PSA: disable conversation logging in DeadAIM if your g/f uses your computer

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Deeko

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She said she'd get it on with you....you didn't come out and say 'you're hot lets have sex'.
 

theNEOone

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Originally posted by: cerebusPu
...pics made the conversation log much more interesting to read. quoting the important here for the rest of ATOT.

anonymous (1:44:47 AM): yah, u're pretty hot
anonymous (1:45:31 AM): if i werent involved, i'd consider [fvcking] u n makin u the father of my children
anonymous (1:45:32 AM): maybe
theNEOone (1:45:55 AM): lol well that's good to know
theNEOone (1:45:57 AM): but just maybe?
anonymous (1:46:25 AM): u'd have to prove urself, its not just the outside that matters
anonymous (1:46:41 AM): u know, i still havent seen the package
anonymous (1:47:02 AM): :p j/k,
thx for the cliff notes :p


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parsley007

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Originally posted by: cerebusPu
...pics made the conversation log much more interesting to read. quoting the important here for the rest of ATOT.

n/a (1:44:47 AM): yah, u're pretty hot
n/a (1:45:31 AM): if i werent involved, i'd consider [fvcking] u n makin u the father of my children
n/a (1:45:32 AM): maybe
theNEOone (1:45:55 AM): lol well that's good to know
theNEOone (1:45:57 AM): but just maybe?
n/a (1:46:25 AM): u'd have to prove urself, its not just the outside that matters
n/a (1:46:41 AM): u know, i still havent seen the package
n/a (1:47:02 AM): :p j/k,
yeah, i'd say that couldn't be good for the g/f to read..
 

Geekbabe

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How would you feel if your g/friend was online chatting,sending dudes her pics,requesting pics of their packages and telling them she'd like to do them?

Would it still be just harmless fun?
 

theNEOone

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Originally posted by: Geekbabe
How would you feel if your g/friend was online chatting,sending dudes her pics,requesting pics of their packages and telling them she'd like to do them?

Would it still be just harmless fun?
uh, well i wasn't requesting any pics, and i only sent my spring break pics after she offered hers.

anyway, my g/f's problem is that this chick said that she'd consider fvcking me....uhoh, big freaking deal. yes, it was harmless. my g/f's hot and i know that 99% of guys would want to do her. i don't go around throwing titty fits though.


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Excelsior

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Originally posted by: Geekbabe
How would you feel if your g/friend was online chatting,sending dudes her pics,requesting pics of their packages and telling them she'd like to do them?

Would it still be just harmless fun?

But..he didnt tell her he wanted to her, she told him that she wanted to do him. Completely different.

 

Geekbabe

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Originally posted by: Excelsior
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
How would you feel if your g/friend was online chatting,sending dudes her pics,requesting pics of their packages and telling them she'd like to do them?

Would it still be just harmless fun?

But..he didnt tell her he wanted to her, she told him that she wanted to do him. Completely different.

and he said what exactly in response to that statement? Did he say I'm flattered but I have a g/friend?

And if the convo this gal was offering was just harmless fun then he should have no problem with his g/friend emulating that behavior now should he?
 

Mustangrrl

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I dunno, it's understandable that she feels bad about that conversation, even though it wasn't really that graphic... but maybe the anger is misdirected.

That girl from the IM is foul, in my opinion, who says sh!t like that to a man? My male friends would fake a blue screen if a chick mentioned having children with them :laugh:
 

Geekbabe

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Originally posted by: Mustangrrl
I dunno, it's understandable that she feels bad about that conversation, even though it wasn't really that graphic... but maybe the anger is misdirected.

That girl from the IM is foul, in my opinion, who says sh!t like that to a man? My male friends would fake a blue screen if a chick mentioned having children with them :laugh:

His response was "that's good to know"

There's nothing wrong with harmless flirtation but when flirting gets down to brass tacks like that it's time to gracefully shut the other person down.His response indicates that he's keeping his options open and that's probably what the g/friend was reacting to.
 

Mustangrrl

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Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Mustangrrl
I dunno, it's understandable that she feels bad about that conversation, even though it wasn't really that graphic... but maybe the anger is misdirected.

That girl from the IM is foul, in my opinion, who says sh!t like that to a man? My male friends would fake a blue screen if a chick mentioned having children with them :laugh:

His response was "that's good to know"

There's nothing wrong with harmless flirtation but when flirting gets down to brass tacks like that it's time to gracefully shut the other person down.His response indicates that he's keeping his options open and that's probably what the g/friend was reacting to.
Yeah, well I didn't take the "that's good to know" as a positive response... I think we're reading it differently. If I told some guy I wanted to do him and he responded vaguely, I'd take it like he was not interested or being sarcastic about my forwardness.
 

Geekbabe

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Originally posted by: Mustangrrl
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Mustangrrl
I dunno, it's understandable that she feels bad about that conversation, even though it wasn't really that graphic... but maybe the anger is misdirected.

That girl from the IM is foul, in my opinion, who says sh!t like that to a man? My male friends would fake a blue screen if a chick mentioned having children with them :laugh:

His response was "that's good to know"

There's nothing wrong with harmless flirtation but when flirting gets down to brass tacks like that it's time to gracefully shut the other person down.His response indicates that he's keeping his options open and that's probably what the g/friend was reacting to.
Yeah, well I didn't take the "that's good to know" as a positive response... I think we're reading it differently. If I told some guy I wanted to do him and he responded vaguely, I'd take it like he was not interested or being sarcastic about my forwardness.

I live with somebody and if another dude ever got to the point of being graphic enough to say he wanted to fsck me it would be pretty clear that I'd allowed a flirtation to go too far.The OP gave a neutral response,he didn't egg her on but he didn't close the door either,he kept his options open and that was most likely what she was reacting to.Btw,I'd say it's a fair assumption to make that trust was
lacking here as evidenced by her looking at his chat logs.I'd say a serious convo is in order on both sides.
 

NogginBoink

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That's what you get for letting someone else log on to your account.

Nobody logs on to my computer with my account but me. Wife has her account. Mom was over here and wanted to get on the 'net, I created her an account.

Keeps problems like this from happening.
 

theNEOone

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Originally posted by: Mustangrrl
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Mustangrrl
I dunno, it's understandable that she feels bad about that conversation, even though it wasn't really that graphic... but maybe the anger is misdirected.

That girl from the IM is foul, in my opinion, who says sh!t like that to a man? My male friends would fake a blue screen if a chick mentioned having children with them :laugh:

His response was "that's good to know"

There's nothing wrong with harmless flirtation but when flirting gets down to brass tacks like that it's time to gracefully shut the other person down.His response indicates that he's keeping his options open and that's probably what the g/friend was reacting to.
Yeah, well I didn't take the "that's good to know" as a positive response... I think we're reading it differently. If I told some guy I wanted to do him and he responded vaguely, I'd take it like he was not interested or being sarcastic about my forwardness.
w00t, she's on my side.
:D


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bootymac

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When in doubt, act creeped out! But at least you didn't whip it out and talk about it.

Hope I don't see you on Maury in a few weeks :p