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Originally posted by: Arschloch
Originally posted by: her209
DON'T DO IT!!!

Let me guess, this chick is in college and you are working full-time. If this is the case, run for the hills and don't look back. She's going to want to screw every guy she meets (college thing) and she's going resent you for it because she can't OR she'll do it behind your back and you'll find out when you find her with some dude in her bed on a suprise visit. In other words, she wants to screw, you looking to settle down.

Again... DON'T DO IT!!!
Of course, this relies heavily on the assumption that every girl in college is exactly the same.

I'm not saying there aren't women at college like that -- of course there are! -- but not all of them are like that. I knew a lot of them who weren't.
They weren't like that with you... that's all. 😛
 
Carefull there too. Those that aren't get there later in life. It happens at some point for both men and women imo. So unless she burnt through that stage in high school.....
 
in my early 20s i felt like going for girls about my age, then in my late 20s i felt like girls 4-5 yrs younger is really a good match... end up my wife is just over a year younger than me. it doesn't really matter
 
Tell her some bullshit about how you guys may be 5yrs apart but you guys are on a similar maturity level etc... blah blah. She is likely more immature, but hell tell her what she wants to hear =P
 
You answered your own question. It doesn't matter..................


Edit: Unless you let it. Also remember she is in a different place than you and should be allowed space. Don't expect too much right now...
 
Originally posted by: LcarsSystem
Originally posted by: quasarsky
so i'm talking to this girl thats 19 and i'm 24. we both really like each other alot. we talk about anything. she even shares details "EXPLICIT" (sexual) of her past with her ex. i did tonight too.

i know all about the stigma of being a nice guy but would a girl even talk to u about things like that too?

the thing is she is worried about the age difference. I don't think its that bad. What do i say to her? she asked me tonight what to say about the age difference she said 'Say Something' and i was like age doesn't matter, we both like each other alot and it shouldn't matter.

please reply if you have some advice on what i should tell her. i want to assuage her fears.

she also is very into church and a relationship with God. as am I. maybe it will just take time for her to be comfortable?

Edit.. ok ok, uhhh its legal, nothings wong with it, its consenual, go for it.


😕
 
Originally posted by: quasarsky
so i'm talking to this girl thats 19 and i'm 24. we both really like each other alot. we talk about anything. she even shares details "EXPLICIT" (sexual) of her past with her ex. i did tonight too.

i know all about the stigma of being a nice guy but would a girl even talk to u about things like that too?

the thing is she is worried about the age difference. I don't think its that bad. What do i say to her? she asked me tonight what to say about the age difference she said 'Say Something' and i was like age doesn't matter, we both like each other alot and it shouldn't matter.

please reply if you have some advice on what i should tell her. i want to assuage her fears.

she also is very into church and a relationship with God. as am I. maybe it will just take time for her to be comfortable?

You're obviously not married, and you just admitted you've had sex before marriage. It's obvious you're going to hell, so hit it anyways.

😛
 
Originally posted by: engineereeyore
Hey, my sister was 25, he was in his 50's. Yes, gross, I know. But they're happy. More power to them.

Just wish he would have been rich. :disgust:
that's gross

 
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