I have never seen one case in history where violence has changed someone's mind.
You want Iraq to change, show them why freedom is so great, not why their idea is so wrong.
Please also keep in mind that the people fighting us over there are mindless dupes driven by poverty. It is easy to control large groups of the disenfranchised. Fuck, just dumping the cash we have spent on the war there in piles would do more to change their minds.
You catch more with honey.
We're on the same page as far as wishing for change in that region. We're on the same page as far as religion goes. We only disagree on the method.
BTW, most of the people fighting on our side are disenfranchised mindless dupes as well. See the video for evidence.
I'm sorry, but your lack of experience is telling.
One of the greatest accomplishments of my Company was starting the reconciliation of the Baghdad Shia and Sunni factions. We used the first three or four months for heavy intelligence gathering on key players in our area of operations. We then figured out who was reconcilable, and who was not.
We utilized combat operations to neutralize the thugs in our area. By making them powerless, we gave power to the local populous. We held localized elections (nothing "official" in the government system but each community went to voting areas and cast votes for local representatives). We then brought those representatives to a building we called the "reconciliation building".
At first, each side wouldn't talk to each other. In fact, we had to do a very thorough weapons check at the door otherwise violence would have erupted. But we sat them down at the table and forced them to talk. To discuss their issues. We pointed out the harm they were doing when they attacked each other, and highlighted the good that could be accomplished by working together.
Like I said, in the beginning they were at each other throats and we had to have Soldiers in the meetings to pull them apart.
By the time we left, they were holding and conducting their own meetings without our presence. Violence between the two sides had dropped by 92 percent.
However, there was still a minority faction of hardcore thugs. They would attack the meetings, or try to assassinate the elected representatives (even of their own "Shia" or "Sunni" faction). These people could not be won over with "honey". So we went after them and captured or killed them. By the end of my deployment, there was only one holdout group in the very south of our area of operations (whereas before groups of insurgents and thugs had controlled everything, including the police).
And as for your statement "BTW, most of the people fighting on our side are disenfranchised mindless dupes as well. See the video for evidence." The video is hardly evidence of that. The video reaction is a normal reaction to war. It is simply your opinion that they are "disenfranchised mindless dupes" so don't try to present it as anything but.