Question about sex and marriage

[RadiclDreamer]

My wife and I have a pretty active sex life, at least every other day to every 3 days. Many times this isnt enough for me and we argue about it. Its not that I dont love her, its just that I have a very overactive sex drive. My question is how to handle it? I try to deal with it but I get really irratable if i dont get it for a day or so which causes me to snap at her etc.

 

[hans030390]

uhhh....

 

[AMDZen]

When she won't give it up, just masterbate furiously in the bed next to her - and then continue this throughout the night and in the morning.

 

[PricklyPete]

Are you an amputee?

 

[astrocase]

This was something I learned. You should address this before marraige. I never did come up with a solution while married. Try toys if you haven't already done so.

 

[Amplifier]

Originally posted by: RadiclDreamer
My wife and I have a pretty active sex life, at least every other day to every 3 days. Many times this isnt enough for me and we argue about it. Its not that I dont love her, its just that I have a very overactive sex drive. My question is how to handle it? I try to deal with it but I get really irratable if i dont get it for a day or so which causes me to snap at her etc.

Remember you aren't really cheating on her if you don't love the other girl.

 

[nakedfrog]

Take matters into your own hands.

 

[krunchykrome]

One word....or maybe it's two words






fleshlight

 

[RadiclDreamer]

Its not the same, and it wasnt this way before marriage, it was 5 times a day then.

 

[GTaudiophile]

How old are the two of you? Is she 30 yet?

 

[Mrvile]

Originally posted by: RadiclDreamer
Its not the same, and it wasnt this way before marriage, it was 5 times a day then.

lol

 

[GTaudiophile]

Originally posted by: RadiclDreamer
Its not the same, and it wasnt this way before marriage, it was 5 times a day then.

Damn. That would be exhausting.

 

[overst33r]

Originally posted by: RadiclDreamer
Its not the same, and it wasnt this way before marriage, it was 5 times a day then.

did either of you have jobs?

 

[nakedfrog]

Originally posted by: RadiclDreamer
Its not the same, and it wasnt this way before marriage, it was 5 times a day then.

Oh well. You're still getting it often enough to show that there's no real problem, so be a man and suck it up. You didn't get married so she could serve your sexual desires.

 

[Amplifier]

Originally posted by: nakedfrog

Originally posted by: RadiclDreamer
Its not the same, and it wasnt this way before marriage, it was 5 times a day then.

Oh well. You're still getting it often enough to show that there's no real problem, so be a man and suck it up. You didn't get married so she could serve your sexual desires.

The bible disagrees with you...

From the book of Corinthians:

7:3 A husband should give to his wife her sexual rights,4 and likewise a wife to her husband. 7:4 It is not the wife who has the rights to her own body, but the husband;

 

[nakedfrog]

Originally posted by: GTaudiophile

Originally posted by: RadiclDreamer
Its not the same, and it wasnt this way before marriage, it was 5 times a day then.

Damn. That would be exhausting.

It is. Hard to sustain that rate.

 

[Rill22]

Originally posted by: RadiclDreamer
Its not the same, and it wasnt this way before marriage, it was 5 times a day then.

How do you have time for that? Unless it's like 5 minutes long each, and even then it wouldn't be very satisfying for her.

 

[nakedfrog]

Originally posted by: Amplifier

Originally posted by: nakedfrog

Originally posted by: RadiclDreamer
Its not the same, and it wasnt this way before marriage, it was 5 times a day then.

Oh well. You're still getting it often enough to show that there's no real problem, so be a man and suck it up. You didn't get married so she could serve your sexual desires.

The bible disagrees with you...

<---- This is me pretending I care

 

[bleeb]

Keep up teh flava ~

 

[RadiclDreamer]

Originally posted by: Rill22

Originally posted by: RadiclDreamer
Its not the same, and it wasnt this way before marriage, it was 5 times a day then.

How do you have time for that? Unless it's like 5 minutes long each, and even then it wouldn't be very satisfying for her.

I'm 23, we've been together for almost 9 years and we're been married for 2. Soe before we were married I was in college and before that high school, so time was abundant

 

[Amplifier]

Originally posted by: nakedfrog


<---- This is me pretending I care

Most men don't, that is why marriages become lifeless and void of sex. God wants you to be happy and sex is the path to a healthy marriage.

 

[nakedfrog]

Originally posted by: Amplifier

Originally posted by: nakedfrog


<---- This is me pretending I care

Most men don't, that is why marriages become lifeless and void of sex. God wants you to be happy and sex is the path to a healthy marriage.

Please kindly take your preaching elsewhere. Preaching to me won't do either of us a lick of good. And 2-4 times per week is hardly a sexual drought.

 

[RadiclDreamer]

Originally posted by: nakedfrog

Originally posted by: Amplifier

Originally posted by: nakedfrog


<---- This is me pretending I care

Most men don't, that is why marriages become lifeless and void of sex. God wants you to be happy and sex is the path to a healthy marriage.

Please kindly take your preaching elsewhere. Preaching to me won't do either of us a lick of good. And 2-4 times per week is hardly a sexual drought.

I realise that, but also realise that I like sex a little "too" much. Its an issue that I wish wasnt one, but its just how i am

 

[Amplifier]

Originally posted by: nakedfrog

Originally posted by: Amplifier

Originally posted by: nakedfrog


<---- This is me pretending I care

Most men don't, that is why marriages become lifeless and void of sex. God wants you to be happy and sex is the path to a healthy marriage.

Please kindly take your preaching elsewhere. Preaching to me won't do either of us a lick of good. And 2-4 times per week is hardly a sexual drought.

You aren't in a position to tell other people how they feel. Take your moral tirades elsewhere.

To the OP, sex is important to him, that's why the church encourages sex at least once a day. Perhaps attending services more often would help your relationship, at the very least you might find a good christian girl who cares about your needs.

 

[Bryophyte]

Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Take matters into your own hands.

QFT.