[POLL] Should homosexual men/boys be allowed in the Boy Scouts of America?

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tm37

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<< What if a lesbian wanted to be in Girl Scouts? What would they do? Probably let her in. >>


Yep. The only youth organization (aside from church groups) that has a ban on homosexual membership is the Boy Scouts. Girl Scouts, Camp Fire, Blue Jays, Boys and Girls club, etc. are all fine with it.

Let me clarify one thing real quick: I AGREE that the BSA can (as long as they're a private organization without public funding) select their members with whatever criteria they wish. No one would tell the KKK to allow a Jewish or African American person into their organization. As it stand the BSA CAN, and SHOULD be albe to, do whatever they want. However, this was not my question. I want to know what YOU think about homosexuals in the BSA, not what you think the BSA's rights are. I understand why so many of us feel the need to say that the BSA can do what they want, but this was not the question.
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Well that question is difficult to answer BECAUSE there are many varibles.

Lets take a look at the scout mission statement.



<< The Boy Scouts of America is the nation's foremost youth program of character development and values-based leadership training. In the future Scouting will continue to

Offer young people responsible fun and adventure;
Instill in young people lifetime values and develop in them ethical character as expressed in the Scout Oath and Law;
Train young people in citizenship, service, and leadership;
Serve America's communities and families with its quality, values-based program
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Key word to veiw here is VALUE-BASED

What set of values?

THe Leadership of the scouts has decided that homosexuality is a LIFE-CHOICE and a sin. therefore it prohibits homosexuals from joining the boy scouts.

For that reason the scouts should not allow gays because it violates their own core values.

THe gay community SHOULD walk away from this but they are a protected class, they feel no one should be able to exclude them from any activity where public money is anywhere near the event.

Case in point -

ABout five Years ago the gay leaders in San Diego took to organizers of the St. Patrick's Day Parade to court because thoose orginizers would not allow them to have a GAY PRIDE float in the parade. The organizers made up mainly of IRISH CATHOLIC MEN felt there were TWO HUGE problems with the float.

1. The catholic church sees homosexuality as a sin
2. the parade is not the place to make a political statement but it's a time to celebrate the heritage that is IRISH CATHOLIC!

Of course the Gays won the court said that the float and accompaning people must be clean and decent and be consistant with the theme of the parade(which of course was impossible being it was the gay pride float), so on St. Patties day who comes walking down the street (this is going to sound crazy BUT IT'S TRUE) Tommy and timmy THE TESTICLE TWINS. Two men dressed as well testicles:Q

Of course this in no way even closely relates to the legand of St. Patrick BUT the gays claimed they were presenting their heritage, WHicj obivouly is balls.

Stream ahead just a few short months,

Time for GAY PRIDE PARADE. (same rules as far as funding and use of public streets)

A local radio show host (roger hedgecock)Applies to the organizers of the parade to have a STRAIGHT PRIDE float in the parade, They presented FULL detail of what the float would have (something the gays didn't do) and STRESSED that it would not be a ANTI-GAY demonstration BUT a we like being straight type of thing. they denied him (Saw that coming a mile away didn't you)

He takes them to court and SITES THE ORIGINAL CASE regarding St. Patty's day and LOSES!:Q SO there was no straight pride float in the Gay Pride Parade. :(

The Organizer claimed that (this is really good and I'm pretty sure they heard this somewhere else and didn;t think of it on there own)
"this is a time of celibration and not a time to to make a political Statement" (PARAPHARED:))

THE FACT IS THE GAY PRIDE PARADE IS A POLITAL STATEMENT!

Now what is INCLUSION?

Private organizations are PROTECTED BY LAW to have what ever rules and regulations they want to have to PEACIBLY ASSEMBLE (I am sure I read that phase somewhere;)) THese assemblies take place at numorous locals many of them PUBLIC FACILITIES (schools, parks and the like)

while there has been many studies saying that homosexuality is something you are born with there have been just as many that say it is a LIFESTYLE CHOICE. And orginizations are free to choose to exclude thoose that make BAD CHOICES in their opinion.

The scouts require that ALL scout Masters and Scout Condict themselves in accordance with their core values, Meaning a Single male that has say 5 girl friends is unfit to be a scout master. Someone who beats up gays is UNFIT to be a scout or scout master :Q

The scouts have Built many fine men through there program I would like to see any totally PC program that has the results of producing productive members of the commutities as the cub/boy/and eagle scout program.

