PSA: even nerds can get girls

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Yea.. sometimes there are horrible long dry spells... but even nerds can land dates and girlfriends.

Do not give up hope my fellow soldiers of the binary.

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Fullmetal Chocobo

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And thus, I get to praise my Lady Lizardth of Arctic Silver in the hot state of Texas... :D
 

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Huhwhat?

I mean, I know it's theoretically possible, but it just doesn't happen for a good proportion of us, for various reasons.
 

Excelsior

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Sure they can. They might be fat/ugly/have social issues, but they can.

If they are actually attractive and smart...well then the nerd has money and lots of it.
 

BD2003

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Originally posted by: bersl2
Huhwhat?

I mean, I know it's theoretically possible, but it just doesn't happen for a good proportion of us, for various reasons.

The most common reason being that nerds have already defeated themselves by not believing they can get a girl.
 

bersl2

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Originally posted by: BD2003
Originally posted by: bersl2
Huhwhat?

I mean, I know it's theoretically possible, but it just doesn't happen for a good proportion of us, for various reasons.

The most common reason being that nerds have already defeated themselves by not believing they can get a girl.

This is true. However, what do you think might prompt this? After all, we don't reach this conclusion without some prior stimulus shaping our subconsciouses in that direction.

Or are you going to argue that we punish ourselves because we want to?

P.S.: no sleep + this thread = disaster in the making
 

BD2003

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Originally posted by: bersl2
Originally posted by: BD2003
Originally posted by: bersl2
Huhwhat?

I mean, I know it's theoretically possible, but it just doesn't happen for a good proportion of us, for various reasons.

The most common reason being that nerds have already defeated themselves by not believing they can get a girl.

This is true. However, what do you think might prompt this? After all, we don't reach this conclusion without some prior stimulus shaping our subconsciouses in that direction.

Or are you going to argue that we punish ourselves because we want to?

P.S.: no sleep + this thread = disaster in the making

Its is vicious cycle. Nerds SHOULD be heading straight for the nerd girls, but they dont, for the first part. Nerd girls are easy prey for some guys, so with the attention from those guys, they look the other way from the nerd guys. With no experience, it gets harder with time.

And at the end of the day, a nerd is more likely to come to a place like this, and whine about how he can't get a girl, instead of just talking to a girl like theyre just another human being. And he's likely to get terrible advice from a place like this. Unless they get it from me. :p
 

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Interacting with a female shouldn't be an ulcer-inducing activity, it should be a part of everyday life. Nerds, for the most part, are just socially inept. That's the problem, I say.

Once a guy learns to get out of his clam shell, it's easy pickins. Some bloom later than others, but better late than never.
 

DaShen

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I would rather have my Marilyn Monro-Bot. ;) :p just kidding. But I don't want to date right now anyways.
 
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Originally posted by: BD2003
Originally posted by: bersl2
Huhwhat?

I mean, I know it's theoretically possible, but it just doesn't happen for a good proportion of us, for various reasons.

The most common reason being that nerds have already defeated themselves by not believing they can get a girl.

troof

confidence and a good sense of humor goes a loong way

i may not be as big of a geek as some of you, but i get women because i'm self-confident and funny...not to mention i'm dead sexy :p
 

BD2003

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Originally posted by: quakefiend420
Originally posted by: BD2003
Originally posted by: bersl2
Huhwhat?

I mean, I know it's theoretically possible, but it just doesn't happen for a good proportion of us, for various reasons.

The most common reason being that nerds have already defeated themselves by not believing they can get a girl.

troof

confidence and a good sense of humor goes a loong way

i may not be as big of a geek as some of you, but i get women because i'm self-confident and funny...not to mention i'm dead sexy :p

I'd call it self-confidence, my GF would call it being an egomaniac - whatever she wants to call it, she apparently likes it. :p

I know I'm always right, so when I say that I'm right, I'm definitely right. :)
 

PingSpike

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Of course they can. Anyone can get a girl provided they have a car with a decent sized trunk and enough chloroform.
 
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Originally posted by: BD2003
Originally posted by: quakefiend420
Originally posted by: BD2003
Originally posted by: bersl2
Huhwhat?

I mean, I know it's theoretically possible, but it just doesn't happen for a good proportion of us, for various reasons.

The most common reason being that nerds have already defeated themselves by not believing they can get a girl.

troof

confidence and a good sense of humor goes a loong way

i may not be as big of a geek as some of you, but i get women because i'm self-confident and funny...not to mention i'm dead sexy :p

I'd call it self-confidence, my GF would call it being an egomaniac - whatever she wants to call it, she apparently likes it. :p

I know I'm always right, so when I say that I'm right, I'm definitely right. :)

i've been called an arrogant prick by a couple different girls, but i slept with both of them, so i'm with ya there :laugh:
 
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Originally posted by: PingSpike
Of course they can. Anyone can get a girl provided they have a car with a decent sized trunk and enough chloroform.

"Does this rag smell like chloroform to you?"