Poll: Waiting to kiss until you are married!

Ika

Lifer
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haha

no.

to the poll question, anyway.

How about you? What do you think?
 

AreaCode707

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I know some folks that did, and they're perfectly happy going on their seventh year of marriage. Whatever works for you.

I find it really funny that there's a large societal push not to pass judgment on extreme promiscuity, but it's fine to pass judgment on extreme monogamy. Not that anyone in this thread has been judgmental so far, but it's only a matter of time.
 

AreaCode707

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Originally posted by: FelixDeKat
Im sweet 16 and Ive never been kissed. Im waiting until Im 64.

:music: Will you still need me, will you still feed me.. :music:
 

FelixDeCat

Lifer
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Originally posted by: HotChic
Originally posted by: FelixDeKat
Im sweet 16 and Ive never been kissed. Im waiting until Im 64.

:music: Will you still need me, will you still feed me.. :music:

If your name is Paul and youre worth 1 BILLION Ill divorce you when youre 64. :laugh:
 

redgtxdi

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I know a very young couple that did this recently.........I was SHOCKED!!!

They said it was to stave off temptation to go any further, but I dunno. That's just downright unreasonable, imho!!

I guess if you *can* do it and you *want* to do it, then whatever works, but I just can't imagine doing it myself.

My wife and I were less than "good" before we got married,(we were engaged for 13 months) and we just celebrated our 11th anniversary and I can't see us ever divorcing.

So for me......."no"

For folks who can and want to......."OK, I guess".
 

TheNinja

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Originally posted by: HotChic
I know some folks that did, and they're perfectly happy going on their seventh year of marriage. Whatever works for you.

I find it really funny that there's a large societal push not to pass judgment on extreme promiscuity, but it's fine to pass judgment on extreme monogamy. Not that anyone in this thread has been judgmental so far, but it's only a matter of time.

I agree with this post. Sure, waiting to kiss until married is not for everyone. But going around and screwing any chick that will talk to you is also not for everyone.
 

Fraggable

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I am a very firm believer in no sex before marriage but kissing - I see no problem with that.

I tend to believe that the level of intimacy should be appropriate for the level of commitment. Personally I would not kiss someone before I was engaged.

But I know plenty of Christians who believe that kissing before marriage is the only way to go. I respect their beliefs and understand their reasoning (what redgtxdi said) but that's just not the way I interpret God's laws on relationships.