On a Side note..

Ameesh there is a reson Bush want to fund some FAITH BASED PRORAMS. the fact is they work.

The government programs for chemical dependancy don't even come close to the results of the chirch based alternatives, and It is not required that you go to a faith based program just an OPTION (you know CHOICE). Same with the scouts, look at the results, and ask your selves, do the scouts actively promote the bashing of gays? No the scouts PREACH TOLERANCE, let them do as they like and we will live as we choose. Perhaps if we all did that we could get along allot better.

Sorry for the long post BUT this is an issue that really drives me mad, It is possible for the government to support groups that may exclude some groups based on the choices they make, and there is nothing wrong with that. When the scouts start beating up gays then You can cut use of any public facilities. Until then let them do as they please as a private orginaization.

I know there are Multiple Spelling errors and I really don't care.
 

MistaTastyCakes

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I believe they should be allowed in, and as for me being liberal.. I dunno.. I'm all over the board in political issues. I'm not very religious though. However, with the previous points standing, I also believe that the BSA has the right to keep em out since it's a private organization and all.. so, there's really no debate. We can all have our own opinions, but the only ones that matter in this case are the BSA's. I'm not exactly approving of it, but it's their opinion and they're allowed to have it.. welcome to America. :)

Besides.. homosexuality is contagious and satanic.. everyone knows that. ;)
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Epsil0n00

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<< I don't belive homosexuality is normal or right. Two men can't make a baby. God didn't mean for that to work, it was not supported in evolution. >>


Not to get into this too much but... there are more nerve endings in your anus (specifically your sphincter) than anywhere else in your body, aside from your lips I believe. The next two highly nerver-populated areas are the reproductive organs, specifically the frenulum of the penis and the clitoris of the vagina. Now, why would the anus have so many nerves, just like these other areas, if it were not meant for pleasure? Furthermore, there are mammals that have anal intercourse. If this act were so god-forsaken, why is it biologically supported and rewarded through pleasure?


 

QTPie

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<<Should homosexual men/boys be allowed in the Boy Scouts of America?>>

Hell no!
 

AnMig

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SPEEDY GONZALES WAS BANNED?? when did this happen.


Since the author of this thread asked for our oppinion not whether or not they (BSA) should be allowed to ban homosexual men I will give my oppinion.

I beleive that they should be allowed to join the BSA if they wanted to. Contrary to what a lot of people may think specially the older generation, homosexuality does not equate to pedophilia. I dont think homosexual men main goal in life is to get into every males pants.

In this day in age where tolerence should be taught I dont think isolating a certain group due to there sexual orientation is right (my opinion ).

Pedophiles however should have there testicles removed and fed to them over a nice cabarnet. I dont consider pedophilia a sexual orientation or a disease (as some church members have stated) I consider it a form of predation aimed at our most helpless children. I would equate them to serial killers.


Peace
 

staticfly

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As to money from the government. No, BSA doesn't recieve much if any at all.

However, we do get tax exemption (in my state), use of public buildings, and other donations. (IE, reduced price food for camps)

The prohibiting of gay leaders goes strait to the heart of the values that the boyscouts teach. I believe it is moraly wrong, and unnatural. If we all turned gay tommorow, there would be no humans left on earth in 100 years. I don't see how people can call homosexuality "natural" it is far from it. It seems obvious to me that it stems from some type of mental illness or chemical imballance. I really believe that we should look for a way to treat homosexuality. Of course this will NEVER happen so long homosexuals see it a "natural".
 

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<< Hmmm... I suppose that your opinion isn't worth much then, since they have studies proving that homosexuality does not pedafile. The overwhelming majority of child molestors are heterosexual. That's like saying that you shouldn't let your son be babysat by a woman, who knows if that woman wants to have sex with your son! >>



Let's look at some numbers:
University of Chicago study: 1% exclusively homosexual.
National Center for Health Statistics: Less than 3% homosexual or bisexual.
Dr. William Simon (research associate with Kinsey Institute): 1% males
mainly homosexual (however he estimates realistically 2-3%).
"Sex survey of American men finds 1% are gay"
by Felicity Barringer. New York Times, 15 April 1993

Pedophile rates:
In 1970 the Kinsey Institute (not Kinsey the Man) interviewed 565 white gays
in San Francisco: 25% of them admitted to having had sex with boys aged 16
or younger while they themselves were at least 21.

