she was texting to see if her sister wanted her to pick up her son and drop him off at daycare... it wasn't a social life thing. also, it was early in the morning and no other cars were around to watch what happened, except the one she hit.
i'm not excusing what she did or making excuses for her. what i'm saying, though, is that a lot of times, you guys can be extremely black and white about things regardless of the fact that you, your best friends, and your family members probably do the same thing. if the same thing happened to them, i'm sure you wouldn't sit back and call them "selfish to the core" or anything like that (unless you know they actually are).
i'm not defending her actions. i'm defending her character. her actions don't define her character. did she do something stupid, reckless, and negligent? yes. is that the kind of person she is? no. did she deserve any of this? no.
that's all i'm trying to say.