POLL: What's the ideal # of sexual partners

[iamme]

i don't think there's an ideal number. when she loses track of how many, that's not a good sign.

experience usually = more fun in bed

 

[gigapet]

seriously you guys are so unrealistic.

virgins are overrated.....i'd much rather have a girl that knows what she is doing and isnt awkward about everything.


girls don't count the number of guys they had sex with when they tell you. They only count the # of boyfriends they had

 

[CVSiN]

Originally posted by: iamme
i don't think there's an ideal number. when she loses track of how many, that's not a good sign.

experience usually = more fun in bed

i agree there.. i want a girl that knows some tricks... and is comfortable with sex..

training a girl is extremely overrated.. and.. on top of that that just makes a larger chance that the girl may relaize she may be missing something and try cheating on you to find out...

sex is healthy and there is nothing wrong with it..
this country is soo anal about sex and morals its like the middle ages...

 

[zebano]

Whoa I misread the questions as "What's your ideal # of sexual partners" I think one for each night of the week would be good =)

 

[QuitBanningMe]

Originally posted by: Bumrush99

Originally posted by: 91TTZ
The less, the better. I don't date tramps.

Agreed. For a few nights of fun it doesn't matter, but for serious dating a tramp will always remain a tramp. A girl that has slept with 20+ is more likely to cheat on you than one that is less experienced. Of course this is just MY opinion, I'm sure there are many reformed women, but it is hard for me to trust a woman that has been around

That is BS.
Less experienced/ young = more likely to cheat

 

[MAME]

Originally posted by: CVSiN
exactly.. since there is a double standard about guys that sleep aroudn vs girls that sleep around.. most girls will lie thier ass off..

AND.. ive known 2 girls over the years that just becasue they were "virgins" did not mean they did not engage in anal and oral sex before....

you guys are very naive...

virgin - A person who has not experienced sexual intercourse.

sexual intercourse - Coitus between humans.

coitus - Sexual union between a male and a female involving insertion of the penis into the vagina.


They were not lying, they truely were virgins

 

[EKKC]

whatever. most guys WANT to fool around and HATES girl who fool around. that's the truth and you can't deny that.

remember its ok if you do it but not if you SO did it. its not just sex, same applies for flirting, kissing, dancing, whatever

 

[Mayfriday0529]

I don't want to know but i figure most girls have been with 5-10 guys

 

[CPA]

Originally posted by: CVSiN

Originally posted by: iamme
i don't think there's an ideal number. when she loses track of how many, that's not a good sign.

experience usually = more fun in bed

i agree there.. i want a girl that knows some tricks... and is comfortable with sex..

training a girl is extremely overrated.. and.. on top of that that just makes a larger chance that the girl may relaize she may be missing something and try cheating on you to find out...

sex is healthy and there is nothing wrong with it..
this country is soo anal about sex and morals its like the middle ages...

good post.

 

[MAME]

Originally posted by: gigapet
seriously you guys are so unrealistic.

virgins are overrated.....i'd much rather have a girl that knows what she is doing and isnt awkward about everything.


girls don't count the number of guys they had sex with when they tell you. They only count the # of boyfriends they had

why do people assume girls lie about this? Nice job making a sweeping generalization buddy

 

[iamme]

Originally posted by: MAME

Originally posted by: CVSiN
exactly.. since there is a double standard about guys that sleep aroudn vs girls that sleep around.. most girls will lie thier ass off..

AND.. ive known 2 girls over the years that just becasue they were "virgins" did not mean they did not engage in anal and oral sex before....

you guys are very naive...

virgin - A person who has not experienced sexual intercourse.

sexual intercourse - Coitus between humans.

coitus - Sexual union between a male and a female involving insertion of the penis into the vagina.


They were not lying, they truely were virgins

maybe they are technically virgins, but i think we can agree that they are misleading themselve (and others) if they claim to be "virginal" or innocent.

slobbering a guy's schlong or letting him use the backdoor pretty much takes away the innocence implied with virginity.

 

[Bryophyte]

I don't know the exact number my spouse laid before me, it's really none of my business. I had no interest in a virgin, had a couple of them in the past, and I know that unless you are both virgins, it's just not a great idea. I wouldn't want someone who was sexually repressed or had a lot of issues where my or his sexual past was concerned. He doesn't have any ownership over what I did in my past, and I don't have any ownership over what he did in his past (sexually speaking.) It's the NOW that matters in a relationship. Focusing on each other's pasts is just poison.

 

[QuitBanningMe]

Originally posted by: MAME

Originally posted by: gigapet
seriously you guys are so unrealistic.

virgins are overrated.....i'd much rather have a girl that knows what she is doing and isnt awkward about everything.


girls don't count the number of guys they had sex with when they tell you. They only count the # of boyfriends they had

why do people assume girls lie about this? Nice job making a sweeping generalization buddy

All of my girl friends will tell you they lie when asked the question.