In The Gay Report, 23% of the gays and 6% of the lesbians admitted to sexual
interaction with youth less than 16 years of age.

In France, 129 convicted gays (average age 34 years) said they had had
sexual contact with a total of 11,007 boys (an average of 85 different boys
per man). Abel et al reported similarly that men who molested girls outside
their family had averaged 20 victims each; those who molested boys averaged
150 victims each.

So yes you can argue that since 97% - 99% of the population is straight that most child molesters are straight. When you figure in how prolific the homosexual pedophiles are, the your numbers take off in a new direction that is WAY out of proportion to their representation in society at large.
If you put aside all arguments of morality, it is very statistically unwise to allow homosexual leaders in scouts.
 

staticfly

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OK

With those statistics. For people who ADMITTED IT! Keep gays away from ALL kids.

I have some more information: I was at Philmont when the supreme court made one of their decisions on "whether gays must be let into BSA" and it was a HUGE topic. Most of my leader said they would quit scouting all together if this was allowed. Most parents said they would pull their children out of bsa.

I think most of us have been brainwashed by the media as to how "accepted" homosexuality is. I see it on tv all the time now. Frankly, I don't want to see it, and I don't know why its there. It iritates most people.
 

thraashman

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obviously since the BSA is a private organization they can do what they want. My problem with their policy is that they are teaching young men to be homophobic and that it is wrong to be yourself if that self is not Christian. All I can do is hope that they take the religious bigot cloth from over their eyes and see how the world should truly be. The only thing I can do is never allow any son of mine to join the BSA as long as they have the anti-gay policy.
 

bigredguy

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I would have expected more maturity from all you anandtechers. I am in the military and we have the same issue. I believe that the BSA could adopt a policy similar to the military. Its all right as long as you keep the two seperate. One of my best friends is a flaming homosexual. On base and in uniform he acts professional and keeps it to himself. I believe that if the military can accept gays in this way then so should anyone else, does not matter if they are private or public.

Just my own thoughts.

Oh by the way, I was just wondering how many of you homophobics out there have ever even sat down and talked to one of your gay peers? You speak out of ignorance at what you fear because you are too simple minded too accept people are different. Or, you question you own sexuality.
 

Epsil0n00

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Though I don't think that you're correct about the situations facing the BSA and US military being the same, you did say something I strongly agree with.


<< Oh by the way, I was just wondering how many of you homophobics out there have ever even sat down and talked to one of your gay peers? You speak out of ignorance at what you fear because you are too simple minded too accept people are different. >>


Nicely put. :)
 

tm37

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<< Oh by the way, I was just wondering how many of you homophobics out there have ever even sat down and talked to one of your gay peers? You speak out of ignorance at what you fear because you are too simple minded too accept people are different. Or, you question you own sexuality. >>



Different views means I'm ignorant?

Go look out the window, see that it's reality why don't you join the rest of us.

I Have worked with and BEEN FREINDS WITH:Q A few Homosexuals.

I have also had freinds that cheated on their wives:Q

There is a difference between tolerance and embracing anothers person's values.

From the dictionary

Tolerance -
tolerance

n 1: the power or capacity of an organism to tolerate unfavorable environmental conditions 2: a disposition to allow freedom of choice and behavior [syn: permissiveness] [ant: unpermissiveness] 3: the act of tolerating something 4: willingness to recognize and respect the beliefs or practices of others

It is possible to tolerate others in there life choices with allowing them to enter in to your realm of trust and love.

I can respect your choice to live as you want BUT you must then ALSO respect my choice to find that livestyle "sinful" or "odd" or whatever I want to think. I think homosexuality is wrong HOWEVER I don't let it be the basis for which the people I come in contact with be judged. I have ZERO problem with the BSA EXCLUDING gays much like I don;t have a problem with Augusta excluding women. PRIVATE orginization can exclude whomever they choose to apease their membership. They need to keep that membership happy in order to REMAIN INTACT.

They military's rule is a joke and having lived on a Carrier I understand why the navy is "anti-GAY" and was "anti-female" for so long. It isn't conductive for the system as a whole. Forcing people to change only brings out a backlash against that oppressed group. (and as far as I concerned being disallowed from scouting is hardly being oppressed.)

