It's easy to judge, tscenter, until you're faced with the decision. What will you say when a member of your family screws up, makes a mistake, is raped, contracts it through a blood infusion (rare, but still happens), etc.
First, let's get something straight...
A "mistake" is when you forget to look both ways before crossing the street and you step in front of a Greyhound Bus. A "mistake" is when you get to the check-out register and find that you left your wallet at home. A mistake is when you write "305" when you were supposed to write "304". Those are "mistakes".
Conversely, a "mistake" is NOT when you take a gun into a liquor store and demand all their money.
A "choice" is when you put your penis into someone, or put a needle into your vein, knowing there are risks, for any reason or motivation at all. In all my years I've never managed to insert my penis into anything accidentally or mistakenly...how about you?
Get it? Two different things, 'mistakes' and 'choices', as different as any two things could be. The earlier in life that you understand the difference, the better it will be on you. Now, on to your fallacious argument that attempts to seize the moral high ground.
Given that I have gay or lesbian relatives, I've known people who died of AIDs. As a health care professional, I've also treated many AIDs patients.
One this is for certain, I would NOT say "Damn, they should be spending MORE or AS MUCH on AIDs research as they do for Uncle Fred who has Parkinson's Disease, Aunt Freda who has Multiple Sclerosis, my father who has rhuematoid arthritis, myself who has narcolepsy and cataplexy, and the five other people I know who have a devastating disease that is not preventable, because I know one person who contracted HIV."
Nor more than I would say "Damn, they should kill every shark because I know one person who was attacked."
I find your inability to accept current, reliable statistics rather foolish.
Yeah, I should have said 85% of people with HIV are drug-users, homosexuals, bisexuals, or all of the above, not 90%. My bad.
Although we are getting to one of the flaws in how these HIV transmissions are classified. If I am an IV drug user, who meets a female prostitute in the course of my drug-abusing, deviant, and high-risk life, and I contract HIV from her, guess what manner of transmission this is counted as? Yep, "heterosexual" contact. Heterosexual is a 'sanitized' classification which does not account for the true nature of the behavior which lead to transmission.
This was one of the flaws revealed in the Los Angeles county study which found that "heterosexual women were the fastest growing risk group". I must confess that I was wrong when I stated earlier that many of the women in the 1990 LA County study were prostitutes.
ALL OF THE WOMEN WERE PROSTITUTES!
So...prostitutes, drug abusers, or bisexuals passing HIV through heterosexual contact to other prostitutes, drug abusers, or bisexuals that they meet in pursuit of their deviant, criminal, or otherwise high risk life-styles, are classified as "heterosexual" transmissions. This isn't exactly sweet Mary College Girl contracting HIV from All-American Tom College Boy.
Your replies have been among some of the most heartless, selfish I've heard in a long time. Would you not stop to help someone who got into a car accident? No, they should have known better than to drive dangerously, it's not your problem. Keep on drivin'.
Your attempt at Ivory Tower is kinda pathetic. My comments have been honest and accurate, how can they be "selfish and heartless", because I am calling a spade a spade, in a manner of speaking? More senseless bleeding heart Politically Correct POPPY-COCK BULLSHIIT!
If my comments are heartless and selfish, then your's are the height of stupidity. See...name calling is easy. Substance is hard and you're failing miserably.
There's a certain point where most people accept responsibility for contributing to the rest of humanity, even those that, god forbid, make mistakes.
Do you even have any idea what that means?
There are not infinite resources. We as a society are forced to make moral decisions all the time. A man shoots a bunch of school children then turns the gun on himself. The first ambulance arrives on the scene, and there are a few critical children and the gunman who is still alive. Only room for one person in the ambulance, who do you take, the gunman or a child, both of whom are bleeding to death?
Any decent human being would chose the child and say screw the gunman. Do you understand why or are you one of the few idiots who see no difference between the gunman and the child he attempted to murder?
Similarly, you have not yet stated one word which would justify why we should spend so much money to research treatments, cures, or vaccines, for a disease that is 99.97% preventable by simple life-style modifications and overwhelmingly affects a distictly small subset of the population who engage in willfull and deliberate high-risk or deviant behavior TO THE EXCLUSION of any number of diseases which are either not preventable or not easily prevented and affect a much larger portion of the population through no fault of their own?
This is not a difficult question! Do you take the gunman or the child? CHOOSE!
So you must not like the funding of research for lung cancer (the majority of cases which happen to be caused by people smoking which is a high risk life-style that is preventable, and you mention in another thread that:
My father is well aware of my opinions, he SHARES them. He does not blame tobacco companies for his cancer, accepts FULL responsibility for his own choices, and for a man who started smoking in the 1940's, KNOWS damned well that anyone who says they "didn't know" smoking was harmful back then is nothing more than an insufferable L-I-A-R.