 

[Mucho]

I dont care how many as long as I am the biggest 😉

 

[gigapet]

Originally posted by: MAME

Originally posted by: gigapet
seriously you guys are so unrealistic.

virgins are overrated.....i'd much rather have a girl that knows what she is doing and isnt awkward about everything.


girls don't count the number of guys they had sex with when they tell you. They only count the # of boyfriends they had

why do people assume girls lie about this? Nice job making a sweeping generalization buddy

its true. girls are liars especially about their age and sex life. unless you are their girlfriends. They have to fit the societal mold and cannot be labeled a slut so they must lie.

 

[CVSiN]

Originally posted by: QuitBanningMe

Originally posted by: MAME

Originally posted by: gigapet
seriously you guys are so unrealistic.

virgins are overrated.....i'd much rather have a girl that knows what she is doing and isnt awkward about everything.


girls don't count the number of guys they had sex with when they tell you. They only count the # of boyfriends they had

why do people assume girls lie about this? Nice job making a sweeping generalization buddy

All of my girl friends will tell you they lie when asked the question.

watch american pie 2 for the "rule of 3" law ...
its pretty true ahha..

 

[Bryophyte]

Originally posted by: QuitBanningMe

Originally posted by: MAME

Originally posted by: gigapet
seriously you guys are so unrealistic.

virgins are overrated.....i'd much rather have a girl that knows what she is doing and isnt awkward about everything.


girls don't count the number of guys they had sex with when they tell you. They only count the # of boyfriends they had

why do people assume girls lie about this? Nice job making a sweeping generalization buddy

All of my girl friends will tell you they lie when asked the question.

And do you know WHY they lie? It's because they should not have been asked the question in the first place.

 

[MAME]

Originally posted by: QuitBanningMe

Originally posted by: MAME

Originally posted by: gigapet
seriously you guys are so unrealistic.

virgins are overrated.....i'd much rather have a girl that knows what she is doing and isnt awkward about everything.


girls don't count the number of guys they had sex with when they tell you. They only count the # of boyfriends they had

why do people assume girls lie about this? Nice job making a sweeping generalization buddy

All of my girl friends will tell you they lie when asked the question.

yay for lying girls!

 

[gigapet]

Originally posted by: Mucho
I dont care how many as long as I am the biggest 😉

/thread

 

[QuitBanningMe]

Originally posted by: MAME

Originally posted by: QuitBanningMe

Originally posted by: MAME

Originally posted by: gigapet
seriously you guys are so unrealistic.

virgins are overrated.....i'd much rather have a girl that knows what she is doing and isnt awkward about everything.


girls don't count the number of guys they had sex with when they tell you. They only count the # of boyfriends they had

why do people assume girls lie about this? Nice job making a sweeping generalization buddy

All of my girl friends will tell you they lie when asked the question.

yay for lying girls!

Why should they tell you the truth?

 

[91TTZ]

What would you guys do if you found out that your girl used to be ho that gang-banged the football team? Or if she used to be a crack whore?

I say the past matters.

 

[MAME]

Originally posted by: QuitBanningMe

Originally posted by: MAME

Originally posted by: QuitBanningMe

Originally posted by: MAME

Originally posted by: gigapet
seriously you guys are so unrealistic.

virgins are overrated.....i'd much rather have a girl that knows what she is doing and isnt awkward about everything.


girls don't count the number of guys they had sex with when they tell you. They only count the # of boyfriends they had

why do people assume girls lie about this? Nice job making a sweeping generalization buddy

All of my girl friends will tell you they lie when asked the question.

yay for lying girls!

Why should they tell you the truth?

why should they lie?

I wouldn't give a crap about some random girl lying to me, but it would be something she should NOT lie about to a boyfriend. Lying right off the bat isn't a good foundation for a relationship

 

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: QuitBanningMe
Doesn't matter.
At least one though.
Virgins are overrated

I will agree with this. I want someone who's experienced. Other than that, it really doesn't matter, so long as she's not still doing anything with them (unless we have an open arrangement or other unconventional arrangement to do so).

 

[QuitBanningMe]

Originally posted by: MAME

Originally posted by: QuitBanningMe

Originally posted by: MAME

Originally posted by: QuitBanningMe

Originally posted by: MAME

Originally posted by: gigapet
seriously you guys are so unrealistic.

virgins are overrated.....i'd much rather have a girl that knows what she is doing and isnt awkward about everything.


girls don't count the number of guys they had sex with when they tell you. They only count the # of boyfriends they had

why do people assume girls lie about this? Nice job making a sweeping generalization buddy

All of my girl friends will tell you they lie when asked the question.

yay for lying girls!

Why should they tell you the truth?

why should they lie?

I wouldn't give a crap about some random girl lying to me, but it would be something she should NOT lie about to a boyfriend. Lying right off the bat isn't a good foundation for a relationship

Read the thread


..............really the question shouldn't be asked.

 

[PingSpike]

Originally posted by: edmundoab
don't you think majority of us are selfish. (applied to the males)
wanting 0 sexual partner experience before us

and yet, we all try to get lucky all time.

Well of course...but its not like women's standards for men are consistent or fair either.

I want to say it doesn't matter...but the question is 'ideal' and the honest answer is the same as Gurcks.

Not sure I'd want a virgin though. What with the bleeding and likely being a crappy lay and all. I know I needed some practice.