Poll: Would you date a stripper?

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Feb 10, 2000
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I briefly dated one when I was younger. It was fun, from the standpoint that she was very sexy and great arm candy, but I think that profession reduces women's perspective toward men to seeing them as a penis with a wallet. I can't imagine having a long-term relationship with one, but they are fun to date. I actually kind of enjoyed the idea of other men being turned on by her - I spent many hours at the strip bar chatting with the other hotties while she was giving lap dances to the paying customers.
 

TheOmegaCode

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I say YES, and not << HELL YES. >> . I wouldn't mind dating a stripper. I don't aspire to date a stripper. I also wouldn't anticipate it evolving into a long term thing. Then again, you never know.
 

tcsenter

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Date (as in sex)? Sure. But there is an inordinate amount of 'baggage' in that industry, a lot of those girls have f-d up lives. That isn't to say there aren't a few who are generally 'normal', good natured, persons with redeemable qualities, but I would be very hesitant to get too involved with a stripper. Not very many strippers out there that I would be bringing home to meet the folks.
 

gotsmack

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depends on where she works.

If she works at one of those places with just the platform then no


but if it was one of those places with the platform with the pole then yes.

pole dances are the only real strippers, all others are just posers
 

Aceman

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Yes, I did for a while and my co-worker had a relationship with one of the strippers at the club. A lot of them were normal everyday people. The one I dated was a psycho wench. (But I was in it for the long lasting one night stand.) The one my co-worker dated was a college girl paying her way through college. He ended up marrying her.
 

glen

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Dated a stripper's sister.
The stripper was dating a famous rock drummer, but I had the hotter sister, and I can't play chop sticks.
 

zeruty

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how about a question for the ladies. would you ever date a chippendale dancer? or some other male stripper?
 

Squisher

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Back in the day, I dated many a topless dancer. Some were ok, some were nut cases. I'll have to say though that coming from that profession that they have seen or associated with some of the dreggs of society and therefore are usually cynical or jaded. Can't say any of the relationships lasted for very long.
 

4824guy

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I would date one if I had the chance, but only for the short term. I could never have a serious relationship with someone in that line of work.
 

amnesiac

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I, too, briefly dated a stripper. It was fun, the sex was great, but she was a total nutcase. I don't regret my experience but if I had the chance to do it again I'd probably pass it up. There's a point where mental instability is too great to have a decent relationship.