See there are to things you can do here, one you can call other names and use big words like "tolerance" and "ignorance" which you did OR you can explore other avenues. People what EVERY thing done for them. You don;t like the scouts stance on gays? here's an Idea- DON"T SUPPORT THE SCOUTS! WOW:Q If there are enough people like you the scouts will either die or change. People today feel that freedom should be easy but freedom is tough. You having one view is only freedom IF I can have and express a totally opposite view. When we do meet we can disscussion our contrasting views and either agree OR choose to disagree. I for one will have no ill will towards people that have different veiws than I have UNLESS they call me names or accuse me of being a bigot. THAT"S INTOLERANT!
 

glen

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I am republican or consider myself to be highly religious and believe that homosexuals should be allowed in the BSA.
 

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<< Should homosexual men/boys be allowed in the Boy Scouts of America?>>

Yes, it shouldn't even be an issue. As an Eagle Scout, I've learned that the problem kids in my troop were far from gay- they were just spoiled brats with something to prove. I would have gladly traded them in for some kid who was gay (and probably wouldn't talk about it).

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For an issue to be discussed is a shame.

Who says that we really left the middle ages? Damn conservatives.
 

bigredguy

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"I Have worked with and BEEN FREINDS WITH:Q A few Homosexuals."

Work with, sure. Been friends with, YEAH F\/CKING RIGHT. If you had been you would have been able to understand my point of view. You may have named them friend but you did not know them, you did not undertsand, and you must definitely never comprehended their world from their eyes. You are ignorant and everything you said exaggerates that point. Yes you can go pull some Webster dictionary out and try to redefine what i said or you can sit back in your chair and realize that until you have crawled out of your sheltered little existance and open your eyes to the world you have nothing to say to me and your opinions are quite invalid. Of course this would demonstrate a level of maruity that I believe your statements alone prove you lack.

 

tm37

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<< "I Have worked with and BEEN FREINDS WITH:Q A few Homosexuals."

Work with, sure. Been friends with, YEAH F\/CKING RIGHT. If you had been you would have been able to understand my point of view. You may have named them friend but you did not know them, you did not undertsand, and you must definitely never comprehended their world from their eyes. You are ignorant and everything you said exaggerates that point. Yes you can go pull some Webster dictionary out and try to redefine what i said or you can sit back in your chair and realize that until you have crawled out of your sheltered little existance and open your eyes to the world you have nothing to say to me and your opinions are quite invalid. Of course this would demonstrate a level of maruity that I believe your statements alone prove you lack.
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Ignorant because I don't share your point of veiw I think Not.

Yes I have been freinds with and even gone out socially with GAY MEN. Now do I think there chosen lifestlye is the best? NO i don't. Can I look past a persons faults and still make nice with them and even stand up for them as people, yes I can. The difference is you are unable to remove the person from the cause and every thing is black and white. I feel uncomforable watching to men GET IT ON in public and watching to women GET IT ON and watching a man and a women GET IT ON in public. My thought to all three is GET A ROOM. I don't care what your sexual prefernce is however it should not be a public thing somethings are left in the bedroom. I would have no problem if a gay couple moved next to me UNLESS they made their sexuality define who they are. That is the difference I was freinds with guys that were gay yet that isn't all they were about. I am totally against ANYONE telling a PRIVATE orginization who they must admit. And unlike some I can stand behind my convictions and not be totally blinded by what you conceve is right.

I am against reperations and affermative action so I must be racist.

I am against any male female quotias so I must be sexist.

I am FOR people doing what they think is right, and allowing the collective to made a choice.

Lets say I sell tools in Mississippi and a FLAMING HOMOSEXUAL applies to sell tools for me, should I be forced to hire him because he is gay or should i be allowed to turn him down because my customer base is STUPID and they won't buy from a "queer".

That fact is they BSA is doing what is best for there prginization and if they were to openly embrace homosexuality they could lose a sizable amount of there clientel.

Perhaps someday you can see past what a person is and see who they are because I know I can.

Just because I think the BSA should retian there rights as a PRIVATE ORGINAZION means I can see the big picture.

I would have no more problem leaving my son with a gay man (that I knew) than a straight man (again that I knew). So I guess you just can't see me for who I am and only make assumtions of what I am.

If you really think that my ability to see things clearer than you makes me "immature" than you just don't get it.

Sorry to bring this back to the top but I was checking the "today" feature and got curious.
 

