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It doesn't matter really, but I don't want her banging like 5 or 6 guys around the time I meet her. She has to be "settled" by then and thinking toward marriage and a future with one person...and as long as she wasn't a full-fledged "do it in the bathroom of a club with a stranger/get me drunk or high and i'll do you" type of hoe, then i'm fine. Because once a hoe, ALWAYS a hoe.

But there is something special about virgins though. Hell i'd prefer to marry a virgin.....just good luck finding one?
 
Originally posted by: FinalFantasy
It doesn't matter really, but I don't want her banging like 5 or 6 guys around the time I meet her. She has to be "settled" by then and thinking toward marriage and a future with one person...and as long as she wasn't a full-fledged "do it in the bathroom of a club with a stranger/get me drunk or high and i'll do you" type of hoe, then i'm fine. Because once a hoe, ALWAYS a hoe.

But there is something special about virgins though. Hell i'd prefer to marry a virgin.....just good luck finding one?
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no you wouldnt... you obvisouly havent had one... they arnt alot of fun.. its all work and the sex isnt that good at all...
you just cant teach how to give a good blowjob.. or other techniques...

Ive had one... and it took a year before she was as good as any other Id had.. and 1 year 3 times+ a day thats alot of classes...
id rather have them pre broken in.. preferably wild and skilled....
 
Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Originally posted by: QuitBanningMe

:roll:. I've been with my wife for ten years. I'm above the average age.

I think your little lie detector might need some adjusting. As for the topic I understand why the lie is told and that things are much more complex than you seem to think they are.

I guess it is good that you miss the complexity though.......makes it a little easier to sit on your moral high ground. :roll:
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Translation: My wife lies to me and I take it, because I'm whipped.

So what do you do when your wife lies to your face? Probably nothing. You're the guy who thinks it's more "complex" to lie than to tell the truth. I can understand why people who lack intelligence would think this way. They're all about the short-term. It gets the problem out of the way, for a minute. But that's long enough, since they're too myopic to consider the longer-term implications of being a lying rat.

In the long term, instant gratification is rarely the best way. If you haven't learned by now, you probably never will. You've probably plateaued.
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Yeah that is me, whipped. :roll:

In general my wife doesn't lie to me because I'm not your average guy. I say in general because unlike you I'm not dumb enough tto think she hasn't at one time or another.

More complex to lie? I didn't say that. I said the reason for the lie is more complex than you seem to think as with all human interaction. You want a simple answer?? "You can't handle the truth". Yea thats right. You are the average insecure suspicious man. You want answers to your questions not so you can be open and honest but so you can judge.

It is in the best interest of men not to know. Why? Because they are insecure and suspicious and no good can come of them knowing the number which is most likely way higher than they would be comfortable with. Saying " I don't want to discuss it' has the same effect as saying "I did ganbang films for fun while in college".


I don't care what my wife did before I was with her . I don't care if she banged the football team on the fifty yard line with a whistle up her ass.

Most women that wouldn't lie about anything else would lie about the number and I understand why.

You want to change the dynamics of the situation? Don't expect people not to lie when asked pointless questions........stop asking pointless questions. I know a couple girls that would come right out and tell you they like to fvck as much as they can and what do they get for it? "OMG teh slutz !1111 one eleven". Not worth bringing out the judgemental attitude of most men imo.
 
Originally posted by: QuitBanningMe


I don't care what my wife did before I was with her . I don't care if she banged the football team on the fifty yard line with a whistle up her ass.
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Well there you go. I think we've reached an understanding.
 
Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Originally posted by: QuitBanningMe


I don't care what my wife did before I was with her . I don't care if she banged the football team on the fifty yard line with a whistle up her ass.
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Well there you go. I think we've reached an understanding.
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What difference would it make?
 
Originally posted by: QuitBanningMe
Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Originally posted by: QuitBanningMe


I don't care what my wife did before I was with her . I don't care if she banged the football team on the fifty yard line with a whistle up her ass.
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Well there you go. I think we've reached an understanding.
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What difference would it make?
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The difference is that I would care. I would not want to be with someone who lacks the judgement not to bang the football team on the fifty yard line with a whistle up her ass.

I'm sure there are guys that wouldn't care if their gf was a complete tramp 5 years ago, but I would. We all live with the choices we made. If you used to be an ex-heroin addict and a woman you're interested in doesn't want to date a guy who used to be a heroin addict, that is HER choice to make. You can't force someone to date you just because you feel that your past is none of her business... she might make her decision based on your past, and she can do that, since she decides for herself what criteria a boyfriend needs to have. She doesn't tell you what to do, but she does tell herself what to do.

I don't tell people what choices they should make, but I do make my own choices. If I choose not to date a woman who dated a gang member, I can do that.

There is nothing wrong with me not wanting to date people I view as "damaged goods". It's my choice who I date. My decision.
 
What if she lied to you about her past and you found out after you were absolutly in love with her? People can change and there are things in peoples past who make them what they are today. If those things had not happened in the past she may not be the person you are in love with today. And it is sad to think that you consider a girl damaged goods when she has slept with people. Talk about high standards. I understand you have your choice but you sure do seem to judge people pretty quickly.
 
Ideal for what? Is the question about how many people you want someone you might marry to have slept with, or are we talking about casual sex or what?
 
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What if she lied to you about her past and you found out after you were absolutly in love with her? People can change and there are things in peoples past who make them what they are today. If those things had not happened in the past she may not be the person you are in love with today. And it is sad to think that you consider a girl damaged goods when she has slept with people. Talk about high standards. I understand you have your choice but you sure do seem to judge people pretty quickly.
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So you wouldn't care about being with someone who's a slut and a liar?
 
I figured early on that I would never marry anyone without proper skills. I'd been there done that in the first marriage and it sucked. Also, her having already played the field as I had, made me feel that she was less likely to feel the need to play with anyone else.

Besides, I had her convinced that this much __________________________________________________________________________

is twelve inches.....no wonder she can't judge distances and has wrecks on the road.
 
Originally posted by: KLin
Originally posted by: lisasilver10s
What if she lied to you about her past and you found out after you were absolutly in love with her? People can change and there are things in peoples past who make them what they are today. If those things had not happened in the past she may not be the person you are in love with today. And it is sad to think that you consider a girl damaged goods when she has slept with people. Talk about high standards. I understand you have your choice but you sure do seem to judge people pretty quickly.
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So you wouldn't care about being with someone who's a slut and a liar?
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Yep if she lied about that... :Q

 
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
What is wrong with some of you people?
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easy.. they are close minded 15-40 year old virgins that are living in loser denial becasue they think all girls should be virgins..
 
Originally posted by: CVSiN
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
What is wrong with some of you people?
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easy.. they are close minded 15-40 year old virgins that are living in loser denial becasue they think all girls should be virgins..
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No some of use have standards and would not marry someone that has gotten around. My girlfriend has been with me and 1 other. I have been with 4 women. I will probable marry the girl I am with. period.
 
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