This is incorrect too. The only reason why you make this artificial separation between what Paul wrote and what Jesus is said to have said, is because Paul's words outright condemn same-sex relations, while Jesus words does not. Bottom line: you do not like what Paul said. That is all that's to it.
That logic is bad for another reason; Jesus did not outright condemn pedophilia either, so does that mean that Jesus approved of it, or that a pedophile can "sufficiently enter the Kingdom"? What you're saying carries the idea that if Jesus does not condemn a certain act, then it has his approval.
Here's the overall problem: If YOU are going to sit here and cherry pick based on who wrote what, then why not reject it all? Fact is, Jesus himself did not write a single word of the Gospel. So basically, you want us to accept what Matthew said, what Mark said, what Luke said, and what John said, but not what Paul said?
Why? Not because Paul wrote it, obviously, because Jesus did not write any of the Gospel. Its simply because you do not like what he said, but you like what the four aforementioned writers said.
Really, that the ONLY reason for this, not matter the mental gymnastics you're going pull in reply to this.