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Who cares????? They don't, they are now a private organization, and all the whining in the world won't change it........right or wrong it is their perogitive. I read an article on the subject a while back which stated that one of the main reasons they went with and fought to keep the policy even giving up "non - profit" status was fear of being sued by a gay members family when the member was picked on or tormented by other members at a camp or outing. I can see their point as the most severe cruelty can often be teens whom understand enough about things to know some people are different but also have no capacity to care or realize how much damage they can do. It probably is a valid point they were afraid of.........
 

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First of all I havent seen where scouts have been refused or kicked out of the organization because they are gay.. I feel they should be allowed to participate.
I do have a problem with Gay doods being allowed to be scoutmasters. Why expose your organiziation and the children to that kind of potential risk. All it takes is one case of abuse by an authority figure IE gay scoutmaster. What is the price of that scoutmasters freedom.? The destruciton or violation of a youngster,? it isnt worth the life of one kid being messed up. Just in order for gays win another battle for their rights.
You didnt have a vote choice that offer the following Gay scout masters NO... Gay scouts YES (under a dont ask dont tell policy) remember the boy scouts stands for morality (it is a key word in the scout oath.) this would have been my choice.

AS far government funding... I defy you to put up or shut up on that issue.. We received no funding. We payed dues and did fund raisers and provided our own funding for our activities.. the scoutmasters were unpaid volunteers. Patrol moms were volunteers.
the meeting were held in a Church.

I am an indepenent. I lean heavily to the conservative side moraly & physically and am moderate on alot of key issues.

to address the parade issue... There I believe there was a hell of a battle between the gays and the Irish community in NY Particularly the Irishmen that sponsor the St patty's day parade.
Gay took em to court to be allowed to march in the parade.. Gays won and the bottom line was there was no st patties day parade that year ..
It was like 3 years ago (I could be mistaken) But am pretty shure thats the way it went down


 

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They military's rule is a joke and having lived on a Carrier I understand why the navy is "anti-GAY" and was "anti-female" for so long. It isn't conductive for the system as a whole. Forcing people to change only brings out a backlash against that oppressed group. (and as far as I concerned being disallowed from scouting is hardly being oppressed.)


you just brought up an arguement they used against intergration with black people not so long ago:p


bottom line is the boyscouts used to be an honored organization that gave boys a chance to experience wonderful things. they failed to change with the times, and frankly no longer deserve respect. being an eagle scout used to mean something, now its so tarnished its basically worthless.

they are fueled by pride, fear and ignorance:p its just so sad. and don't even say i know nothing about boyscouts, i was one:)

I Have worked with and BEEN FREINDS WITH A few Homosexuals.

I have also had freinds that cheated on their wives


equating the dishonest act of cheating on your wife with homosexuality shows how out of touch you are. one is definetly a choice, the other one probably isn't. if in the core of your being you know you could definetly chose to be a homosexual...well thats just you.


and frankly, these kinds of policies only drive people underground. many boyscouts were gay and didn't come out for obvious reasons. were they bad scouts? hah! right...

i've heard the mormon church pretty much controls the bsa:p sad.


and according to tm37's view of the world, i could be tollerant of black people. but think they are fundamentally corrupt:) yay! i'm ok with u, but your EVIL!!

sweet disconnect...
 

tm37

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Nefrodite-
Once again you have totally missed the point.

I look at WHO THE PERSON IS NOT WHAT THEY ARE.

I believe that homosexuality is a choice NOT some thing you are born with. For that reason I do nopt think they are a "protected class" and ANY PRIVATE orginization is entitled to disallow membership because of choices you make.

IE if I run a car enthusitist club and I hink chevys are bad I can DISALLOW people that what to show Chevys in the club. MY CHOICE same with the BSA they can disallow ANYONE who makes choices that don't follow the path that they have set out. IT'S REALLY THAT SIMPLE.

As for me thinking that all gays are evil. DID I SAY THAT? NO!

Believe me I know I have many faults of my own I really don't have time to dwell on other peoples faults;)

Here's the real deal for all of you who automatically think that just because some of us don't think the gays are a protected class are automatically raging homophobes I will put this into bold and underlined text.

LOOK AT WHO THE PERSON IS NOT WHAT THEY ARE

When I meet someone I don't start thinking about what they may or may not do in their bedroom (or kitchen for that matter) IF they happen to be gay even the swishing flaming homosexual i have no problem UNTIL they make their CHOSEN LIFESTYLE AN ISSUE. I take no issue with someones sexuality UNTIL they make it an issue.

