Originally posted by: Riprorin
Profanity fills many school halls
Teachers are worried by the trend but often can't do much about it.
By Valerie Strauss
Washington Post
Dan Horwich's English class is a bastion of clean language where students read the classics and hold weighty discussions free of invective and profanity. But when the bell rings and they walk out his door, the hallway vibrates with talk of a different sort.
"The kids swear almost incessantly," said Horwich, who teaches at Guildford High School in Rockford, Ill. "They are so used to swearing and hearing it at home, and in the movies, and on TV, and in the music they listen to, that they have become desensitized to it."
In classrooms and hallways and on the playground, young people are using inappropriate language more frequently than ever, teachers and principals say. Not only does it coarsen the school climate and social discourse, they say, it is evidence of a decline in language skills. Popular culture has made ugly language acceptable and hip, and many teachers say they only expect things to get uglier.
Horwich says he will not tolerate vulgarity in his classroom, and he tells students on the first day of school what he expects. But the 31-year-old teacher said he felt he was waging a losing battle. He and many other teachers say that even if they can control their own rooms, only school-wide efforts can make a real difference.
Teachers say their principals often do not support them on the issue, and principals say they cannot because administrators are worried about "bigger" problems. Many parents are no help, as they use curse words themselves or excuse their children's outbursts, teachers say.
And though many school systems ban profanity, not much happens to most offenders. Many teachers say they no longer bother reporting it.
"Nobody turns their head anymore, on the whole," said veteran teacher Pauline Carey of Mount Rainier Elementary School in Prince George's County, Md., saying her school is an exception in that all the adults there agree on the demand for respect. "Somebody has to call them on this language and not just pass it off," Carey said.
Profanity, in the large sense, is defined as words that others consider offensive, although it originally was restricted to words that were blasphemous. Once heard mostly in whispers, today it is inescapable.
"I never thought I would say this - once being a hard-core anti-music censor - but I understand why [young people] are doing this: You almost can't find a song, video game, television show, anything, without a curse word," said Laura Lee Cox, a seventh-grade teacher at Cedartown, Ga., Middle School.
Children ages 4 and 5 often go through a phase of using inappropriate language they hear but can't understand, child-rearing experts say. Parents are advised against reacting too strongly, because the youngsters soon learn from adults that the words are inappropriate.
The problem, said James O'Connor, director of the Cuss Control Academy in Lake Forest, Ill., is that when children learn that the words are inappropriate, they enjoy using them all the more to get a rise out of their parents.
Soon it becomes "cool" behavior at school, even if many children don't understand what they are saying.
Anne Ryan, a music teacher at Half Day School, a third- and fourth-grade public school in Lincolnshire, Ill., asks students to bring in favorite music lyrics to discuss.
"The students constantly question: 'Is this a bad word?' 'Is that a bad word?' " she said. "They hardly know what constitutes profanity."
High school students know, but by then the habit has been formed, experts say, and the teenagers know they can get away with it.
Kevin Shaigany, 17, a student at Walter Johnson High School in Bethesda, Md., said: "What can they really do [about it] in high school?"
Others see it as lazy language, especially when the same word is used as different parts of speech.
"People use it instead of articulating what they want to say," said Naomi Schimmel, 21, a George Washington University student.
Horwich said constant use of profanity reveals a poor vocabulary, and O'Connor lamented the toll it is taking on the language.
Parents can exacerbate the problem, teachers say, by defending children caught swearing in school.
"As soon as the kid gets suspended, or has a detention, or whatever the consequence, you have the parent come running down to the school, yelling and screaming and swearing, saying they are going to fight it and saying they are going to call their lawyer, and the school administrators back down," Horwich said.
Many teachers and administrators still put up a fight against foul language.
George Ferguson, a teacher at Big Cypress Elementary School in Naples, Fla., said he sometimes has children write class rules repeatedly, or he talks to an offender's parents.
Deborah Alford, a sixth-grade special-education teacher at Cedartown, tells students "on a daily basis" what language is appropriate.
Bonnie Tryon, principal at Golding Elementary School in Cobleskill, N.Y., said a school-wide standard was key.
"If you don't stop the little things," she said, "the little things become big."
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"As soon as the kid gets suspended, or has a detention, or whatever the consequence, you have the parent come running down to the school, yelling and screaming and swearing, saying they are going to fight it and saying they are going to call their lawyer, and the school administrators back down," Horwich said.
Here's one of the major problems in our wasteful, underperforming schools: Parents don't support the teachers.
It's no wonder we have an epidemic of rebellious kids who have no respect for authority.