- Sep 22, 2004
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Just a short post on the subject of posting to forums. Nothing new, just my slant. I've noticed that some of the P&Ners get a little emotional when responding to posts of other P&Ners. Posting is not like being involved in conversation, as you are basically blind when communicating in a forum. All you see are the words from the keyboard. There is no access to facial expression, no observation of body language, no knowledge of the sort of emotional state the other poster is in. This is a pretty bland and flat means of communication. Things that would be heard in conversation and ignored or understood to be in humor take on a life of their own in a forum, mostly a negative life. People who post here are pre-biased to a view of life and society. Here, they are sometimes testing their preconceptions; sometimes they are merely seeking a podium. I pretty much kick my ego into a closet when coming here. That saves it a lot of bruising. We fling insults at each other, sometimes in earnest, sometimes in jest. That is a part of camaraderie and is often seen in places where people gather. Nothing to become upset about, yet the occasional poster does get upset.
I actually have a lot of friends that are Democrats and liberals and I respect them for their views. I slam those same views here and often as I see done to the conservative views. I wouldn?t do that with my liberal friends because they are pretty sensitive and can talk tirelessly when aroused. I don?t even know the people here; neither do they know me. I?m sure that we are all pretty centric. Maybe Steep and Moonbeam are exceptions. Don?t know them, can?t say. Be opinionated about what we type, not about us.
My bottom line: Relax, this fun - enjoy it!
I actually have a lot of friends that are Democrats and liberals and I respect them for their views. I slam those same views here and often as I see done to the conservative views. I wouldn?t do that with my liberal friends because they are pretty sensitive and can talk tirelessly when aroused. I don?t even know the people here; neither do they know me. I?m sure that we are all pretty centric. Maybe Steep and Moonbeam are exceptions. Don?t know them, can?t say. Be opinionated about what we type, not about us.
My bottom line: Relax, this fun - enjoy it!