There are times that the detriment to the collective far outweighs the benifit to the individual. I will not lie and say I would have no problem with a gay bunk mate on a ship, I would also be uncomfortable with a female bunkmate that I had zero interest in. Living aboard ship is a very intimate setting 50-150 guys sleeping in 3 high racks where every thing you do can be watched by anyone who pleases.

So just because I don't agree with their chosen behavior I automatically HATE them using your logic. Agian we are talking about a behavior or action. Agian I can look past some behavioral differences and practice tolerance HOWEVER INCLUSION BECAUSE OF A BEHAVIORAL CHOICE IS WRONG.
 

Nefrodite

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Nefrodite-
Once again you have totally missed the point.

I look at WHO THE PERSON IS NOT WHAT THEY ARE.

I believe that homosexuality is a choice NOT some thing you are born with. For that reason I do nopt think they are a "protected class" and ANY PRIVATE orginization is entitled to disallow membership because of choices you make.



and that is based on nothing but your belief eh? if its truely a choice then anyone can turn homosexual. if even one person cannot turn homosexual, there goes your theory. its unlikely your conclusion is true. as you said, its nothing but a belief. and if someone cannot always choose who they love then you are wrong, you are VERY wrong. its pretty similar to saying gender is a choice, that nurture is more powerful then nature. the medical community used to think so, so they would raise/convert botched circumcisions/ambiguous genitilia to female thinking that nurture was the most powerful force. boy were they wrong, and many lives were ruined. is it so hard to believe that a biochemical machine as our brains could be wired different for some? there are so many other things that can and do go wrong:p only a small mind would not allow for such differences.

and i didn't say anything about forcing a private organization to do something. you can however use pressure to change an organization. many people including former scouts think the scouts could continue to be of great benifit to society if they could become more tolerant. if they don't, well they simply don't deserve any respect.



IE if I run a car enthusitist club and I hink chevys are bad I can DISALLOW people that what to show Chevys in the club. MY CHOICE same with the BSA they can disallow ANYONE who makes choices that don't follow the path that they have set out. IT'S REALLY THAT SIMPLE.


your comparing who you are attracted to with car preference? um.. ok.



As for me thinking that all gays are evil. DID I SAY THAT? NO!

Believe me I know I have many faults of my own I really don't have time to dwell on other peoples faults

Here's the real deal for all of you who automatically think that just because some of us don't think the gays are a protected class are automatically raging homophobes I will put this into bold and underlined text.

LOOK AT WHO THE PERSON IS NOT WHAT THEY ARE



funny, your position is basic hipocracy. your last line doesn't mesh with the belief that homosexuality is fundamentally wrong because of religious or other reasons. its a fault because you say it is.. yes thats the ticket. frankly thats like banning jews from the boyscouts because many see it as a "fault". and yes according to that last line, the boyscouts shouldn't be respected since they don't look at the person for who the are, only what they are. as for your rant about gays being a protected class, they obviously need protection still.



When I meet someone I don't start thinking about what they may or may not do in their bedroom (or kitchen for that matter) IF they happen to be gay even the swishing flaming homosexual i have no problem UNTIL they make their CHOSEN LIFESTYLE AN ISSUE. I take no issue with someones sexuality UNTIL they make it an issue.

There are times that the detriment to the collective far outweighs the benifit to the individual. I will not lie and say I would have no problem with a gay bunk mate on a ship, I would also be uncomfortable with a female bunkmate that I had zero interest in. Living aboard ship is a very intimate setting 50-150 guys sleeping in 3 high racks where every thing you do can be watched by anyone who pleases.

So just because I don't agree with their chosen behavior I automatically HATE them using your logic. Agian we are talking about a behavior or action. Agian I can look past some behavioral differences and practice tolerance HOWEVER INCLUSION BECAUSE OF A BEHAVIORAL CHOICE IS WRONG.


i'm sorry, you just seem scared and uptight and frankly the same arguements been used against blacks. you've convinced yourself its a behvaioral choice... maybe you have your own experience as proof. i certainly don't. and one cannot read the mind of others, so to make concrete judgements like that only proves your closeted or close minded.
 

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just for your information, it has been proven that homosexual guys pocess a part of their brain that is identical to females. hypothalamus i believe. so there is no way its a choice, its something you are born with. excluding gays from the BSA is like excluding any other minority and i don't have to tell you thats wrong.

me