. That his past is not a secret but I will do anything I can to help him get on the right side of the law. I would offer my phone number. I would also offer that if he speaks to one child without an adult present, there will be issues.

Unless he looks like a creepy old man. Or a Son of Sam kind of weirdo. Then I would bring him a gift basket while open carrying with a note that says "we know".

Well that would be reasonable and not a rush to judgement... How boring.

 

[Cyrus9008]

Do nothing, he's on the sex offenders register... He already knows to stay away from your kids.

As if it were really that easy, he also knew it was illegal what he did the first time, did that stop him? NO obviously didn't, just because he knows not to do something doesn't mean he won't do it.

OP, do anything you have to do to protect your children at all costs I would make it painfully clear to him. I couldn't imagine being in your situation I really couldn't. You are in a tough spot, how close is he to your actual house and the houses your kids visits? Is it the same housing track?

You need to educate your kids on what and who to look out for. Make it painfully clear to them if you see any adult anytime who is by themselves standing around watching a bunch of kids that this is a very dangerous situation. Also have to have big sister look out for your younger kids and all around look out for eachother. There's safety in numbers. Personally I would make it clear in a tactful way that you have firearms even if you don't. Like someone else suggested help him move in and get on the topic of shooting sporting clays, hunting, trap/skeet. He'll get the picture of what you're actually trying to tell him but in a nice way.