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This weekend I have converted myself to ColdFusion, after playing one year with asp. What took me a month to learn and understand in asp, I was able to do in coldfusion in an hour or so. Database connections are MUCH easier, and the whole tag based system is easy to get used to (hey, just get an editor that colors the code out and you're all set).
Some things I like:
[*] As I said, database connections are much easier
[*] Don't have to mess with loops while showing database fields (damn, everyday I would lock my machine up because I ran a mal-formed asp code, filling up memory to the gigabytes)
[*] #cfvariables# are neat ... better than <% response.write aspvariable %> 

[*] A page written in CF is much smaller. I have "translated" the same ASP page into CF and the difference is incredible. Code is also much cleaner.
Some things I dislike:
[*] ColdFusion Express Server is too stripped down 

[*] ColdFusion Server Professional+ is too expensive ... U$1.000 is too much for an independent coder (like me) to deal with.
[*] Small number of free Coldfusion webhosting.
It would be great if Allaire/Macromedia would allow pro-version-only-tags to be available in the express version.Unfortunatelly, due to these disavantadges, I'll have to continue coding my new site with asp. 
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