Question about marriage

[mfbf]

Originally posted by: Deeko
People who disprove of sex outside of marriage in general don't know what they are talking about. To have a lasting marriage you have to be compatible with your spouse, sexual compatibility is one of those things, so if you wait till marriage, how will you know beforehand?

Let me just say that you show that you are only 18. There are hundreds of other things that you need to find out that you are compatible with another person before sex should even play a significant role. I think when people can realize that, then they won't get married so fast and divorced even faster.

mfbf - soon to be happily married 🙂

 

[MuffD]

Originally posted by: dquan97

Originally posted by: muffstah

Originally posted by: Sluggo
You know, divorces or the aftermath dont come cheap.

My parents were married for 25 years and just now figured out that they are incompatible. In the end, my MOM is paying my dad 2,500 a month in spousal support....even though she has my two brothers living with her. She pays for their school, cars, and insurance. Go figure.

That's sad...in what ways were they incompatible?

I think they just didn't have the same interests anymore. I also think my dad being lazy as hell had a big thing to do with it. Unfortunately, my mom made alot more than my father did so she ended up paying big time in the end. They sold 4 houses also.

 

[Woodie]

Women... can't live without 'em... can't shoot 'em.

Of course they say the same about men. 😱

 

[Spamela]

Originally posted by: WinkOsmosis
Why is it that people who are always complaining about their spouses don't get a divorce? If you don't like her yammering or turning gay, why not make it stop?

because complaining is easier than doing something to resolve problems.

 

[ThreeLeggedGnome]

just because you complain about something doesnt mean you hate it or dont want to have it around

 

[Electric Amish]

Originally posted by: WinkOsmosis
Why is it that people who are always complaining about their spouses don't get a divorce? If you don't like her yammering or turning gay, why not make it stop?

For all the crap and "bad times" you hear about, there are (usually) thousands of wonderful times you don't.

amish

 

[AnyMal]

Originally posted by: Sluggo
You know, divorces or the aftermath dont come cheap.

ditto

 

[Rob9874]

I complain about my wife because I need to vent sometimes. You always have frustrations with people you live with. I have no need to talk about the good things. So my friends just think I hate being married. I need to watch how I'm portraying my marriage.

 

[amnesiac]

Originally posted by: Fausto1

Originally posted by: purepolly
Simple, because they use the attention and sympathy to try to form new sexual relationships. They are sexual predators...

Uh yeah.....that's it.

Where the hell do people like you come from? I'm dying to find the jackass who keeps kicking mossy rocks over.

er....sorry.

*sheepishly puts mossy rock back upright*