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Problem: Asian Male marries a White Female

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J0hnny

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This is the problem:

A family friend of ours is getting married. He is asian and he will be marrying a white woman. The wedding is coming up in a couple of months. The white family is completely racist and made the decision that no one in the asian family can come to the wedding except for the parents of the asian guy. The asian guy also has no balls and will marry this woman at all costs and has defended the position of the caucasian family.

Obviously the asian family is completely distraught. They don't know what to do and don't want to destroy the already teetering parent-son relationship. They don't mind that he's marrying a caucasian but the way he's being treated is humiliating.

Note: The white family is paying for the wedding. The asian parents already told them they will pay for the wedding if they invite asian relatives.

Please help. This is serious.
 
What is the opinion of the white woman?

EDIT: The groom needs some balls.... must be small-framed and 4" :roll: j/k
 
Dunno, tell the groom to grow a pair very quickly or life with the in-laws is going to be hell. Seems to me that if the bride gives a damn about her fiance and his side of the family she would tell her parent's off.

Something doesn't add up.
 
Wow, how terrible. The bride and groom should not be letting it go down this way, but if they chose to I really don't see what the family can do.
 
He needs to choose between

1) Take his balls out of her purse and stand up for himself now

2) Be forever the doormat of his inlaws and shunned by his family.

Why the fvck would you want to marry into a family that hates you anyways? 😕

- M4H
 
Sickening to me. My Uncle married a Korean lady and there was never a problem. My cousin married a black man and that wasn't an issue either. People need to get over the whole interracial marriages are evil thing. Bastards are so myopic and think that being racist is "ok" because their "bloodlines" will be tainted. I bet your ass that you can get half of the family to miss the wedding day by offering free Dale Jr. shirts at the local Walmart.
 
Do whatever the bride and groom want. If the bride wants no asians and the bride has the groom by the balls, then there it is - no asians at the wedding.

Sounds like an unhealthy relationship.

 
The asian guy also has no balls and will marry this woman at all costs and has defended the position of the caucasian family.
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this is the problem. your friend needs to realize what's up and put some foot down.

EDIT: i am asian and my wife is caucasian. no issues at all.
 
Ummm..fix yoru poon issues first?


If parents do not like teh asian guy, then marrying may not be worth it. then again, love can conquer all....

 
This guy is going to either:

A. Get a divorce, since he cannot handle the pressure of the woman and family.

B. Go insane while living a terrible married life, since he cannot handle the pressure of the woman and family.


Easiest thing to say would be call off the wedding, but he will need to get some cajones, pronto!

EDIT: Ah fvck M4H beat me to it🙂
 
if the in-laws are racist... then why is he getting married to her? 😕

if they would go so far as to deny his asian family and friends from coming to the wedding, then think about how they will treat him down the road
 
uhhhh what can you possibly do to assuage the situation? nothing but sit back and watch...obviously the white family is being completely inconsiderate...and the bride and the groom each need to grow a pair. im sure any advice YOU or ATOT can give to them will fall on deaf ears. If they( bride and groom) can't see the problem with the situation now, they never will.
 
Originally posted by: J0hnny
This is the problem:

no one in the asian family can come to the wedding except for the parents of the asian guy.
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That's pretty humiliating to say the least. Even if the dude pushs forward, this marriage is going nowhere.

 
That's sad...
My mother is white and my father is Chinese, so far as I know there have never been any tensions in my family in that regard whatsoever, despite the fact that my maternal grandparents are definitely more conservative.
 
I see a doomed marriage.

They need to re-evaluate the whole marriage, you marry the family too, the Asian guy has no balls or he'd run like he's on fire.
 
Sounds to me like this guy needs to dump the bitch if she is that easily manipulated by her family. That and she's probably going to make his life a living hell.....unless of course he enjoys being led around by the balls.

Trust me....no pussy is worth that sh1t.
 
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