Originally posted by: agnitrate
Do you think their behavior is healthy?
I don't think I would have so much of a problem with their behavior if they weren't acting as childish as they were. Hopefully your sister and her boyfriend, being well into their twenties, act like adults and are much more tolerable to be around. If not, we can start a support group and scheme to fix things
-silver
There are other things about their relationship that arent very healthy, but its nothing to do with the time they spend together.
My husband and I on the otherhand are very "snuggly" towards one another. Infact, I've even overheard someone say eww we make them sick with our 'sweetness' towards one another. But you know what I say to that? fvck em, they are jealous that they dont get as much affection in their relationship, or lack thereof.
I'm glad you can do that. I'm sure you two act like mature adults and your friends actually enjoy being around you since you aren't hanging off of each other all the time. If that's the case, hang on to her since she's most likely a keeper.
I probably should have phrased that as those who act like I specified. This mostly applies to college students since adults rarely act in this fashion. If you are over 25, consider yourself exempt.
Sometimes. I do have a job so I frequently interact with people, but it's difficult to find people to talk to in CS and math classes
It's much easier to be social when people take liberal arts and don't have to study for their classes. However, it's much more comforting to know that while those people might be enjoying a few nights out with friends every now and then, that I'm not losing $25,000 a year on school and throwing my education away. While those people will be off doing crappy jobs, I will hopefully have some job security since I actually learned something in school.I wasn't specifically 'talking sh!t' about you. If what I said doesn't apply to you, move on. I know tons of couples in which neither of them is 'whipped'. Perhaps you're the one that's insecure in your position?
[edit] p.s. welcome to ATOT. trying to get me angry will take much more than that
[/edit]-silver
Wrong. I've lost all respect for my friend. Somebody who doesn't stand up for themselves is worthless. When your girlfriend is destroying all ties to your other friends, somebody is definitely getting hurt.
-silver
Siddhartha
Lifer
- Oct 17, 1999
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That's the whole point of this thread!
When we go home over winter break, he didn't hang out with our best friend back home at all! They were together for 3 whole weeks even though she practically lives with him now. I miss hanging out with my friend when she's not around. *shrug* It's like she automatically wins because she has a vagina. I can accept that but still would like to be doing fun things with him and our friends every now and then.-silver
The issue is the "schmoopie" baby talk thing, not the amount of time they spend together. My fiancee and I are together most of the time, but we don't do that schmoopie stuff. At least not around others
i spend a lot of time with my dude...usually we're either having lunch/dinner/meals together or we're just hanging out watching tv...or we're with friends...or we're sleeping/napping/*other*. But lately we've been hanging out less b/c of some issues and b/c i'm starting to think his roomie hates me. heheh...
and we DEFINITELY don't talk like your roommate and his gf...although sometimes I do like to talk cute and pout and all that cutesy stuff...but it's ALWAYS only when we're alone and playing around (being silly).
and we DEFINITELY don't talk like your roommate and his gf...although sometimes I do like to talk cute and pout and all that cutesy stuff...but it's ALWAYS only when we're alone and playing around (being silly).
you should get her drunk as all hell and fvck her (despite the fact you "wouldn't touch her w/ a ten foot pole"). then see how much time they spend together.
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I don't spend more than a few hours a week with my girlfriend. If I spend any more time than that with her, I'm afraid the wife might get suspicious.
anxi80
Lifer
- Jul 7, 2002
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you got the wrong nba player for a wife-beater reference...i think you'd be looking for this jersey.
Hello. I'm 20. I'm a college student. I'm a retired franchiser (read- womanizer) I've been going out with my g/f for about a year and a few months. We practically live together despite each having our own places. We're with each other on average of 16 hours a day.
Is that bad?
eh?
eh?
Is that bad?
eh?
eh?
Personally, I only get to see my SO on the weekends, but she sleeps over so its pretty much an all day affair. But on those 2-3 days, we both do our own thing a lot of the time, and most of the time we're just vegging out. We're both lazy bastards. Sometimes shes got to do some work, sometimes Ive just got to play some ut2k4, and thats alright with both of us. Sometimes we get all cutesy, but we're just being silly. Nothing wrong with that. Besides, we like to snuggle, and we like to *snuggle*.
One of my roomates is exactly like you describe. Id give examples but its pretty much doug christie through and through. We're all praying for him.
That being said, youre still a dick. It may be annoying, but its not your business. Theres jealousy tinged in every word you type. I feel your pain and all, but its all his choice.
And dont try blaming your lack of social life on your major. CS majors have time to hang out, and liberal arts majors have to do plenty of work too. If you saw the amount of reading and writing a history major has to do you'd probably cry and run back to your programs, and thank the lord you arent one.
One of my roomates is exactly like you describe. Id give examples but its pretty much doug christie through and through. We're all praying for him.
That being said, youre still a dick. It may be annoying, but its not your business. Theres jealousy tinged in every word you type. I feel your pain and all, but its all his choice.
And dont try blaming your lack of social life on your major. CS majors have time to hang out, and liberal arts majors have to do plenty of work too. If you saw the amount of reading and writing a history major has to do you'd probably cry and run back to your programs, and thank the lord you arent one.
im 20
wifes 21
i spend about 2 hours a day with her at the most, she calls me when im not around to talk to me...so when i see her, i have nothing to talk to her about, and its very boring :/
/frustrated
wifes 21
i spend about 2 hours a day with her at the most, she calls me when im not around to talk to me...so when i see her, i have nothing to talk to her about, and its very boring :/
/frustrated
as little as possible, well id like that anyways, but thats impossible, chicks are retards and need more attention than a newborn baby
she can talk for like 5 hours straight about nothing, ive set the fone down for 30 minutes before and did something else, and shes still blabbing....it sucks when shes here cuz she whines when i do anything other than talk/sit with her
someone kill me...or just her, yea, kill her
she can talk for like 5 hours straight about nothing, ive set the fone down for 30 minutes before and did something else, and shes still blabbing....it sucks when shes here cuz she whines when i do anything other than talk/sit with her
someone kill me...or just her, yea, kill her
I'm 20, she's 21, and it's usually 5+. We're in the same major, have classes together, even work in the same place. Neither one of us calls the shots, so I don't consider myself whipped at all. And it's not like we're dependent on each other; we've gone for months only seeing each other once a week max. And no, we don't make people sick.
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