Originally posted by: Maleficus
If anyone here has better suggestions I'm more than open to them
I'd check out anything by Lyle McDonald. Some of his books are about a very specific diet. For example,
UD2.0 is basically for people already pretty lean that want to reach <10% and the
Rapid Fat Loss Handbook is about a "safe" approach to crash dieting. I'm assuming you're not lean (10-12%) so UD2.0 is of no use to you, and unless you must lose the weight quickly, I don't think Rapid Fat Loss Handbook is for you either. His
Guide to Flexible Dieting is definitely something you might be interested in though. Check it out.
Here's the link:
http://www.bodyrecomposition.com/flexibledieting.html
In addition to Lyle McDonald I'd also highly suggest you check out
Girth Control: The Science of Fat Loss & Muscle Gain by Alan Aragon
Here's the link for that:
http://www.alanaragon.com/my-book.html
EDIT - Re-reading your OP, I think you'd definitely benefit from Lyle McDonalds book. Since you said yourself you have trouble sticking to diets. The book is really about how to be more flexible with your diet, making them a lot easier to stick to, while still getting results.