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question on how to handle a registered sex offender

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dabuddha said:
Agreed on the first point. Disagree on the second. Letting the pathetic piece of shit know that all the neighbors know about him might be the one thing that keeps the shit from molesting again. Personally, he should have been executed.
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he molested a child. Its something good to know. Make sure your kids know who he is and to stay the hell away from him and why. Also keep a eye on him if he is messing with kids.

other then that you can't do a damn thing.
 
sourceninja said:
You have a choice to make:

1) Decide that a man who does his time in prison has paid his debt and should be reformed (or he shouldn't be out of prison).
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Gross sexual imposition with 11 year old girl = not possible to have paid his debt, considering his penis is (presumably) still attached

To the OP:

I haven't been in your shoes, so I can't say for sure what I would do... but I have a 9 year old son and a 7 year old daughter, so I'm more than happy war game this a bit. Personally, I like the idea of introducing yourself - gift basket in hand - and issuing a thinly veiled "what's up, pedo?". Keep your friends close and your enemies closer - don't be a complete dick and make it impossible to communicate with the guy. Just let him know you know (and that your neighbors know) as passably as possible.

As for everyone saying you're overreacting, not being reasonable, he has rights blah blah blah. Fuck 'em. When it comes to my kids, I don't care if I'm right or wrong in the public eye.
 
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Stuxnet said:
Gross sexual imposition with 11 year old girl = not possible to have paid his debt, considering his penis is (presumably) still attached

To the OP:

I haven't been in your shoes, so I can't say for sure what I would do... but I have a 9 year old son and a 7 year old daughter, so I'm more than happy war game this a bit. Personally, I like the idea of introducing yourself - gift basket in hand - and issuing a thinly veiled "what's up, pedo?". Keep your friends close and your enemies closer - don't be a complete dick and make it impossible to communicate with the guy. Just let him know you know (and that your neighbors know) as passably as possible.

As for everyone saying you're overreacting, not being reasonable, he has rights blah blah blah. Fuck 'em. When it comes to my kids, I don't care if I'm right or wrong in the public eye.
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:thumbsup:

I have a 5 year old and a 2 year old girl and I'll be god damned if someones is going to even think about doing anything inappropriately to them. I'd have to go law abiding citizen on their asses.
 
loki8481 said:
that's kind of a weird offense.



http://www.sexoffenderattorney.com/...hat-gross-sexual-imposition-penalties-defense

I'd want to know more details.

if I had kids, I'd warn them to stay away. beyond that, I probably wouldn't lose much sleep over it.
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Quoting this because of the staggering ignorance in this thread. The old man wasn't charged with molesting anyone. Not saying he isn't a piece of shit, but at least get your facts straight before being an armchair lawyer.
 
I would make certain my children knew exactly what he looked like and which house was his so that they could avoid any contact with him. I would give them explicit instructions to run if he ever attempted to say anything to them.

You don't need to deal with him at all. Keeps your kids informed and trust them to do the right thing.
 
Beev said:
Quoting this because of the staggering ignorance in this thread. The old man wasn't charged with molesting anyone. Not saying he isn't a piece of shit, but at least get your facts straight before being an armchair lawyer.
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Well, if the OP would look the guy up on his county web site or a local paper we might know the "facts". Hell, just give us his name and we'll find out for him.

So he forced the child to perform cunnilingus on his girlfriend. Yep, still a douche. I made that up, BTW.
 
Beev said:
Quoting this because of the staggering ignorance in this thread. The old man wasn't charged with molesting anyone. Not saying he isn't a piece of shit, but at least get your facts straight before being an armchair lawyer.
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you are right. its so much better he forced one child to have sex/oral sex on someone else. we should all forget it.

fuck you.

as i said before
A) make sure you your children know to stay the fuck away from the sicko.
b) make sure they know what he looks like
c) make sure they stay away from the fucker
d) keep a eye on said fucker if out in public.
 
I would probably just set a weight bench in the front lawn and go outside with a wife beater on and lift weights. When said offender drove by I'd be staring him down while doing a set of curls and grunting very loudly at the same time. Just keep your eyes fixed to him the whole time even when he's passed you. Actually being shirtless might even be better.
 
waggy said:
you are right. its so much better he forced one child to have sex/oral sex on someone else. we should all forget it.

fuck you.
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What a fucking dumbshit reaction... I like how you apparently only read five words of my post. I SAID he was a piece of shit.
 
Stuxnet said:
Gross sexual imposition with 11 year old girl = not possible to have paid his debt, considering his penis is (presumably) still attached

To the OP:

I haven't been in your shoes, so I can't say for sure what I would do... but I have a 9 year old son and a 7 year old daughter, so I'm more than happy war game this a bit. Personally, I like the idea of introducing yourself - gift basket in hand - and issuing a thinly veiled "what's up, pedo?". Keep your friends close and your enemies closer - don't be a complete dick and make it impossible to communicate with the guy. Just let him know you know (and that your neighbors know) as passably as possible.

As for everyone saying you're overreacting, not being reasonable, he has rights blah blah blah. Fuck 'em. When it comes to my kids, I don't care if I'm right or wrong in the public eye.
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I can only suggest that we need to change the laws then. Society has placed a debt on that crime, and apparently he paid it. If you don't like it, change the laws or use my other two options.

In the end, the guy as a right to live and he has to live somewhere. So either change the laws to just kill him or stop bitching about it.
 
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This is an easy situation, my brother just went through it recently. Go to his house and introduce yourself. Welcome him to the neighborhood. Also make it clear that you know about his past conviction. Other than that, just treat him like any normal person.

You also have a duty to let your neighbors and family know the situation. If you have a 13 year old girl then she is old enough to know the truth. Point out the guy so that she knows exactly who it is. Tell her that he was busted for a sexual crime against a minor and that she is to stay away from him in all circumstances.

Case solved.
 
sourceninja said:
I can only suggest that we need to change the laws then. Society has placed a debt on that crime, and apparently he paid it. If you don't like it, change the laws or use my other two options.

In the end, the guy as a right to live and he has to live somewhere. So either change the laws to just kill him or stop bitching about it.
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sure. nobody is saying he can't live there. WE are saying take precautions. such as make sure the kids know who and what he did. Do not allow him to be alone with kids etc.

just because he did his time does not mean we have to forget what he did.
 
waggy said:
sure. nobody is saying he can't live there. WE are saying take precautions. such as make sure the kids know who and what he did. Do not allow him to be alone with kids etc.

just because he did his time does not mean we have to forget what he did.
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I'm not saying forget about it, I never said that. I said he is no different then everyone else in your area. You need to warn your kids away from being alone with any adult you haven't personally vetted.

How well do you know that family down the street your kids play with? Is the father a child rapist who just hasn't been caught yet?

Or, make a big deal out of it and enjoy the stress.

So I was saying, don't live your life in fear. Tell the kids he's a bad man and to stay away, parent like normal, and your kids will be safe.
 
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